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Advice Wanted FAT DUDE FINDING HARD TO GET A DATE, Advice Needed

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mugenz
post Aug 24 2009, 01:56 PM

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quite funny sial.. Does size really matter??
i think u havent met the person yet.. go out and find.. obviously u will felt low self-esteem.. however think of it from the inner beauty side..

And one thing when u get ur gf.. pls be self-sufficient.. lol
mugenz
post Aug 24 2009, 02:09 PM

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QUOTE(Reizz @ Aug 24 2009, 02:03 PM)
hes asking for advice man... why dun u just give a nice 1 rather than flame him just like that? sporting abit ba
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no use... these ppl memang love all this kind of topics.. they can come in and blast T.S.. actually they themselves also one of a kind.. taking ppl's thread to release their own anger and hatred..


mugenz
post Aug 24 2009, 04:14 PM

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QUOTE(majorarmstrong @ Aug 24 2009, 03:08 PM)
Brother and Sister in Lyn,

Thank you so much for your advice. I am REALLY FAT with a BIG STOMACH so i feel i will insult everyone if i were to post up the picture of my body.

Anyway, i have tried to hit on FAT chicks who is above 70KG and turns out to be the same story and they also try to avoid me.

I use to go to gym when i was young and now the muscle turn to FAT already so is really bad.

The problem statement here is FAT CHICKS will avoide FAT DUDE..

So the only solution for FAT GUYS like me with Ugly looking face is to slim down still go for FAT CHICKS....

I dont mind dating FAT CHICKS is just that they dont even want to give me a chance to further the relationship and always hint me indirectly and it sounded like "LOOK FOR SOMEONE YOUR OWN SIZE" or "FATASS PLEASE LOOK INTO THE MIRROR" or "WE ARE NOT THE SAME CATEGORY" or "f*** OFF AND DONT COME NEAR ME".

This is how i feel although they dont said it out loud...

Anyway, i am the type who like really FAT CHICKS or really SLIM CHICKS (BONY TYPE). Since slim one is totally out of reach i guess i am going after FAT ones.. but still same result.

So i guess the answer for me is to go do my GYM really slim down.

some of you were asking about my diet... i only eat 2 meals a day and is a decent portion so is not the food that make me fat... the problem is that both my parents are really fat cause they are genetically that way. Same goes to all my sibilings.

I also dont blame my mom and dad for this as i guess i need to really put in extra effort to look into going GYM and taking diet pills or slimming tea....

Anyway, feel free to give your opinion on the PROBLEM STATEMENT which is FAT CHICKS will avoide FAT DUDE as well!!!

Thank you to everyone who contributed. I am sorry if i happen to insult some fat dude in LYN by this post but i just need to express what i feel.

Thank you all.
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dude.. i freaking dun agree fat guy = fat girl.. really depends on ppl.. u think every girls out there only judge by appearance? hell no way.. your problem like others said is not a problem, it just self-induced.. the only problem u have is u havent met the right person.. u need know more ppl.. whether frens or potential gf.. then u will know that after all u wont rejected by the other sex..

Take time know more ppl.. if u doesnt wan to be fat then do something about from now.. whether u gonna sweat it out or pay money for it. But if u do it this way, its not u yourself anymore.. think twice..
mugenz
post Aug 24 2009, 04:26 PM

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QUOTE(suiteng @ Aug 24 2009, 04:24 PM)
Well, I dated a 90kg guy when I was 45kg.
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no offence ur status there wrote your a male..

but if ur a female using a male's acc lol.. then why u actually dated a bigger size partner? coz they are funny? friendly? they have their own characteristics? not faggotish? like "oh no.. i m not goin to eat that, its fattening.. oh no i need takecare of my muscles.. my packs???..." sickening..

i find bigger size ppl are the most down to earth ppl.. they dun care about appearance.. they dun stereotype ppl..

This post has been edited by mugenz: Aug 24 2009, 04:28 PM
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post Aug 24 2009, 04:40 PM

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QUOTE(slushie @ Aug 24 2009, 04:34 PM)
well.. be confident, have a good walking posture (trust me it helps), upgrade ur facial appearance (style up ur hair, make urself clean), and the way u dress. make sure it conceals ur weaknesses and accentuates ur best features.

And of coz... ur personality must stand out.
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cute dog..

how to conceal when ur really big sized.. if ur moderate then can still conceal.. i also wanna know wat is acceptable..
mugenz
post Aug 24 2009, 04:49 PM

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but then the most curious thing is izzit really that bad as wat TS described girls will just run away from him just because his size.. hmmm girls.. any comment?
mugenz
post Aug 24 2009, 04:54 PM

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QUOTE(Gr3yL3gion @ Aug 24 2009, 04:51 PM)
we need his pictures to determine his somasotype.
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hahahahaa.. well.. no matter wat self determination and esteem is very important... if he looks okie but lack of these qualities, still wont get chicks..
mugenz
post Aug 24 2009, 05:16 PM

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hahahaha... just an advise b4 comment on others..

"PLEASE DO BELIEVE IN KARMA"
mugenz
post Aug 25 2009, 10:39 AM

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hahahaha wong jing hahahaa

tumpang thread since talking about gym and fitness.. how much u guys are paying for gym class? i was planning to take True Fitness @ sec 14.. any idea?

back to the topic, besides slimming down, try improving other aspects which u think lacking.. for example, humour? appearance? fashion sense? i guess it will really help.. but dun over-do it.. as it will turn u into a poser lol~

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