ur solution would be fat + money xp

I've said this before, that it isn't jus to do with your weight. If you are overweight, it could reflect attitude and have to do with your personality, in the eyes of not just women but people in particular. If you have weight issues and do not want to work towards rectifying them, one could conclude that you are lazy. Who would choose to go out with someone that is lazy even if he is good looking? If you do not see the need to do something about it, one could also conclude that you are stubborn, sloppy and undisciplined. Now this may all be untrue but like it or not, people do judge others on their appearance. I admire overweight people who take this to heart and work hard to lose their access weight. I know two such friend and although it wasn't easy, they prevailed. Heck on of them was even photographed for a men's magazine. Such was the amount of weight he lost. Being overweight also leads to health concerns.

Now I'm not here to take the piss but rather I'm here to point out how weight issues can sometimes reflect personality. None of the traits I mentioned above are positive ones. I'm not saying people who are overweight won't find women, but it's definitely harder especially if you don't have a personality to compensate. How do you compensate? By having a winning personality but like I said, it's hard for women to think you have one if you don't care much for your physical appearance.

Lol...so bad

No, don't do that for the girls. Do it for yourself. DUH.

If you're charming (attitude), then fat or not it's not a problem.
Make sure you smell nice, looks clean and dress up nicely.

Whether you able to slim down or not, that's entirely up to you to decide.
I got a friend which has a model-like gf, even though he's fat, he got all the
points mentioned above. Meaning he's a pleasant friend to have around.

no... just be yourself.... u need to have sense of humour... ^^... but u said ur fat + emo... for sure... no girls with talk to u or even mate with u... just be open minded maybe... jokes and try to improove ur oral comunication with any ppl .... im also trying lolz ^^ but im not fat....

This post has been edited by Reizz: Aug 24 2009, 01:50 PM

no need to go on DIET, GYM, PILLS or LIPOSUCTION!!!..just reduce your weight will do

quite funny sial.. Does size really matter??
i think u havent met the person yet.. go out and find.. obviously u will felt low self-esteem.. however think of it from the inner beauty side..

And one thing when u get ur gf.. pls be self-sufficient.. lol

I just get incredibly annoyed by people who know they have a weakness, but are too lazy to do anything about it, yet whine/complain when they don't get what they want.

hes asking for advice man... why dun u just give a nice 1 rather than flame him just like that? sporting abit ba

+1.

if u ugly face, lose weight liao, stil nobody want.

Then open thread

"fugly guy finding hard to get a date after losing weight"

Evan, long time no see

no use... these ppl memang love all this kind of topics.. they can come in and blast T.S.. actually they themselves also one of a kind.. taking ppl's thread to release their own anger and hatred..

maybe ^^"

my advice..just go for your level only..dont dream for higher class except you've "ayat power" or money power...

TS problem is not a problem at all, or a problem which he self induced. He might has been rejected all too often by girls half his weight, hence come to conclusion girls dun like him coz he's fat.

He should've be FAIR first and try hit on girls weighing at least 2/3 of his weight (70kg++) , and im sure he wont have problem finding a partner/date/soulmate.

If ONLY he willing to do that.

Very very rare occasion guys will hit a 70kg++ lady.... I am not trying to put some flame on fat girls (yea...I am straight....hate me ...coz i dont know any betterr words for a girl who is up to 70kgs.....its hard to achieve and yet fat girls achieved that weight succesfully)

you see, the point...No matter how a guy looks like or how high/low a guy's standard is.... Guys tend to look for a thin girl.... a fit one indeed....I bet it's the 1st requirement for a guy to look at a girl.... Maybe because fat ones are more emotional and have weird smells.... You see....the thing is....

Everyone are given a body to take care of... You can make it look fit/ fat (although u cant really make it longer or taller...maybe to some extends....ot u cant make your bone bigger....only if your father or mother is an european or has big bones) Everyone is given a body of a shape....started from thin, weak, tiny ones.....you are free to design it best fitted to the trends....Since the trends for last 200-300 years preferred an ahtele build ones....then let's go and design one for yourself...

A 70 ++ kgs girl has the rights to do this as well.... It all DEPENDS whether they choose a life of running in the park 3 days a week or sitting infront of their pc holding KFC and McD playing online games....

"Now, I say to you today my friends, even though we face the difficulties of today and tomorrow, I still have a dream. It is a dream deeply rooted in the American dream. I have a dream that one day this nation will rise up and live out the true meaning of its creed: - 'We hold these truths to be self-evident, that all men are created equal.'"


Speech at Civil Rights March on Washington, August 28, 1963

Martin Luther King Jr.

Although the quote concerned about civil rights....but I am trying to highlight the last sentence Martin uses in his quote... Everyone are created equal.

This post has been edited by liez: Aug 24 2009, 02:55 PM

Brother and Sister in Lyn,

Thank you so much for your advice. I am REALLY FAT with a BIG STOMACH so i feel i will insult everyone if i were to post up the picture of my body.

Anyway, i have tried to hit on FAT chicks who is above 70KG and turns out to be the same story and they also try to avoid me.

I use to go to gym when i was young and now the muscle turn to FAT already so is really bad.

The problem statement here is FAT CHICKS will avoide FAT DUDE..

So the only solution for FAT GUYS like me with Ugly looking face is to slim down still go for FAT CHICKS....

I dont mind dating FAT CHICKS is just that they dont even want to give me a chance to further the relationship and always hint me indirectly and it sounded like "LOOK FOR SOMEONE YOUR OWN SIZE" or "FATASS PLEASE LOOK INTO THE MIRROR" or "WE ARE NOT THE SAME CATEGORY" or "f*** OFF AND DONT COME NEAR ME".

This is how i feel although they dont said it out loud...

Anyway, i am the type who like really FAT CHICKS or really SLIM CHICKS (BONY TYPE). Since slim one is totally out of reach i guess i am going after FAT ones.. but still same result.

So i guess the answer for me is to go do my GYM really slim down.

some of you were asking about my diet... i only eat 2 meals a day and is a decent portion so is not the food that make me fat... the problem is that both my parents are really fat cause they are genetically that way. Same goes to all my sibilings.

I also dont blame my mom and dad for this as i guess i need to really put in extra effort to look into going GYM and taking diet pills or slimming tea....

Anyway, feel free to give your opinion on the PROBLEM STATEMENT which is FAT CHICKS will avoide FAT DUDE as well!!!

Thank you to everyone who contributed. I am sorry if i happen to insult some fat dude in LYN by this post but i just need to express what i feel.

Thank you all.

Inb4don'tfeedthetroll

And

Yes, this is win.

read my previous posting just above what you have posted... then you will understand...

http://forum.lowyat.net/topic/1140632