Advice Wanted FAT DUDE FINDING HARD TO GET A DATE, Advice Needed
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 Aug 24 2009, 09:09 AM
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QUOTE(Gr3yL3gion @ Aug 24 2009, 04:29 AM) I used to be fatter than you. How do u slim down then?Anyway, if you don't want to change, don't set your target too high. Find someone that's around your weight range as well. Cheers.  Do you do that for girls? |
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Aug 24 2009, 09:53 AM
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1. Change your attitude. And a change in attitude would involve the things that you do not want to do.
Or else, 2. Take a very good care of your hygiene, your appearance. Be metrosexual if you can. 3. Have a very high sense of self confidence. But then again, don't put high hope because physical/outer look does make an impression |
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Aug 24 2009, 09:55 AM
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108 posts Joined: Nov 2007
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yes physical outlook does play an important role.. when i got dumped... i lost nearly 20kg for tat in 6 months... just do it man... it makes a lot of difference... being bubbly is not the trend right now..
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Aug 24 2009, 09:59 AM
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2,834 posts Joined: Jul 2006 From: here
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to TS,
if you see a 105kg fat chick.. you want to hit on her? or you respond will be "urghh... she's gonna suffocate me" Now look at the mirror again. |
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Aug 24 2009, 10:00 AM
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1,361 posts Joined: Oct 2006 From: Cyberspace
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got a picture?
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Aug 24 2009, 10:03 AM
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QUOTE(WaCKy-Angel @ Aug 24 2009, 02:18 AM) My fren weight more than u but still able to get gf, and his gf is about 1/3 his weight. ada ah wang ada ah moi..So? go gym or gtfo. no excuse |
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Aug 24 2009, 10:14 AM
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hmm.
i think 105kg is not a measurement of fat. people can be heavy but have a big structure / body structure as well. some are just big sized. no doubt 105 kg is high, but if it does not show with very obvious love handles or signs of obesity, its entirely different. therefore, i suggest, PIC PLS. and we can tell wehther u are fat or not. ppl think i'm around 80kg but in fact, i'm 100kg. i'm around 178-180cm. |
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Aug 24 2009, 10:17 AM
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54 posts Joined: Oct 2007 From: House On 1st Floor~ No musics No Life
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FAT NOT AN EXCUSE~~
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Aug 24 2009, 10:18 AM
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12,275 posts Joined: Dec 2005 From: KL
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People are advising you to go for fat chicks but even fat chicks would avoid someone your size. |
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Aug 24 2009, 10:19 AM
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QUOTE(Salience @ Aug 24 2009, 11:14 AM) hmm. But TS titled his topic describing himself as fat + fail to get date. with such combo, its pretty much moving towards the "unappealing" fat than than "heavy but hunky". If its the latter, he wont have problem getting date/girls, right?i think 105kg is not a measurement of fat. Do you doubt his own description/date-less fate as being inaccurate? |
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Aug 24 2009, 10:21 AM
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54 posts Joined: Oct 2007 From: House On 1st Floor~ No musics No Life
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anything wrong with fat ppl ?????
still human right????? my friend is Fxxxxxxg fat but have a pretty gf...becoz he is nice and good if the girl dun wan be friend with u .....becoz of ur look or size...ask the girl to F off ....... |
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Aug 24 2009, 10:23 AM
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just ask urself TS... would u wan to date a fat chick.. if u r then no need gym... if u wan to date someone slim.. do something to urself first... those fat ppl who got cun chicks.. their lucky... but not every fat dude is.. dun count on tat... face this cruel fact my fren
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Aug 24 2009, 10:23 AM
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QUOTE(Salience @ Aug 24 2009, 10:14 AM) hmm. 175cm/105kg is fat no matter how big boned you are.i think 105kg is not a measurement of fat. people can be heavy but have a big structure / body structure as well. some are just big sized. no doubt 105 kg is high, but if it does not show with very obvious love handles or signs of obesity, its entirely different. therefore, i suggest, PIC PLS. and we can tell wehther u are fat or not. ppl think i'm around 80kg but in fact, i'm 100kg. i'm around 178-180cm. His BMI is 34. I have never seen a person with a BMI over 32 that does not look obese. Despite all it's shortfalls, the BMI system is logarithmic and as you go over 30, you start to look really really fat. |
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Aug 24 2009, 10:33 AM
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have you seen body builders then?
and notice their BMI? |
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Aug 24 2009, 10:35 AM
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eat FAT chicks lo... got pretty nt bad d.. lol... at least u dun have GF breast is flat issue...
ps: thats my issue.. |
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Aug 24 2009, 10:37 AM
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QUOTE(Salience @ Aug 24 2009, 11:33 AM) have you seen body builders then? LOL. You only focus on the 105kg in TS post and DIDN'T READ the rest of what he typed.and notice their BMI? TS wrote: QUOTE I just feel that chicks will try to avoid FAT DUDE... I doubt he is a bodybuilder nor a gym-goer. Do you wish to doubt his statement above and insist he wrongly described himself as fat unless he posted his pic to be judged by us here?So any advice other than asking me to go on DIET, GYM, PILLS or LIPOSUCTION!!! This post has been edited by alanyuppie: Aug 24 2009, 10:38 AM |
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Aug 24 2009, 10:40 AM
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I'm 171 with 95KG.
Damn it, you're insulting me!! |
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Aug 24 2009, 10:43 AM
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alan, i think u are focusing on his shortfalls.
i think being heavy is not a reason not being able to get a date. if a person brings himself up well, success can happen. from the way i see it, TS is insecure about himself. the only way to deal with it is to work something out since he can't stand his own physical attributes. other than that, if being able to carry himself well, i don't think there is a problem. |
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Aug 24 2009, 11:23 AM
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Fat + Good/cute face = got chance.
Fat + Ugly face = you do the math.. |
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Aug 24 2009, 11:35 AM
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QUOTE(Salience @ Aug 24 2009, 10:33 AM) have you seen body builders then? Read TS post carefully.and notice their BMI? He doesnt even go to the gym. QUOTE A BMI from 20 through 26: desirable for most middle-aged adults. Nonsmokers with a consistent BMI within this range have the lowest risk of disease and premature death. In this category, weight gain can be avoided through moderate eating habits and exercise. A BMI from 27 through 29: moderately overweight, carries a slightly increased risk of weight-related health problems, such as high blood pressure, high blood cholesterol, heart disease and adult-onset diabetes. People in this group have the hardest decision to make about reducing, given the potential health risks of weight loss. To prevent the development of weight-related health problems, most people in this category should avoid gaining additional pounds by adopting a low-fat diet and a routine of regular exercise. Weight loss for cosmetic reasons is very common here. A BMI of 30 through 40: truly overweight, the risk of developing heart disease and other weight-related conditions rises sharply. Most people should lose weight in this category. Adult-onset diabetics in this category should definitely reduce, since blood-sugar control improves with weight loss. A BMI of 40 or more; severely overweight, you are in great danger of dying early. 80% eat in frequent binges. Secret eating is common. Best weight loss technique is often a fasting diet. Benefits of losing weight clearly outstrip any dangers. |
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