Cutiepooh, maybe is the fate of u..........

Guess u take a long long rest lar.... Dont need so rush to have a BF..........................

go be single

Well, i don't believe both can go together only after a period of time to know each other.

As long as there's good impression and affection happened in between, it stands a possibility to couple up.

And the aim to couple up is to adapt to each other and tolerate the goods and bads of boths'.

My two cents.

No no no no no..........

That is bad................

Frankly, I think he's a total ass. He exhibits classic symptoms of controlling behaviour. Not the kind of guy who'd make a good boyfriend, let alone husband. TS, you should be relieved that you got rid of him.

Is he still harassing you and your family and friends?

I know people like him and I also know women who go for people like him. I reckon he hit the nail on the head when he said he was a businessman because of the way he seems to organise his life in stages. He's starting a business and would therefore like to settle down before he has no time to court another. He is trying to use logic to force marriage upon you. What???

I didn't rush everything. He told me so much of things , I told him to plan, Wait and don't rush. We can plan, I knew I knew all I knew.. My parents and brother did scold me cause he is too love me. They asked me to forget about the past and marry him , coz they said he is a good guy and all of them love him ... It confused me now!!!!!!!!!
I truly understood why he feels no secure this time as his ex betrayed him and ran with another guy. More worst to left him a bad debt. but I don't mind at all, I told him, If anything you want to know don't look for my family and friends. Talk to me. and I very concentrating in my current jobs and I need to audit and always have meeting. I told him we can meet friday to sunday but monday to thursday just let me to have my own time to do my own things. He told my brother we were being met up with insufficient time. I don't have much time for him...

7 chai, I am not accepted him to fill my emptiness. I been thinking and no ex and past in my life to accept him. For the 1st month we really worked out very nice. All of my friends and family they can see it!!!!!! But whenever he did something to me my head somethings started to vivid and some scenes like showing before it made me feel stunned sometimes.. I got a mixed up feeling.... I tried not to run away and face it. I told him the truth and I told him sorry the way you wanted me to love you like what you are doing right now is can't make sense now. but I try to walk it out and will do things with u and to start our own story... It nothing much for my previous relation now 7chai...

I knew many guys outside. even my friends and colleagues they are chasing me now. But I didn't want to move further with them and I stop here right now that I don't want anybody now beside myself. I really want to make things clear and to start my new life....

I told him to break he not happy. I explained to him last week, I told him all the things and before with him I got a relation that he never knew , He told me he didn't mind and he still show his win win face coz a guy I understand.. I told him if things can make you feel better, treat like you dumb me now ok!!! I don't want in future you blame me and a good guy like you, rich, tall, sayang gf , many girls will come to you I am sure...

er to him thats how he plan out his life ma. nothing wrong ma. just that since she cant accept the way he plan his life then its good that they breakup.

Sweetie, now you say this is bad.

Later or sooner you will get what i mean.



p.s: smart people will never use "NO" to disagree with people's statement

i thought you are engaged? :

Well I disagree with this methodology simply because I've seen couples seperate after marrying out of convenience or because it was simply the next step to take. "Eh, we've been together so long, want to get married ah?". You don't find marriage, it finds you. How many times have you heard this question; "When do you want to get married?". Can you really time it? Marriage isn't supposed to be a process, unless you are a really traditional person.

I aint smart, i am humsap..... Humsap only say YES to "Make Love"

the man is fail.

cutiepooh is right to dump him.

no one has right to control anyone.

true but marriage are very subjective. sad to hear even till this day there is arranged marriage but it dont mean it will be doomed to fail right?

instead of him pushing for marriage im rather worried that he likes to contact her friends and family. i find that very disturbing.

Yes, So before started with him I did tell him the way u love me won't be received as what I should have love you .. but I can try to learn your life, your way to communicate, your way to eat and many.. But he still fails cause he rushed me in the 1st state and told me himself like this way. U know a girl like ur age is not a gold anymore, on the other hand, for a guy the age like me I am a gold metal. You should have happy with me and you should be frightening now" I felt like he was threatening me on something but I still smile @ him. I told him, a girl like me, I don't have much youth now I know and If I am a great girl I could be a mother with 2 kids now. The reason why I am still single, Coz I lost the one I love in my life and I couldn't have find back the feeling I should have for now .. But I am happy coz I can make it in finally that I accepted What I'd lost and to start my new life. The most important, I got a lovely family and friends. and I happy with my current job now. I told you honestly, even I don't have guy in my life I can still support myself and I can be happy even I am single..

I really no face to accept any guys. My friends all told me to give them chances and I told them, can you all don't take chance to do this to me. Let me to rest and take a deep breathe....

Single.. yes I should have!!! I told my mum I am sorry. Coz they guy she loves I couldn't have accepted now....

I told my ex, We need more times to do things out together. I didn't blame him coz i knew he really loves me...

Yalor.... last time already told u, that u r too rush de.....And u make him fall to deep into the world of love....

so what is actually the problem now?

ya lor...
you guys just dated like a month or two and he's talking abt marriage??
that's way too fast..

I knew I am not young now. but still I wish I can spend my couple months to know him more. I respect his parents. I didn't ask his friend how he behaves and what kind of bad habits he got.. He is a regular smoker and drink at midnight. He goes some club because of business this one i understand. He go full body massage which let thai and china ladies touch all I am ok. Maybe I am a open minded lady. All I don't mind and I just wish him to give me some times not being possessive. and now I truly saw his real face. If I don't follow what he said, He will just take a key and slam a door leave the house. Business man is stress I understand but isn't we don't talk about working life when we meet and maybe we can share it when both are in better mood...

Ya, He plans alot. went to bridal shops, restaurant, hotels to ask for the package...

yes I thought to engage with him this X'mas. Is a good time to get along with him with couple months if he allows me to get to know him more. but he rushed his own happiness and then now I ran.... My bad...

He called my mum coz he loves me, he wanna cares for me and he wanna spend more time for me.....

agreed agreed...
i aso dun like ppl keep pushing and forcing..
hate it so much..