I got a ex bf, just broke off last saturday. He still cares me alot but I felt like nothing ... My feeling is like I never met him and had started with him before. A very strange feeling I got here. I don't know how to face him and even talk to him. He loves me and he called my brother and mum...... 

Why did I have such a state????

Initially, I told him not to rush me .. He is a kind of man in rushing gf to marry him. I met him mid of March, then april I accepted him and May I announced he is my officially bf. I brought him to meet my parents and friends. I gave him the contacts of my close friends and even my brother is trying to be his friend now too. He and me are the same type people. We always want to win. But for him, He is a very much stronger guy that I'd have ever seen in my life.

He did so much that made me feel uncomfortable. Everytime when we meet, he will ask me to have serious talk about our marriage. I told him we just met and I need more times to get along with you. There is nothing you can rush and hurry me to be your wife now I told him. Then he told me He is a business man, When he starts his business and purchase a new office, He has no time to marry me and have extra $$$$ to cover me.. I felt like "WTF" doing his business and no time to marry in future???

Then he called my brother and mum sometimes to check me, they like having so much of things that I didn't know at all. When I found out that I feel so angry coz I don't like the feeling of being checked. He told my brother how much he loves me and he did tell me how much love he put on me now is 100%. He expected me to return back the same. I told him before we started , I told him, don't rush me everything and I will spend my life and time to get along with you. I knew he is ready to commit with me, but the way he loves me is not the desire ways I wish to. I felt pressure. He always asked me not to do this and that. I asked him what happened to him??? Then he told me sorry sometimes coz his ex haunted him too much before but he just don't wish I will run like what his ex did to him before............

I am sorry that we couldn't work out for this moment.. I didn't play his heart. At the 1st play we met, we hang out we are both have the same click. I knew I like him and I did got feeling to him. But I don't know why it not keep for last forever!!!!!
I was giving him a chance to try out. I told him I can be your very close friend first and eventually an official bf. But the way he wanted me to be is overed what he has to be. Example, He acted like he is my husband and started to control me and asked me don't do this and that and corrected me want me to change to be like this and that and don't do that again....

Yes, I can love him if he doesn't do so much to disappoint me. He wanted me to trust him so much and I knew he is lack of securities so I did something what a gf shouldn't do at all ... He promised me things won't be happen a day but the thing really happened and it was fast until only 1 week to ruin my name now.....
Yes, Before I haven accept him, He called my friends and asked my friends why he did so much to me , sacrifice alot that I don't respond to him and be his gf. I don't know all these until my best friend she came to tell me, "your bf said he had spent so much on you and rushing us information and wanted me to be his gf. "My friends they all told my ex gave her's some times. She will definitely give you the best answer.
He is a guy who wants face lots!!!!!! If I want something from him, I must be a very good pussie cat  but I never requested anything and not being a pussie cat so he felt I am stronger and call my mum and brother to say so many negative things and my brother and mum questioned me ..............

Well, i don't believe both can go together only after a period of time to know each other.

As long as there's good impression and affection happened in between, it stands a possibility to couple up.

And the aim to couple up is to adapt to each other and tolerate the goods and bads of boths'.

My two cents.

Sweetie, now you say this is bad.

Later or sooner you will get what i mean.



p.s: smart people will never use "NO" to disagree with people's statement 

Yes, So before started with him I did tell him the way u love me won't be received as what I should have love you .. but I can try to learn your life, your way to communicate, your way to eat and many.. But he still fails cause he rushed me in the 1st state and told me himself like this way. U know a girl like ur age is not a gold anymore, on the other hand, for a guy the age like me I am a gold metal. You should have happy with me and you should be frightening now" I felt like he was threatening me on something but I still smile @ him. I told him, a girl like me, I don't have much youth now I know and If I am a great girl I could be a mother with 2 kids now. The reason why I am still single, Coz I lost the one I love in my life and I couldn't have find back the feeling I should have for now .. But I am happy coz I can make it in finally that I accepted What I'd lost and to start my new life. The most important, I got a lovely family and friends. and I happy with my current job now. I told you honestly, even I don't have guy in my life I can still support myself and I can be happy even I am single..
I really no face to accept any guys. My friends all told me to give them chances and I told them, can you all don't take chance to do this to me. Let me to rest and take a deep breathe....
Single.. yes I should have!!! I told my mum I am sorry. Coz they guy she loves I couldn't have accepted now....
I told my ex, We need more times to do things out together. I didn't blame him coz i knew he really loves me...

ya lor...
you guys just dated like a month or two and he's talking abt marriage??
that's way too fast..

maybe separate for 2 months. to think over and try 2nd chance to accept him if he still loves me. coz I really don't feel to continue now and my brother did break off yesterday for his 8 year relations. I understood how my brother feels and I saw too much of breaking off it makes me feel love is so fragile... I am not qualified to console my brother , I even so afraid to see him cries coz I never want to cry front of my friends and family coz all the time I am the tough girl for them... but yesterday I shedded my tears coz I saw the broken heart person it will happen to my lovely brother. A guy plans to marry next year.. and I didn't sleep whole night from the pub accompanied with my brother....
He asked me to marry and I asked him to wait and plan, I need to get along with his family too...

hmmm.. Thank you!!!
but he already did something really unacceptable for me now... I don't know and I don't want to see him again or even talk to him. He texted me asked me to give back all things to him.. ok I return him ....

cutiepooh.....just read all ur post in ur thread.

Wat I can tell u is....

The best is yet to come,u haven't meet the right 1 yet.

Dun be sad,1 day....sum1 will cure it for u!

That's so sad...............

You've lost your vampiric touch!