I think you were right to break up with him. Why so kan cheong?

Frankly, I think he's a total ass. He exhibits classic symptoms of controlling behaviour. Not the kind of guy who'd make a good boyfriend, let alone husband. TS, you should be relieved that you got rid of him.

Is he still harassing you and your family and friends?

What an absolute douchebag.

You should have kicked him to the roadside the second he said this.

Cutiepooh, I doubt this will ever get through to you. But I feel obliged to say it, and hope that you will listen.

He is not a good person.

Do you understand what "controlling behaviour" means? It means everything he does is not because he loves you. It's because he wants to own you. He wants a puppet whose strings he can pull, a pretty flower vase he can bring out and show to his friends and family, and she will always and only do everything he says.

He says things that insult and humiliate you? He says things that almost sound like threats? He keeps pressuring you into doing things you're not comfortable doing, being someone you're not? He gets violently angry when he doesn't get his way?

All of these are signs of controlling behaviour. There's even a name for it, because psychiatrists, therapists and counsellors for abused women see it all the time. He is sick in the head, and he is a real danger to any woman he gets his hands on.

Don't contact him again. Delete and block his number from your phone. Tell your family and all your friends to do the same, and tell them why.

Then go find yourself a guy who will respect you.

So let me get this straight. He paid for your car insurance. You paid him back, but then he gave it to your brother. Then he told your brother to tell you that he gave it back?



He's trying to BUY you. He would probably have tried to use it as a means to guilt you later on - "I paid for your car insurance, you still won't listen to me???"

Also, you'd better get your brother on your side. Tell him everything you've told us about this guy. Don't let your brother become his "agent" to pujuk you back.

I support suiteng + cutiepooh. Lesbians FTW!

Yay Cutiepooh back on the market!

Suiteng is a lady. She deserves to be courted in a gentlemanly and respectful manner.

So, Suiteng. You. Me. Melon-flavoured massage oil. Whaddya say?

Cancancan. It won't be a very strong massage, but it will be very, very relaxing.

So?