^ really.. no offence taken.. in fact, it's nice.. the spontaneous part of it

I mean that your verbal fencing is like a grandmaster, very expert.

You possess the mental qualities so if you learnt real fencing or swordsmanship you would become a master (or mistress)

thanks for explainations

but i don't think it does align with my statement about my initaition and sex drive

kthxbai

Looks like it's still troubling you...but I guess that's pretty obvious to most people here.

waa.. somebody got vexed there

he also knows how to make facial wash from the byproduct of his fap?

how do you control your high sex drive?

I was never commenting on your sexual habits or drive in the first place

Sublime, sublime. She's not saying it directly. She's saying it with feelings.

A woman thinks very differently from man. Man is straightforward and logical, while women are emotional critters driven by passion, and over thinking. Small phrases that meant no harm to a man, would mean a whole world to the lady, as it continues to play on in her head, thinking thinking thinking...

well... you figure it out

Happy ...

mental scaring, mental scarring!

well, first off...would like to tell noob13 that he ain't such a noob after all in the relationship area...
don't let his name fool you by any chance...

one of the main reasons why people at least males find the need to confess was...probably due to media influence...well, fess it up people, you watch drama TV's...especially korean and HK drama movies...to be honest, if you really want a referencing point in how to court someone, i believe those movies at cinemas are much better to be utilized in comparison to HK and korean dramas...not that those don't have the techniques to it...but some of them are just over dramatic and...it's just plain silly to carry that out in real life...(i'm not saying that people should not learn techniques from TV/cinemas, but well...some of it are just plain misleading...but somehow seems most promising to carry out at "that" point in time)

i still won't call myself a pro at...courting women...and seriously...starting a conversation out from nowhere (in public) is just plain awkward to me...to me, finding a group to be in will make a proper conversation than popping openers at strangers...that's me, i'll let you guys say for yourself for opening up to strangers i guess

anyhow, i'll just say this...
in debbieyss view, i can see the view of her wanting a confession, and seriously...it's not wrong to do so...
she is one of those girls who probably would want a confession in order to start a relationship, but well...i really wonder how many confessions would you like to listen to before you are able to find a suitable partner?
or maybe you like to enjoy breaking people's heart?you little heartbreaker...

anyway, two views la i'll say,
if you found someone like debbieyss, yea, you can confess, and give her a little time to think about starting a relationship with you, and you may pass

or you play another way
if you found someone unlike debbieyss, do what noob say...you can at least know how to play your next move and is able to save a little face behind it

also, as for step 5...
asking for a female-male outing is not impossible without step 1-4
if you guys are friends, as in real friends...you are able to do that just fine...(and to be honest, you need to think really less on the relationship crossing area to be able to do so)

hope this helps~

I think Korean/Taiwanese/HK TV drama serials are mainly targeted at women; you don't find a lot of guys who watch them. Thus all the "confession" scenes in them are purely female fantasies. Hunky guys baring their souls and tearfully declaring their undying love is practically porn for women, designed to zap straight past their brains, pass the heart and lodge somewhere in the uterus.

Of course, fantasy and real life are polar opposites. Men have their fantasies from movies and TV too - countless gorgeous women who want to sleep with them at first sight. That's as likely to happen as a "confession" is likely to work on the average female.

LOL at the bolded parts!!!

very true...
normal guys won't ever do that in real life...
the risk of being rejected/humiliated is too much to handle..

This post has been edited by vivienne85: Jul 31 2009, 11:43 PM

yes yes yes
i don't get what Dickson is trying to say

why are you concern about this?

You can't control your sex drive and that's why you are offering sex around?

Taking it as an execuse to release your sex drive?

can you please tell me more directly, please?

Yea... i need to learn from you how you control.

I always have this insatiable appetite for Fatt Choy specials... even in guys. Mr poon tried his best to satisfy me, but to no avail

how? how?

Initially I really against your motive in making love around

I thought you're showing love to everyone via sex
I thought you genuinly make love to others
I thought you have multiple sex partners for the sake to love them better via sex

And now you're telling me that you are doing all these to fill your needs?
You're doing all these as an execuse to release your sexual needs?
What are those you're telling here previously? Selfless love???

I'm quite disappointed with you.

Yea

I'm disappointed with my self too. I'm also confused of my sexual preference. I even had sex with most LYN members here. Mr Poon, silverhawk, teongpeng, etc. And occasionally some girls. I have thought of castration. Do you think it helps?

I believe castration is for guys only... but then you are a gender bender aren't you...

i wonder, clitoris can be cut off too?