If she has deep-seated psychological issues with men or with physical contact with men, that warrants an entirely different approach. One which my article does not cover.

You should start a new thread.

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Added on July 31, 2009, 11:01 amI gotta give it up to Dickson, Silverhark, teongpeng and happy4ever here. They're explaining the point of the article better than even I can.



This post has been edited by n00b13: Jul 31 2009, 11:01 AM

i like all the words here.....

I do all the cooking with my mate around

her fav is fried fish with dark sos onion and ice blended coconut smoothie

does it related to the words you said?

I'm trying to keep you thread clean, n00b13.

My efforts weren't well appreciated.

What's with the you

I would like one please.

kthxbye

Why would I want to keep my thread clean?

oh now u know h4e is lengchai u wanna tackle him laaaaaaaaaa

didn't you see i'm saying "words"?

by the way, that picture is really him?

i know you hamsap already

don't think too much

if i wan hamsap you, i will tell you directly

debbie i want to hamsap you.

sorry

you don't come to me at the right time

we got no fate

doesnt matter i can wait. just make sure that when its my turn....u still look the same as u do in that avatar of yours. in the compromising submissive posture...with or without the guitar...with or without the clothes....

This post has been edited by teongpeng: Jul 31 2009, 02:49 PM

send me your pictah for me to filter first

^ ROFL at the banter!!!

Firstly, exceptions will always exist:


You can keep reminding yourself of exceptions if it makes you happy but at the end of the day they are exceptions and will never be the norm. You will rarely see a girl with options date a guy who is shorter and lighter than she is. You will rarely see a successful guy settling for a girl who isnt at least reasonably sexually attractive.



In the cases you mention: It's not love at first sight (ie. NOT mutual romantic attraction from day one). Rather, two people get to know each other...and slowly fall in love.

Not everyone can be choosy in the game of love.

These people tend to be in their late 20s as they start to consider those around them in their social circles.
That is the case with many many many people and is the real reason (i hypothesize) people are getting married later and later in modern times.

Btw, i've also said that before: Spend enough time, empathize and share experiences with someone reasonably compatible and you will fall in love eventually.

Also note that love simply wouldnt "grow" (using your word) if mutual romantic attraction doesnt develop...and romantic attraction is at the end of the day still based on sexual attraction. Girls want guys with good successful traits that succeed in life. Guys want fertile girls that could produce healthy, thriving kids. For the apple doesnt fall far from the tree...regardless if you like to admit it or not. Think of the ugly girl that has a charming personality, but guys only consider her a friend and not a lover. Think about the hapless loser that tries hard to be nice to girls, but only gets considered as a friend and not a lover.

Look at wedding pictures. Look at the bride. Get to know about the groom. What do you notice?

Look at people who are single and never dated into their 30s... what do you notice?

Dont lie to yourself.

Even in cases when there is no romantic interest at the start, the woman is almost always reasonably attractive (ie. if she were naked on a bed, any healthy young guy will do her), and the groom is able to provide with reasonable success in life.

I rest my case.

This post has been edited by ezralimm: Jul 31 2009, 03:14 PM

^ And how does this relate to Noobie's article?

sorry TS!

I was replying to happy4ever.