So, basically all the badboys are saying the "bf" is a wimp for not accepting a non-virgin gf/wife AND that the "bf" should just accept that badboys need to have their cut from most virgins.

The goodboys are saying its hard to forgive & cannot forget.

The conclusion for the girls is: Keep your virginity for marriage.

**I can hear all the badboys howling in protest, the goodboys nodding in agreement & the Pope giving me a +1.

lulzz hail cowhide!

+1
Inb4 pope

Eh, so you do use ur brain to pass judgements? What's with the guys who can't accept girls who had sex are pansies? Just because you can accept doesn't mean you're so damn cool lor. Just because you're typing in front of the screen you think you can escape responsibility and accountability of what you said? And yes I purposely sounded like a tart in my last comment to echo the retardedness of your comment. I could feel you're trying really hard to prove u're smart also.

TS> you can ask 1000 people and get 1000 different answers. Ultimately it's what you do and how you convey your thoughts that will convince him (depends on how much you want this guy anyway) . Besides, if this one black spot can be clouded by 100000 white spots I don't think it's worth worrying on your part. At least you know you tried your best no matter what the outcome, right?

Aw, honey he's just a little insecure. Part of why he can't seem to forget your past is because he's scared you'll fall for another guy. He's stubbornly thinking you fall easily for guys and let them *touch you and such.

The answer? If you want to stay with him, keep on loving him don't be flirty with other guys, keep your eyes locked onto his.

All the best!

this won't work but will definitely make things worse!
TS, how long have u been together with ur current boy?
like what the rest said, if he loves u he'll accept it..if he make a big deal out of it...how are u gonna continue with the relationship if he were to fret bout this matter all the time?
good luck =)

Ahahaha someone suggested anal sex. 10/10

Seriously .You don't expect your boyfriend to forget the past and not keep on thinking of your past . Things that had been done were done and there is no way of going back nor fixing it .The wound is there forever . Your boyfriend might tell you that he does not mind about it one day ,but I doubt that hardly true from his heart .There is nothing can be done now .Don't expect having more sex with him ,caring him more ,cherish him love and tender .Those things can't works.A bad memory is the hardest thing you could ever try to forget .Its not an hardisk that you could format it and rearrange the binary code.It does not work that way .

enjoice.

understand..thanks...

i kno...i will continue giv him more time and alwaz b his side to help him...i will try to talk to him

LOLOL

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Added on April 16, 2009, 2:44 am+1
Newsflash girls

Despite the majority supporting the girl, telling the bf to forget her past. It is solely up to her bf to decide if he wants to continue the relationship or take the relationship a level higher. I think it is part of girl responsibility to protect herself and her body in a close relationship. And yes, guys who MIND girls virginity DO exist. We are all well and alive and yes, there are reasons why some girls still keep their virginity till marriage. Take for example (insert: female LYN members).

Speaking of girls are not "products", I find it rather amusing the fact that they categorized themselves as food. Refer roxygal's comment on girls "abalone."

Personally, yeah up to the guy. As for selfish ******* like myself, depending how deep the relationship, I'd reserve my option to drop the relationship but make sure you always have "standard" to do so. You dont want to die virgin or solo.

This post has been edited by Vv.SoViEt.vV: Apr 16 2009, 02:44 AM

Meet me in person and I'll say the same thing to your face

You think the comment is retarded? Its a simple fact, and guys like him are a dime a dozen. There's just too frigging many. I don't really have to judge them, they are just what they are, pansies Why are you defending them? Trying to be nice? People like these do not need more niceness in their life, they need some pain to wake them up to the harsh realities of life rather being spoilt brats in their ideal fantasy world.

If a guy can't accept a girl has had sex with other people before him, that basically means 2 things

1. He has no respect for women, he thinks they're merchandise
2. He's insecure of himself being compared with other guys

There's simply no positive reason when a guy acts like this. So in conclusion, they're pansies.

You're welcome to disagree with me, troll/flamebait me if you wish. I love a good argument/flamefest, so come give me your best shot. I'll love to see your continue to make a complete mockery of yourself

P.S. - Unlike you, I don't have to prove anything, I let what I say, stand on its own.

It depends on how you view food.

Food is a necessity for living. Good food makes life worth living. Food is meant to be enjoyed, whether in how good it looks, or how good it tastes. If you're a food lover, describing women in terms of food makes complete sense

wow this thread its on fire, truthfully i have no saying about this, cause i have not experience this kind of situation.

Just for my point of view, whether Ts had slept with another person before or whether she has not. Its still come back to reality of both person points of view. Although to her its alright, but to her boyfriend its a no means its a no, no matter their pansies or what other people would like to call this kind of person. This is reality people! When a person cant accept the fact you had slept with another guy before means they can't.

This post has been edited by JapanKid89: Apr 16 2009, 03:03 AM

That's like emo people saying they can't do this and that when they get rejected or something. You should know that its not they can't they just don't want to. TS's bf is only like that because he's insecure or has some misguided view of human relationships. If he can't accept it, it is his bloody problem, and as painful as it is for the both of them they will have to end this relationship. The problem can be ignored for a while, but it will be a thorn in the relationship and the relationship will slowly bleed dry because of the wound caused by that thorn.

There's really only one course of action for TS's BF, accept it or break up.

That the point, from the story we also know that the BF can't accept it... In a relationship it takes two to tango. If for me, i can accept such fact but not all people are the same, once a person said no or can't accept it they just stick to the reason. And you should know how stubborn a person can be. No matter how much you try, when a person says no its mean no.
Just say a girl rejected you 3 times, would you still stick with her and still go after her?

Depends on the kind of rejection and what I feel from her

Now back to the topic. I fully believe ppl like TS's BF can change to accept her part. However, TS is not the right person to do it. Someone else must make him realise that his thoughts are stupid, but it cannot be TS. He will think that she's trying to convince him for her own selfish purposes, so anything she says will not be taken seriously. He needs a good friend or someone influential to make him see the light, otherwise its hopeless.

yea agree on that friend term, then i dont think Ts could do anything at the moment. just sit back pray and hope that would happen.

No, more like your smart ass wannabe judgmental posts are getting annoying. Btw, you need more mass.

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Added on April 16, 2009, 4:25 amYes, you're an f'in pansy. And yes, I'm way cooler than you, you sorry excuse for a 2 week old tampon. I saw your last post. You're pathetic. Heck, even tampons get more luck than you. The only way you can get a good look at a naked woman is to watch porn all night long. Now go drown in your own cum.

Way to go fueling the fire.


Idiot.

This post has been edited by darklight79: Apr 16 2009, 04:36 AM

i have 2 comments on this:

1) people who can't get over someone's past = pansies

2) virginity.... wayyyyyy over rated... get over it already...

This post has been edited by kenling: Apr 16 2009, 04:38 AM