QUOTE(suzanne2196 @ Apr 14 2009, 12:31 PM)
i hv 1 yr relationship wif my current bf. previously i hv 2 exs...and i did hv intercourse with both of them. i am no longer love them and only love my current bf.. however, it seems lik my current bf not able to forget my past thing because i had intercourse with someoone before that. i kno he did mind bout that i been 'touched' by other ppl. i feel sad of it and i kno he feel sad as well...he very pamper and sayang me..during this 1 yr,i kno he try his best to 4get it but somehow those thing will haunt him. i really dunno how 2 do and feel hopeless.
Anyone can give advise to me? how i can help myself and my bf? please dont give the advise to separate. all the while, we have been very good in evrything but not in this only.
please help
Seriously .You don't expect your boyfriend to forget the past and not keep on thinking of your past . Things that had been done were done and there is no way of going back nor fixing it .The wound is there forever . Your boyfriend might tell you that he does not mind about it one day ,but I doubt that hardly true from his heart .There is nothing can be done now .Don't expect having more sex with him ,caring him more ,cherish him love and tender .Those things can't works.A bad memory is the hardest thing you could ever try to forget .Its not an hardisk that you could format it and rearrange the binary code.It does not work that way .Anyone can give advise to me? how i can help myself and my bf? please dont give the advise to separate. all the while, we have been very good in evrything but not in this only.
please help
Apr 16 2009, 12:33 AM

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