Need advice here...

I told this girl I liked her and asked her if she would be my gf 2 days ago. I imagined all kinds of possible reactions and answer she might give, but not this:

In short, she said, don't you have an important event on Saturday? You should focus on that thing first, it is more important. We will talk about this later.

Since then she would still reply my messages, but she would absolutely avoid this topic. She would always ask me to focus on my work first. Her replies are also much shorter than usual.

Apa maksud...? I'm going nuts thinking about this all day long for the past 2 days! I can't believe this is happening. What should I do?

Additional information:
1. I'm currently overseas for that "important event"
2. I've known this girl for more than 2 years and was really close for about a year already. During this period she showed a lot of signs that she liked me (unless I misinterpreted them, which is unlikely because they're not even subtle - they're really clear)

Friendzoned

Short and nice, I like...

Oh well.

straight to the point....

issit a good move to ask to her directly whether she has a BF onot b4 confessing to her??

nowadays, girls are very materialistic. as long as you have the money, they will hog you like bees. That answers your question.

hi guys,

I got this number from a girl I met at an interview.
(using the 500 days of summer style)

its been a 2 week since I 1st met her. never got a chance to met her again,
since she is not here in KL currently.. still waiting for her return
so We are currently only SMSing. not everyday of course.

anyway was wondering is it a good idea for me to just suddenly call her? or should I at least go on a first date. then start calling her..

can call, keep it short, then date. depends how's the outcome, good or bad. did she enjoyed herself. then only u will know the road that u are suppose to choose

...after reading wad hawkie wrote...i feel like listening to "its raining men, hallelujah!" music..

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Added on July 13, 2012, 10:50 amThis post has been edited by kaizer3000: Jul 13 2012, 10:50 AM

hhhmmm how to you do research on the girl if u just only get to know her... n she shy away when u ask more...

Aaaannddd that is where humor comes in as an ice breaker.

even worst most of these group of girls don't quite have the look

Maybe she's just shy?
Slowly lor.
If she's only like that (shy) with you then you hit the jackpot.

This too

This post has been edited by h-yee: Jul 27 2012, 01:03 PM

hhhmmm sometimes hard to read le... or she is uncomfortable...

sorry what means of friendzoned ?


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its ur time to shine, call her

lol hawk

u miss the chance to say "you are more important than this event" or in other dramatic sentence.

i have read this advice about a year back and i read again today and it completely meant something else today.
It's funny how my perspective can overshadow some words

Indeed, experience does alter the way you derive meaning. So how has the meaning changed for you?