Oct 2 2011, 05:35 AM
QUOTE(egyprince @ Sep 28 2011, 11:52 PM)
Hey all ,
Just need some advice...recently i meet back with a gal that i like really much since first i saw her in uni. We are quite close tat time but i some how miss the chances. She was too good, and i dare not make the move that time as i scare losing her after confession. I waited for too long i can say. And after grad she stay in other place to work and i went bk to work near my hometown. We are from the same state so she will come bk to visit her family from time to time.
Recently when she come bk ...she some how misses my mum mooncake and ask for some as last time i do treat her eat a lot of thing. After the meet up, i still found i m attracted to her. I guess she is the only gal i still meet even after so long never meet.
Since tat day i started to text her and find topic to talk to her. Usually i m the one who started the conversation. Then we meet again after she come bk, i ask her out for a movie and dinner but that time is her sis birthday so she just ask me to eat together then went for the movie.
She will be coming bk after another month. Although i got a gf now...(yeah my bad) but i m really interested in seeing how we can advance if i really make my move. She also know i got gf and got ask thing about my gf but i don like to tell her.
Just some advice....u all think should i give it a try to make her feel that i m interested in her ?? I also don wan to look like play play in the end. I have been thinking a lot lately. Me and my currenlty gf is in LDR and seem like the distance problem cant really be solve...i m still stuck working in my hometown and my gf not really interested in coming to my hometown.
I m not sure whether i should persue someone i really like for so long as i hope there is no regret later in life when i finally settle down. But am i being too selfish?? or something that cant get is always the best ?? hahah...
What is u guys opinion ??
How do i really let her felt that i m interested in her ??
What should i do ??
She always cool cool dei one...sometime wana find her also hard.
1)My comment, not opinion is that I pity your current GF. If you are serious about it, then you should first severe ties with her before pursuing your next interest. Though most guys wont do that, but I hope you will. Double timing is what brings guys a bad name. Just need some advice...recently i meet back with a gal that i like really much since first i saw her in uni. We are quite close tat time but i some how miss the chances. She was too good, and i dare not make the move that time as i scare losing her after confession. I waited for too long i can say. And after grad she stay in other place to work and i went bk to work near my hometown. We are from the same state so she will come bk to visit her family from time to time.
Recently when she come bk ...she some how misses my mum mooncake and ask for some as last time i do treat her eat a lot of thing. After the meet up, i still found i m attracted to her. I guess she is the only gal i still meet even after so long never meet.
Since tat day i started to text her and find topic to talk to her. Usually i m the one who started the conversation. Then we meet again after she come bk, i ask her out for a movie and dinner but that time is her sis birthday so she just ask me to eat together then went for the movie.
She will be coming bk after another month. Although i got a gf now...(yeah my bad) but i m really interested in seeing how we can advance if i really make my move. She also know i got gf and got ask thing about my gf but i don like to tell her.
Just some advice....u all think should i give it a try to make her feel that i m interested in her ?? I also don wan to look like play play in the end. I have been thinking a lot lately. Me and my currenlty gf is in LDR and seem like the distance problem cant really be solve...i m still stuck working in my hometown and my gf not really interested in coming to my hometown.
I m not sure whether i should persue someone i really like for so long as i hope there is no regret later in life when i finally settle down. But am i being too selfish?? or something that cant get is always the best ?? hahah...
What is u guys opinion ??
How do i really let her felt that i m interested in her ??
What should i do ??
She always cool cool dei one...sometime wana find her also hard.
2)See which angle suits her best. Attack that angle. Does she share her past relationship problems with you? Can you share with her yours by telling her that you think you are making a mistake with your current GF or something like that? share something strong that provokes affection. normally the right thing to do base on experience would be to date her 3 times. 2 times normal, the 3rd time find an opportunity and grab her hand. Expressing interest orally = 50/50. Expressing with action = 70(good)-30(negative) (especially if she is out on a personal date with you for 3 times).
3)Universal rule of dating for men - be a good listener. find a topic and then listen. The pareto rule of dating would be 70 percent listening and 30 percent talking. At the end, she will find you interesting because she had freedom to share alot of things.
4)i think this one has alot to do with comfortable or not to hangout with you. most girls like to give excuses when they are not comfortable. i dont know how to solve this. it's between u and her. find a way to make her feel comfortable plus find out what she is not comfortable with. u gotta explore this.
I hope this helps! may you find your happiness.
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