Hold it in for a few more weeks to think about it thoroughly.

The baby ain't gonna pop out next month.

After a few week, he gf cannot abortion already.

TS said that it's mostly about the money that make him take this decision, i don't know but it doesn't feel right, i tried to put myself in his position, and it would be difficult for me, not for choosing between the choices, but for maintaining the choice that i makes, but i shall not wine or get emphatic for it, cause that's how i repent my mistake, not running away from it, let say i choose to abort i don't really know what i should do to repent my mistake, support her of course, but the scars will remain forever, what about you ? what would you do if you choose to abort ? would you have sex with her again until she is healed ?

Why not? My friend went for an abortion 3 months into pregnancy and it went well. She even got pregnant again 6 months after the abortion.

Why not? My friend went for an abortion 3 months into pregnancy and it went well. She even got pregnant again 6 months after the abortion.

This suprises you? Not meaning to offend anyone, but yeah, i know quite a few church-goers who are pretty active in bed. Some even go church just to buaya gals

This suprises you? Not meaning to offend anyone, but yeah, i know quite a few church-goers who are pretty active in bed. Some even go church just to buaya gals

Why did she then get an abortion in the 1st place? Or did she go for a 2nd one after that?

Man this is pathetic. The amount of people here saying "don't kill the baby! its innocent", "Abortion is murder" , "Think about the baby!" yadda yadda yadda. You all need to bloody grow up and start living in the real world.

Do you people have ANY F*CKING IDEA how much it costs to raise a baby? I'm not just talking financially, I'm also talking emotionally, physically and the amount of time it takes. The responsibility is HUGE, and most people won't be able to handle it well, which leads to poor child growth.

Its bloody annoying to see the same stuff being posted everytime someone creates a "omg im gonna be a daddy" topic. Try to empathise with the TS, try to imagine you're in his situation now. How can you help him? What advice can you give? Be helpful, instead of repeating things he already knows, just to make yourself seem morally superior.

TS, abortion seems to be your most likely solution. If you go ahead with it, bare in mind that the emotional trauma on your GF would be quite significant, pay more attention to her during the aftermath. Even if she doesn't show it, she may be suffering from guilt inside of her.

That are christians by name only, anyway, they have the rights to choose so.

i do know a fella who was sleeping around with many gals ... even during high school times ... but entered the church in hoping to find a virgin wife ...
how i wish i could 100% trust ppl in the church ...

How much to raise a child? If you seriously want it and not finding excuses to abort it, work hard, save on unnecessary expenses.

Does it matter if you have a remembrance day for the unborn kid? It's like when your parents are alive you dont give a shite, when they are dead you arrange the GRANDest funeral and feel sad about it.

That happens very often FYI

An embryo is not a person or a human being because it's has no brain, no self-awareness, no way of feeling pain or emotion, therefore embryo abortion is not murder. All those negative outcomes linked to abortion are psychologically problems, its all in the head yo!