I'm not really sure what I expect to gain from posting on these forums. I guess I'm just looking to see if anyone here has been in a similar situation and what they did. My GF and I have been dating for more than a year now and we're usually very careful about our sexual activities, but she missed her period this month (kind of - there's bleeding just not a lot of it ) and so we did a pregnancy test that came up positive. She's going to the doctors today to get confirmation whether or not she's pregnant.

This is happening at a not so good time as although I'm working and earning a decent salary, I don't have much saved up as I've only been working for about a year. She is also earning a good pay and technically speaking we could afford to raise a kid together. But the problem is that our parents would definitely freak out about this and her mum is especially sensitive to these matters. To make matters worse, her mum is not in the best physical shape and telling her this is likely to cause enough stress to break her...

Me and my GF have discussed this and no matter how we try, if she is pregnant, we don't seem to be able to come to a comfortable resolution.. It seems that the only way out of this situation is to terminate the pregnancy...

I'm really reluctant to do this...

tak cukup skill then become pregnant.
get married raise the baby.
some ppl wants child even after 10 years marriage also dun have one
some ppl dont want child but gets it

ROFLMAO...

If u didnt noticed, the JUDGE i mention is the God.
But heck, i know you are your own god.

Why not be more positive towards life? Not everything in life turn out to be so negative. 

Even if TS is out of job, I'm sure his parents will help him out no matter what.

with the numbers above i really don't understnd why you can't afford to give the baby a chance. if me and husband are able to earn that much, we're probably on our baby number 2 already.

you seems to have a lot of excuses.

1st, you say that you are not financially secured as you have almost zero saving.

2nd, you said you are afraid that your gf's mother might have a stroke and  die upon knowing the good news.

and now you say you two got a lot of commitments already.

JUST F*CKING ADMIT THAT YOU TWO STILL WANNA HAVE FUN AND DON'T WANT TO HAVE YOUR FREEDOM TIE DOWN BY HAVING A BABY! AND THAT YOU ARE NOT READY TO BECOME A PARENTS YET.

FOR YOU TWO, FREEDOM AND FUN > BABY'S LIFE!

Ahhh just blardy close this thread since you've made up your mind. in the future when there are problems arise due to this, don't forget that WE'VE TOLD YOU SO!

All they think about is
what if the baby is born with medical illness
what if it's a twins triplets octuplets..

but they never think about..
what if she might not be able to conceive.. so.. it's obvious that they just really care about this. Or maybe their mind had been poisoned by the doctor telling them that everything is gonna be OK after the abortion.

I'm really pissed now. If I knew TS and his gf personally I would really slap some sense into their face.

kakakakakakakakaa!!!!!!!!!!! padan muka!!!!!!!!!!!!!

TS said that it's mostly about the money that make him take this decision, i don't know but it doesn't feel right, i tried to put myself in his position, and it would be difficult for me, not for choosing between the choices, but for maintaining the choice that i makes, but i shall not wine or get emphatic for it, cause that's how i repent my mistake, not running away from it, let say i choose to abort i don't really know what i should do to repent my mistake, support her of course, but the scars will remain forever, what about you ? what would you do if you choose to abort ? would you have sex with her again until she is healed ?

This suprises you? Not meaning to offend anyone, but yeah, i know quite a few church-goers who are pretty active in bed. Some even go church just to buaya gals