Not only Girls are money minded as well as Boys. It is human's nature, just admit it. You want to be a high priest? or a monk? Then guess this topic just doesn't suits you. Money is the most important thing in our life. Without it, we can't live. Everytime we think about money, how to save it? how to spend it? HELLO! that is money minded la! You keep thinking of money. If you are not, then I guess you are just another spoon-feed baby under your parent's protection.

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Added on May 6, 2009, 3:40 pmNo point talking to people who wants to think I am against-ing you. I do not know who is she. I just give my opinion. If you think you are right? Go ahead...But I can sure that you cant get along with the society. The society is like that, accept it. You give bad comment, there are sure bad replies too. Never ever simply say people are retarded nor stupid. But from your post and your replies, I can only say that you are just minded and acting childish.

This post has been edited by Vinx: May 6 2009, 03:40 PM

FAIL. thinking what to do with ones money = money minded? by your defination we are all perverts for learning about sex in school or discussing about it?

I digress.

1) Most guys cant even reliably attract a girl to go out with them on a date at social meeting places (bars, clubs, and popular hangouts)

2) Human nature is such that guys of reproductive age have a pretty constant sex drive and will seek out women who are reasonably attractive to fvck. Any reasonably attractive (or even average jane's) woman could prostitute herself and there will always be customers - The same cannot be said for guys unless you are talking about the gay community.

3) Straight men find gay sex reprehensible. Most men are straight.

Tell me your definition of money minded then...Money is Duit. Minded is Pemikiran. So doesnt my definition makes sense? And what does it had to do with sex? It is my right, It is my opinion. You dont like it? Then do not reply. From your post, it is obvious you are having me as personal problem. You are carrying a debate here? or a quarell? Do not act childish anymore, please.

You STARTED IT . And this is a forum. You can have your opinion and others cant have theirs? If u cant stand being corrected and have a debate on a forum..DONT POST.

And nah...i'm not having any personal problem with you...i dont even care about u.

BTW the way...your defination is stupid. You cant take 2 separate words, put them together to form a phrase, and assume the words retain their meaning. Not everything is as simple as that.

This post has been edited by teongpeng: May 6 2009, 03:57 PM

Hey, you two. Stop that please. *pick up these two boys with her ONE hand*

Accusing him as childish, you are not too mature tho by having a bad move to reply his tricks. In overall i think LYN-ians are generally overreacting and too sensitive, although i cant say im not one of them.

Back to the topic, i agree your earlier post about money, if not, it should monk's talk. By given time when you are no longer within the loop who are being calculative in every cent's in & out of pocket, maybe u will be in a situation like me, somewhere in between the majority, and the monks, and then u will learn the lessons and stop picking up fights like I dont

This post has been edited by secretsquirrel: May 6 2009, 03:55 PM

Money is indespensible in real life and seriously, without a stable source of money, there is no way a guy can be a good provider. It is difficult (note: not impossible) to thrive in life without money...and girls are attracted to guys who are thriving. That said, money will not guarantee you will thrive. You can use the money for cigs/alcohol/drugs and screw yourself up. Money does not buy happiness...But the lack of money is real cause for depression and the inability to thrive and be awesome - ie. being poor increases the chances you will end up a lonely loser in life


Girls are not attracted to money....but everything else that comes with it

Haha...hmm
I admit it =P I am a little over reacting.
Da**! Just hate people keep fight over my statement.
Besides, wasting my time to reply over it.

One needs to differentiate money minded from 2 directions :

1. Someone who makes money for him/herself.
2. Someone who leeches on others (i.e. find a rich partner and spend his/her money)

I want to make more money for myself. Money making thread will be more attractive to me

Cant agree at all, my young ezra. Things are not meant to be yours, then it is not yours, why bother? Eg, a girl who is money-minded, and u r poor. Let her go, she is not yours. U may remain poor but grow your wisdom by hardworks then u will get a really nice girl who is willing go thr life's up and down with you, u dont have to simply dream on the girl who is money minded only cos it wont do u any good. At the same time, when she is That money minded, is she someone that u really care to live with till you are 80yo? What does she posses? beauty? intelligent? If she does, she wouldnt be money-minded and choose some rich guy over you...

What I tried to share here is, you dont have to look at this world in such a pessimistic way even if ur dream girls are all money minded, cos MONEY is really NOT everything. Please visit RWI for the money talk

This post has been edited by secretsquirrel: May 6 2009, 04:00 PM

Agree, without money guy cant be a good provider. Girls are not attracted to money but most are attracted to handsome guys But overall money is still important.

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Added on May 6, 2009, 4:02 pmBeg your pardon? So you are stating me?

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Added on May 6, 2009, 4:05 pmHmm...no matter what opinion or perspective of view towards money.
Overall money is still important.
If it is not, then maybe someone could show me how to live without money.
I would appreciate that, at least I am proven wrong.

This post has been edited by Vinx: May 6 2009, 04:05 PM

VERY WRONG. Ecologic wise, girls would get sexually aroused basically due to a Cool and Good and Intelligent conversation with a wise guy, particularly mature/elder guy, instead of any vision stimulation as guys do.

When you see things in monetary view, maybe u ignore the facts carried behind money. A rich should usually have a rich dad who could afford to support him for more travel trips, or overseas educations, therefore he'd generally be more 'interesting' than local poorer guys. Handsome or not, thats on personal preference. When a girl prefer a more handsome guy than you, then u should know this girl is rubbish, periodically.

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One Can Not likely to live without money, thats a brutal fact in today's world. If u want, u still can, but in modern world, generally u cant, yes u r right.

But it doesnt mean we have to be sacrifice everything in order to strive for money, end up we lost our soul.

This post has been edited by secretsquirrel: May 6 2009, 04:08 PM

I agree. Looks (physical attractiveness) and wealth (money) are IRRELEVANT (dont matter) when it comes to LOVE.

That said, girls dont like falling in love with guys who are not thriving in the same way they dont like falling in love with guys who are shorter than they are.

That's why it is very important for a guy to thrive and be awesome especially when he is looking for a partner.

People fall in love when they are reasonably compatible (language/spirituality/emotionally) and spend enough time together. Girls want to spend time with guys who are thriving. With guys who carry themselves well in the game of life...and it's hard to do that without enough money (ie. if you can barely feed yourself).

ULTIMATELY, guys who are thriving will have much more OPPORTUNITY to bond/click/connect/empathize/interact with girls and are much more likely to fall in love.

Girls do not want to spend time/bond/click/empathize/connect/interact with guys who are not thriving. A guy who is not thriving is usually disproportionate (read: scrawny), cant take care of himself (read: his life's a mess), and is not confident (read: shy).... Guys with money usually thrive...though not always. Guys without money are unlikely (still possible on a tight budget though) to thrive at all.

teongpeng naughty *knock on his head for vinx*

Now no more fights pls. jeje belanja u guys ice cream later

Oh right.. i forgot to mention, I was talking about girls looking to settle down, not teens at a nightclub looking for an ONS. For the former category of women, a man's physical attributes are still important (read: taller than her, and not too ugly), but the ability of the man as a provider of security (financial/emotional) is paramount.

Money minded or not, money is the lubricant for the engine of livelihood...

Depends how much craving you have

For some RM xxxx maybe enough, for some, no matter how many RMs, it will never be enough

When a person's expectation and taste of life changes, so do the value chain of the person's purchasing preference

u two, enough, particulary naughty teongpeng. Or, i will draw back my ice cream treat and spend it all to my 5-yr-old

Hmm...I do not know, but mostly girls I met are more interested with handsome guys.
Besides that, when I walk with most of my girl friends. Money isnt really that important.
Cause they intend to have a "AA" rules whereby we pay for our own.
That proves money isn't what a girl really interested with. This is what I like for girls.
But when it comes to pak tuo Pocket sure bocor

Vinx, i think your statement is true for a particular demographic of girls (late teens).

How old are you?

Being an attractive man, a good personality, good financial provider with a good looking.
Does that sounds like a perfect choice for girls?