Moorish - I only agree partially of your statement, I actually second the first part, that love/marriage came it primitively for basic reason of love at first sight, protetion, sex, even.

However your last sentence here is a wrong quote. As such, i would like to say also, for those who has married to a rich husband, wait after a few yrs living without soul/soul mate, they will regret their choice. Cos money isnt everything. Being a rich wife doesnt guarantee a life time happiness.

Do you see 'marriage' as the final conclusion of everything? I know it is common for youngsters to think in this way, that we just grab our Victory and make everyone into our wedding and tose for our victory of owning this man/woman Legally. But it is a true meaning/destination for two to get along? How could you be sure the one you wed today who u met for few years, that both of u r able to hold hands in hands towards the other 2/3 of future life? no u dont, for all still in dating/courtship, as well as newly weds= u r only taking a bet, a gambler.

As such, is Divorce the destination then? Dont look at me, i dont know. Im in the passing stage myself just like you, except that im a little ahead of u guys.

Back to the topic, are girls more money-minded? Just a few bad eggs in the basket doesnt mean all are bad. Generally, i would like to take a larger view of the picture. In modern world, who can resist money? No one. Money is powerful, more brutal MONEY talks can be find outside of kopitiam in the RWIssue column. Undoubtedly we have greed on money, but everyone is chasing for a better future instead of anything else. Saying girls are more money-minded is a plain wrong quote cos everyone does. Are 'boys' not money minded? Given a poor boy without/very low ability to feed himself, here comes two sexy babe, one with money, one without money, both same sexy, same kind, same everything, which one would the boy choose? Im sure most boys would choose the one with money??! NO?

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Added on May 6, 2009, 12:46 pm
This is really tricky. When we grab someone in our 20s, how do we sure she/he is the one to be with us when we are 80yo? We love them badly madly seriously, but are u sure u still love her in this way? U do? er... U mean u do? Im not yet talking about his/her feeling towards u, im merely talking you, your feelings/promise to her. My conclusion is that, it has too much factors to effect... better remain single, by choice

This post has been edited by secretsquirrel: May 6 2009, 12:46 PM

U r not a guy and u r not the poor desparate guy in my example. Not all rich girl is bad to be handled and not all rich girls are having a rich dad, how about moving the picture to a few years or a decade of your age/time, an independent working OL?

If u go back to my simple theory of the example i gave, i think u know the answer is no. no one is going to resist MONEY, regardless gender.

Dickson ~ ur quote to me is seriously out of topic/ far from what i tried to say, in fact the opposite. If you read my earlier post, i was opposing TS idea about no one can resist money, so u and I are on the same page. But my line of 'no one can resist money' was based on the example i gave to compare the same situation for both gender, the choice would be same, there is not way we should classified FEMALE is more money-minded than MALE. My simple example was merely trying to bring this out when comes to desperate situation, MONEY is a very attractive choice regardless gender. My expression was weak, i know.

As for your gigolo situation, i assume those guys who choose NOT to get paid, would bcos they believe they could have better power/choice to earn the money with more pride/by sacrifice some other things than this. If it is comparing about poor males & females who do ve many other choices of getting the money, the majority choices would be same.

Ur imagination isnt very scary to me as long as I get my life and my 10k, if i were the gigolo/ayam

This post has been edited by secretsquirrel: May 6 2009, 03:36 PM

Hey, you two. Stop that please. *pick up these two boys with her ONE hand*

Accusing him as childish, you are not too mature tho by having a bad move to reply his tricks. In overall i think LYN-ians are generally overreacting and too sensitive, although i cant say im not one of them.

Back to the topic, i agree your earlier post about money, if not, it should monk's talk. By given time when you are no longer within the loop who are being calculative in every cent's in & out of pocket, maybe u will be in a situation like me, somewhere in between the majority, and the monks, and then u will learn the lessons and stop picking up fights like I dont

This post has been edited by secretsquirrel: May 6 2009, 03:55 PM

Cant agree at all, my young ezra. Things are not meant to be yours, then it is not yours, why bother? Eg, a girl who is money-minded, and u r poor. Let her go, she is not yours. U may remain poor but grow your wisdom by hardworks then u will get a really nice girl who is willing go thr life's up and down with you, u dont have to simply dream on the girl who is money minded only cos it wont do u any good. At the same time, when she is That money minded, is she someone that u really care to live with till you are 80yo? What does she posses? beauty? intelligent? If she does, she wouldnt be money-minded and choose some rich guy over you...

What I tried to share here is, you dont have to look at this world in such a pessimistic way even if ur dream girls are all money minded, cos MONEY is really NOT everything. Please visit RWI for the money talk

This post has been edited by secretsquirrel: May 6 2009, 04:00 PM

VERY WRONG. Ecologic wise, girls would get sexually aroused basically due to a Cool and Good and Intelligent conversation with a wise guy, particularly mature/elder guy, instead of any vision stimulation as guys do.

When you see things in monetary view, maybe u ignore the facts carried behind money. A rich should usually have a rich dad who could afford to support him for more travel trips, or overseas educations, therefore he'd generally be more 'interesting' than local poorer guys. Handsome or not, thats on personal preference. When a girl prefer a more handsome guy than you, then u should know this girl is rubbish, periodically.

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One Can Not likely to live without money, thats a brutal fact in today's world. If u want, u still can, but in modern world, generally u cant, yes u r right.

But it doesnt mean we have to be sacrifice everything in order to strive for money, end up we lost our soul.

This post has been edited by secretsquirrel: May 6 2009, 04:08 PM

teongpeng naughty *knock on his head for vinx*

Now no more fights pls. jeje belanja u guys ice cream later

u two, enough, particulary naughty teongpeng. Or, i will draw back my ice cream treat and spend it all to my 5-yr-old

strawman concept is great but i dont think it applies here on these kiddo's talk. I see it more obvious on RWI

Allow this 80yo nanny blabbing and catching her breath to voice out one more thing:
The true WRONG concept u guys are having here is that: MONEY has only very little or surface influence to all Love/Relationship/Marriage/Romance. It could be a factor that a girl/boy in love/want to be in love with the other richer boy/girl, even got married as long as two are happy... but at the end (where is the end? wedding day? divorce day? death?) if they are truly happy or not, and if they regret their choices or not, we wont know.

To many youngsters, not until u personally experience romance->love->relationship->marriage->divorce, you are NOT capable to get to know why is this old nanny trying to SEPARATE these few VERBs cos they all look miserable/complicated and yet SIMPLE to you cos they are all same, which she insist they are NOT the same one thing.

For young poor guys, when you notice 'most girls are money minded/handsome guys-oriented', i can tell you, it is only your Delusion. U simply oversee some other who are NOT. Or u might have received info wrongly. Remember? what girls tell might not the whole truth... yea women are complicated, especially to young kiddos. The only piece of advice i can give u is that, Study hard, Work hard, if there are girls come along, swallow everything and gain experience, if not, let it be cos ur true love is out there somewhere When U R truly deserved her. Btw, please check out NLP so that u can climb a ladder to get messages across better.

For older richer guys, the way you posted msg here doesnt sound like a true wise old guy that Im looking for, therefore I believe there r still a lot more you ought to learn, which I believe you arent very old indeed. Apparently life experiences is important when we are talking about dealing with love issues. again, if u havent heard/started NLP, pls do so if u think u do have miserable life from time to time... it is usually the major cause of the majority to get angry easily/fast...

For gals, love and romance is everything to you till you are 80yo (like me). When you are lucky enough to grab a handsome, young, rich, kind, romantic, wonderful husband, treasure it like TS said, but it still doesnt guarantee u for a life time happiness, like i said, when it the end? wedding? kids's family life? divorce? death? LIfe is full of surprises... Please feel free to pm me for further girls talk - i long for it

Be well everyone.

Im looking exactly this type of RICH WISE DIVORCED man and tagging along my son
oh no, to stand on my post, nah, omit the RICH, just wise and divorced will do. pm me if u r one

Thanks. My age is surreal only imaginary

This post has been edited by secretsquirrel: May 7 2009, 12:56 PM

**[ice cream] and [mommy] are given to silverhawk**

Rules are meant to be broken. I dont usually think twice.

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Added on May 7, 2009, 1:01 pmkiddos who ever try to step into for a discussion about divorce/affair - come talk to me 20yrs later, if im still alive

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Added on May 7, 2009, 1:03 pmThe pic is excellent. I shall steal it for RWI cos ppl there are ignorant and fighting non stop...
But i dont believe your sentences below the pic are good quotes it is childish talk. plain imaginary theory.

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Added on May 7, 2009, 1:06 pmNo they are not. They are the fact figures of those who finally awaken from dreams and brave ones who wanna try out a whole new page of life.

This post has been edited by secretsquirrel: May 7 2009, 01:06 PM

to support inflation, i will take whatever is given

I have just shared a similar povhere about multiply of love, despite external factors of marriage, money, social status etc...

After you read it and still think I deserve your remark, then i guess we are truly on the same page and shall meet up for a cuppa sometimes

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Added on May 7, 2009, 3:19 pm*ice cream given for everyone*
no more demanding posts or mod will delete it

This post has been edited by secretsquirrel: May 7 2009, 03:19 PM

thanks guys. old nanny having backache. might not come in as often as she wishes... and eye sores for lines and lines of words... ~yawn~~

thanks.

For anyone who has full understanding my comments would have already passed their deluded emotions. Likewise for those who dont, nothing we can do about it.