My suggestion is:
forget how your other friend perform..
some of your friend might be starting family,
some might drive big cars...
some already a millionaire...

but that shouldn't make you upset...

You can definitely live a happy life without your existing gf..
she looks like wanted to change....
let her go...one day she will find that you are the Mr. Right...

2. To increase income, try to do extra job on weekend...

3. to feel less stress, try to help those who are less fortunate than u or me... direct your focus to other area....

lastly, can visit my post on Life like sunflower....
http://unlimitedkent.blogspot.com/2009/02/...-sunflower.html

Blog whore... go settle ur debts first

such girl no worth for anyone pun, just leave her la, face the truth.........

She aint meant for you TS

Look for other girls who'll appreciate for who you are

The problem is most girls look at your car or wallet first...and then other things.... Hard to find girls NOT like that.

Dat's why Asia got so many people now not married even 30+.

Becos all busy trying to find money...and by the time they make some money, they are maybe 40+? Dat's why so many unhappy people also.

Tragic....unless you refuse to be brainwashed by all the "modern culture."

Girls have more to lose than men, cos they have biological clock.

But, few guys are well off, and of that number, many are real jerks....so how?

just leave her.
what a money minded whore.

No point for TS to work so hard to please his current girl

I would rather advise him to work hard and get a girl who comes from a poor/average family
He'll get successful and his current girl gonna regret leaving him

Always get to know your ability/status first

Yah, but sometimes improving status not easy. Some are more lucky than others. If your girfren kena woo by a rich man with big car, how much can you trust her that she won't run away with him? Dat's why such girls are rare...

In the end it's the same situation, quality men AND women hard to find in life, rite?

my friend, if you have nothing to offer a woman in terms of financial security, why should she stick around to be with you when there are other men with more potential than you out there? being money minded doesn't necessarily mean that the women insist on a lifestyle that comes with the LV bags and BMW rides. it's whether at the end of the day, the woman's family can put the kids through school, or whether there's even enough for the family to afford the basic necessities, which TS doesn't even seem close to be able to provide. like i mentioned earlier, how much do you know about house and car installments that a meagre 2k income can afford? you don't seem to understand that with marriage, there are commitments in other factors than just love alone. you will understand all these once you grow older.

But but, not all women can offer something else other than their looks.

Even then, their looks will fade when they're old too.

women can offer financial support. if they happen to be better looking, chances are that their career will take off more smoothly if compared to their less attractive counterparts. attractive women are also more likely to take care of their appearances, thanks to the wonders of cosmetic surgeries. +1 for the woman if she can find a man to provide her just that. the world is unfair, i'm sure everyone knows that.

If the women can get her own financial support herself, why must she look for a larger financial support from guys then?
Are they really that insecure?

But you'll have people criticizing a man for leaving his women for a younger counterpart when the women is old and fugly. The same can't be said when a women left her man for a better provider though.

while there are so many people here arguing about gender equality, we all know that there are certain responsibilities that just can't be evened out. it would be unfair to expect so many things from your woman, including expecting her to work, bear children, take care of them, spend time with the family, cook, and have her take care of all the domestic house chores while still expecting her to contribute an equal share financially while the man just watches football and complains when their women want them to spend more time with them? lol. no money=no maid. all these responsibilities just can't be priced, and the woman should be financially independent, because poor losers can leave them for someone younger as well. it's not just the rich that has that option or choice. both men and women can be stupid, and have no concrete reason to be infidel. nothing is surefire. so before the woman gets herself into a shitload of trouble which they probably feel that they couldn't handle when they could settle for some easier life, why not? when a man leaves his woman for a younger or more attractive counterpart, the man is an *******, because he is being greedy when he has already sworn a commitment to his woman resulting in his marriage. when a woman leaves her man for a better provider, either her husband is a useless prick who expects his woman to mother him and provide for all his needs, or she is just a narcissistic money-hungry b****. either way, you'll still hear criticism.

if a girl change heart there is no other reason then say u r a loser
but for u
try think it positively
arent it more better if she gone
so that u can concerntrate on ur job
and some more u no need to waste money for those pills and for doc.
try think wisely, if u both marry and 1 day she told u r a loser
that time u more hurt
why dun just open ur heart and let her go
it doesnt lose anything
this world there not only 1 girl around
this 1 not suit then find another 1 till u suit it
there is no worry bout ur age
i know few ppl
their age 40+ still single and not even marry yet b4
r they loser?
they look ok and also earning around rm 6k- rm 10k as a big company manager
all just depends ur fate 1

Well, unless the man is one of the richest ******* in the world, , when one compares, >90% of humans are useless prick.

no gal fren is not the end of the world...
it's only part of our life.
just jump out from the well then you will know that the sky is much more spacious.

i know it's kind of hard if you have no way to spread your love...
coz a real happy is only when you share your happiness to someone you love...

or maybe you can pay a visit to orphanage or beadhouse to spread your love there.
then you will know how blessedness you are.

u have to think the girl's side as well.
if u were her,
and u found someone better, i guess u would have done the same thing as well.

love is never fair.
its either one of them getting hurt in the end.

so, if i were u, i'll firstly focus on my job and prove to her and of course everyone that u're moving on,
to a better life and income

good luck ts~

This post has been edited by mthc: Feb 22 2009, 12:55 AM

dont think about her anymore, this only will make you.....stress ! try to think in different way, why not you use all the energy to think how to be a succesful guy, and when u get rich and successful, go show to her ! let her know that she made wrong choice..... think possitve man, this kind of girl, damn a lots in this world. dont worry. think possitive think different way .

girl are a lots than man... they will appreciate man....

This post has been edited by terryfoo: Feb 22 2009, 03:15 AM

give up move on you cant love someone who talks bad of you to their parents just to break up with you.