i dont want to do that to my wife..

but for TS gf kind girl..will be my pleasure..

@TS..
actually Rm2K++ and live at kuching already stable..
just ur x-GF is damn material..she wants more..humans never satisfied easily when they have the chance to grab more do they?

thats why whenever girls ask my about my job..my answers will be either office-boy or security guard..to drive that type of girl away..

no..
coz it is quite a good pay job..not too high and not too low(to make the girl think..if she still wanna know me..means she passed the test)..
also it fits me when the caught me on my office time..usually i was walking around pasar payang(hate to stay in my office..damn lonely)..so security guard fits my bluff well..

But you see, marriage is an contract where the males are mostly the providers while females stay in the kitchen.

Now a days, most women can't even clean up themselves without a maid, so what are they good for?

Looks off course.

So, when a female says that she leaves because she has a right to choose a better provider than the current one, male should have the right to choose another one when the current one beauty fades. Fair enough, right?

Pasar Payang? are you from kuala terengganu?

i have a big fight with my gf last week.....he always say that i cannot aford her with my income.....our relatioship is going well during our universities, we been paktoh when during studies at uni, i know that i am using my PTPTN money, but we always spending time together and took her travel to almost every state in penisular Malaysia...to Penang, KL (every week days) and Johor....during the time, we even went to Genting Highlands and Cameron from Ipoh.....during the Uni?studies years, we benn staying together and rent a house...but i know..the PTPTN money is not enough for our studies living...our parents do sent us more money not less than RM400. For me i think that my GF have arich family that her parents sent her mauch money during our studies years...

When we grad, we still together and she been post to a company near my place...then i also haven find any job for one year...but the second year on 2007 i finally find a job for a gov sector..... but my salary is not high if compare to those others gov officers that can get RM4K per month.....then i applying for an interview that i failed the interview twice....so my salary now becoming static with only RM2++K. i also afraid that i will lost job soon....when these  two years goes by, i can see a change from my gf that she says that i am a loser....so i often see her going out with other guys.....then we always fight. i wonder how can she behave in such ways...she has change.....i wonder what happening to her.....she always not intrested in me anymore....maybe is my income or my apperence that she always say that i am not goodlooking anymore like before...but i fell so starnge becouse my weight havent even change...maybe i now wearing spec?????

So just few days, my gf oledi dicuss with her parents that she dont want to meet me anymore.......she say many things about me with her parents....then she act so stange lately then finally we saparated.I am so despo right now couse i am not young anymore and all my pass friends oledi getting married and even had kids....my parents always advice me to forget about her and says she is useless , and dont think of getting girls right now....i now conduct a phycology doctor and take pills every nite to calm me down

i have a big fight with my gf last week.....he always say that i cannot aford her with my income.....our relatioship is going well during our universities, we been paktoh when during studies at uni, i know that i am using my PTPTN money, but we always spending time together and took her travel to almost every state in penisular Malaysia...to Penang, KL (every week days) and Johor....during the time, we even went to Genting Highlands and Cameron from Ipoh.....during the Uni?studies years, we benn staying together and rent a house...but i know..the PTPTN money is not enough for our studies living...our parents do sent us more money not less than RM400. For me i think that my GF have arich family that her parents sent her mauch money during our studies years...

When we grad, we still together and she been post to a company near my place...then i also haven find any job for one year...but the second year on 2007 i finally find a job for a gov sector..... but my salary is not high if compare to those others gov officers that can get RM4K per month.....then i applying for an interview that i failed the interview twice....so my salary now becoming static with only RM2++K. i also afraid that i will lost job soon....when these  two years goes by, i can see a change from my gf that she says that i am a loser....so i often see her going out with other guys.....then we always fight. i wonder how can she behave in such ways...she has change.....i wonder what happening to her.....she always not intrested in me anymore....maybe is my income or my apperence that she always say that i am not goodlooking anymore like before...but i fell so starnge becouse my weight havent even change...maybe i now wearing spec?????

So just few days, my gf oledi dicuss with her parents that she dont want to meet me anymore.......she say many things about me with her parents....then she act so stange lately then finally we saparated.I am so despo right now couse i am not young anymore and all my pass friends oledi getting married and even had kids....my parents always advice me to forget about her and says she is useless , and dont think of getting girls right now....i now conduct a phycology doctor and take pills every nite to calm me down

u have to understand women also need security...they have to choose their life partner properly....who wants to marry a poor guy....its not just about love sometimes...

that girl is just not suitable for you.....nobody is right or wrong here...

i don't think he is poor. He earns 2k plus per month. If he spends his money wisely, one day he will be rich. Its just this girl too demanding. She see the guy for his riches, not for who he is. But of course this is one side of the story. Bottom line is i don't think he is poor. He can give basic security and necessities but maybe she wants luxuries, since he mentioned travelling, etc etc.

hahahah..kesian...perempuan sekarang sungguh memilih. rugi wooo...

eventhough she's claimed that you're poor ( i believed it is money), you're not poor actually. SHE IS..because she need money from you to survive...please don't use money as an excuse to breakup!!!

so who is the poor now?..you or she???..why people in kampung with many children can survive where the husband only cari makan?????money doesn't meant anything, love and happiness are the most important in life...

you're not poor dude..she is!!!..because relying on your money to survive..

p/s: before breakup, better go sleep with her..hahahah

lol. what century are you living in? why on earth would you compare a university graduate to kampung folk? a kampung family can survive, no doubt, on one income. but times are different now. what kind of quality life as a parent can you give your children, if you are just barely surviving on one mediocre income? you should really reflect on that. love and hapiness alone ain't going to put food on your table. you need common sense.

i think u need professional help and support. Many years together with her, I think you might not have contact with many of your old friends. But find your good and old friends now. Its not too late.

Also, don't compare with others la...So what if others get married alr, I'm also at that age, but I not worried. I only wanna married at 30+, not 20+. You're a guy so i dont think its too big problem. The ocean got so many better fish. But you keep looking at your one old fish which swim away already. Many other pple here will also tell you this girl not worth it.

What for you wanna marry a girl who just wants your money? Don't you feel like being used? When u look back next time u will actually be really happy and grateful you guys broke up. You will want a girl who is crazy for you. Who aactually loves you for who you are.

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i don't think he is poor. He earns 2k plus per month. If he spends his money wisely, one day he will be rich. Its just this girl too demanding. She see the guy for his riches, not for who he is. But of course this is one side of the story. Bottom line is i don't think he is poor. He can give basic security and necessities but maybe she wants luxuries, since he mentioned travelling, etc etc.

Money beats everything, my friend.

MONEY > SEX

money talks, bullsh!t walks.