You can take revenge by introducing her to me.

Let's see how much she can squeeze while I squeeze her back

I hope you do get laid in those 2 months?

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Added on February 23, 2009, 9:38 pmLess than RM2k after 7 years? He work as office boy, security guard or in a CC?


This post has been edited by Malefic: Feb 23 2009, 09:38 PM

you should be thankful he left you before u got married to her ... with this kind of attitude she is bound to leave you later on also lol

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Added on February 23, 2009, 10:47 pmplz tell me u get to sleep with her

This post has been edited by Flizzardo: Feb 23 2009, 10:47 PM

second that

sigh, so true
which is why you can't put all the blame on girls

This post has been edited by ahmeimei: Feb 25 2009, 03:50 PM

Female, can't just simply wait for their guy to be successful...

Say, if the guy became successful at the age 40, can the guy guarantee that he will stay with him by the age of 40? If he doesn't, then the female's sacrifice by waiting that long.......is wasted!

Try to be achieved something higher, maybe your not proving that you wanna be a greater person then you are right now. Girls like man that always wanna achieved something greater, even though he has to start from scratch, at least your showing that you really care about both of your futures. Both are to blame here.

wad is ur career? so little pay 1?

Not so bad gua, since he can afford the mental doctor.

and he got a degree from a uni..
should be not bad..

Come to think of it, she's smart. Think long-term lah TS, how a poor fella like you gonna 'maintain and service' her properly? Focus on career first

so.. after reading your poor story...

all n all this is not your fault or any problem with you. the problem lies on you're just not man enuff for her..

well you realize where you need to change or improve? what you need to do? if yes then move on...plenty of gals out there. always learn from your previous relationship.

u r not the loser, she's the loser to be a matter of fact...

say good riddance to her and start life a new elsewhere with someone else who'd appreciate you for who and what you are. You're probably early 20s now so I say focus on building your career. In the meantime, go out and meet more people, make more friends. Stop being so desperate.

money is almost everything... if you both can't make it up your mind then the ending is the same... either you left her or she left you...

is cruel but is fact~!

2k++ consider low for fresh graduate with 0 exp in the field?

She is clever but evil
TS is dumb but faithful

TS,....I share u a song here.



my blood my blood my
i still love my
(my my my)

my valentine drawing rings around me
hanging by a thread but we're loosing loosing
the sparks were flying the type that we need
bringing a fire that is burning me burning me

(i know) nobody said that it'll be easy
(my heart) that we could find a way make a way
but you don't you don't ........ me

how am i suppose to feel that things wil ever change
ever change...


it's such a dirty mess so perfect that it's best
but it's my love my blood my bloody valentine
sometimes i wanna leave but then i watch you next to me
my blood my love my bloody valentine
maybe i should but i can't just walk away
you tried to convince me once agian that i should stay
through all the brokeness but my bleeding heart must confess
i love my love my bloody valentine

love my love my
i still love my (bloody valentine)


i opened doors but you closed them on me
i'm comprimising won't you show the same look the change
you show this ring for some shorty but that ain't me
what's her name? how did she getcha number?
don't try to be playing me
(cuz i'll know) before you ever say anything
(but i hope) you wouldn't lie to me don't lie to me
you know that we've been here before
don't patronize don't leave me lying
just change your ways make it right



it's such a dirty mess so perfect that it's best
but it's my love my blood my bloody valentine
sometimes i wanna leave but then i watch you next to me
my blood my love my bloody valentine
maybe i should but i can't just walk away
you tried to convince me once agian that i should stay
through all the brokeness but my bleeding heart must confess
i love my love my bloody valentine

love my love my
i still love my (bloody valentine)

i still love my love
love my love my

bloody valentine.

if something is called worthy, i willing to wait . yes i do,..... just don let me feel regret to be with him until i reach my age 40 he changes..............

f*** her...just leave her

One day,she'll get back what she'd done.


*CheerS*

Life still have to go on

Holy crap man... 20k!? The most I ever spent on a girl who wasn't serious about a real relationship is RM50... that was in college.

She agree go for movie date, but mana tau bring her friends along and then expect me to pay for all of them. MCH. So "fo guan" I told my frens and eventually she had a reputation in the college, so much so that she had to find "sui yu" from other college.

That was the first and last time I ever let myself be used. Situation like that happen again I straight say, "We go dutch, im not a tool like those other "water fish". Dun like my attitude, then too bad baby."


@TS:
Got alot of girls will use you and then drop you once you can't pay for their expensive lifestyle, cause "you want to pay for their stuff so why refuse?".

Also, spending your study loan money like water? Shows you dun know how to plan your finances well, never a good idea even if you have been with your gf for a long time.

As a guy, you must never stop improving yourself, never stop aiming high, never stop working hard towards your goals.
There is no such thing as planning too early, in fact if you plan earlier even better. As the saying goes, failing to plan is planning to fail.
Living on parents/loan money is really fun and easy cause you didn't have to work to earn it, but unless you're swimming in money, you'll regret not being prudent with your finances sooner or later.

Yes, money is not everything, but it is a necessity of life nevertheless.
Success at managing your money contributes a large chunk to your "success at life" meter.
Even girls who are not that materialistic will respect guys who have gotten themselves straight, and are mature enough to think and plan for the future.

If you find yourself stuck in a dead-end rut of a job, nonexistent-poor career development/advancement prospects, quit and get another one, or go for training courses/further education and improve yourself.

Graduating from college or uni is just the beginning of really improving yourself, because you don't know nothing until you've worked in the professional industry at least a year, and even then you may not really be qualified to call yourself a professional until you're at least half as good at what you do as people 10-20 years your senior.

Yeah life is tough, so be a man and do the right thing!

Now you know why there are so many gays in this world . Time have changed and so do girls. They no longer look at you for who you were and what you were made from, THEY LOOK INTO YOUR POCKET & REPUTATION!!

Girls keep talking about true love but do they really understand it? If you think they do then why so many girls still bother to leave their men after 'he' can no longer satisfied 'her' with all the material in the world? If they do believe in true love, why don't they go date a BEGGAR? There are some leng jai (hansom ) beggar too, all you need to do is clean them up, buy them some proper clothing, get them a proper job and I'm sure some of them can give these girls 'leong sam pak juk yeng toi' love experience (Chinese version of Romeo & Juliet ).

Girls in Malaysia (especially those who live in big cities) is becoming more like the Western girls, the more buying power they have (or when they feel it), the more demand they will ask from you. Don't believe me? Bring them to a shopping mall and you can see their attitude change 360º even if they are from remote areas.

Girls who are in denial of this fact were to be categorized into 3 types :

* They came from a rich family.
* Their men were rich or they themselves were rich (self earning).
* Naif girls who still don't understand about the reality of this world.

Some girls talk about future, next generation & blah blah blah. But all these were money related stuffs too, just they don't want to admit it (hypocrite). I personally RESPECT those girls who admit they look into men pocket. At least they are not living in a naif or a fantasy world and I can prepare myself if I want to date them.

TS, from your post I can see you have a local unrecognized degree (PTPTN, 1 year++ of unemployment and a Government job). My advise to you is to get a second degree from a private college (by doing part time) so you can find jobs in the private sector easily. Don't waste any more time thinking of her as you won't get her back. You have to think about yourself from now on and start focusing to earn more money while you are still young. Earning easy money like what you get from the PTPTN is the reason why you cannot find jobs for 1 year++ (IT MAKES YOU LAZY!!! ).

Once you are rich, girls will automatically flock to you. So FARK it and don't think of her any more! Think of MONEY from today onwards .