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Chat Gf left me, she say i am poor, 4 years relationship,fail future wedding

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TehWateva
post Feb 19 2009, 09:50 PM

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QUOTE(serigala @ Feb 19 2009, 09:13 PM)
i dont want to do that to my wife..

but for TS gf kind girl..will be my pleasure..

@TS..
actually Rm2K++ and live at kuching already stable..
just ur x-GF is damn material..she wants more..humans never satisfied easily when they have the chance to grab more do they?

thats why whenever girls ask my about my job..my answers will be either office-boy or security guard..to drive that type of girl away..
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Hey u got issues with people working as security guard? vmad.gif
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post Feb 19 2009, 09:58 PM

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QUOTE(TehWateva @ Feb 19 2009, 09:50 PM)
Hey u got issues with people working as security guard?  vmad.gif
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no..
coz it is quite a good pay job..not too high and not too low(to make the girl think..if she still wanna know me..means she passed the test)..
also it fits me when the caught me on my office time..usually i was walking around pasar payang(hate to stay in my office..damn lonely)..so security guard fits my bluff well..

This post has been edited by serigala: Feb 19 2009, 09:59 PM
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post Feb 19 2009, 10:06 PM

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post Feb 19 2009, 10:06 PM

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find those who are independent, i mean those who can make their own money,

these won't bother how much u make for a living, quite likely.

your ex is the kind that would marry the other guy's money instead of him.

This post has been edited by olman: Feb 19 2009, 10:08 PM
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post Feb 19 2009, 10:20 PM

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So sorry to hear about your predisposition and the depression you're going through. Hope you'll feel better soon.

As a matter of fact, let me cheer you up a bit. In most surveys and research, ladies can put up with lack of financial security from their men with on thing in exception. That she must observe that you, work hard, and take additional remedial steps to improve your finances, meaning if you take night class or get a second job; it calms their nerves to see you work hard to earn a better future for the both of you.

In summary, what girl needs from guys: affection, conversation, honesty, financial support and family commitment.

What guy needs from girl: sexual fulfillment, recreational companionship, attractiveness, domestic assistance and admiration.

YES, and it IS in THAT particular ORDER!


Added on February 19, 2009, 10:22 pm
QUOTE(olman @ Feb 19 2009, 03:06 PM)
find those who are independent, i mean those who can make their own money,

these won't bother how much u make for a living, quite likely.

your ex is the kind that would marry the other guy's money instead of him.
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Quite true, I have to agree to your summarizing line!

This post has been edited by kslee79: Feb 19 2009, 10:22 PM
MR_alien
post Feb 19 2009, 10:49 PM

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how old are u?
u should try the newspaper...go to private sector and prove to him
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post Feb 19 2009, 10:50 PM

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QUOTE(LiewFreddy @ Feb 19 2009, 04:28 PM)
i have a big fight with my gf last week.....he always say that i cannot aford her with my income.....our relatioship is going well during our universities, we been paktoh when during studies at uni, i know that i am using my PTPTN money, but we always spending time together and took her travel to almost every state in penisular Malaysia...to Penang, KL (every week days) and Johor....during the time, we even went to Genting Highlands and Cameron from Ipoh.....during the Uni?studies years, we benn staying together and rent a house...but i know..the PTPTN money is not enough for our studies living...our parents do sent us more money not less than RM400. For me i think that my GF have arich family that her parents sent her mauch money during our studies years...

When we grad, we still together and she been post to a company near my place...then i also haven find any job for one year...but the second year on 2007 i finally find a job for a gov sector..... but my salary is not high if compare to those others gov officers that can get RM4K per month.....then i applying for an interview that i failed the interview twice....so my salary now becoming static with only RM2++K. i also afraid that i will lost job soon....when these  two years goes by, i can see a change from my gf that she says that i am a loser....so i often see her going out with other guys.....then we always fight. i wonder how can she behave in such ways...she has change.....i wonder what happening to her.....she always not intrested in me anymore....maybe is my income or my apperence that she always say that i am not goodlooking anymore like before...but i fell so starnge becouse my weight havent even change...maybe i now wearing spec?????

So just few days, my gf oledi dicuss with her parents that she dont want to meet me anymore.......she say many things about me with her parents....then she act so stange lately then finally we saparated.I am so despo right now couse i am not young anymore and all my pass friends oledi getting married and even had kids....my parents always advice me to forget about her and says she is useless , and dont think of getting girls right now....i now conduct a phycology doctor and take pills every nite to calm me down
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Firstly, you are living beyond your means during your uni time to the impress your gf. And when you come to the reality world, things turn ugly.
This kind of episode is normal that most couple break off after finish their study as the gal gain a new perspective of the reality world. Money really mean something!

For those gal that deny money is important, you are either coming from a rich background or living in dreamland...

As for TS, you are a jerk if you allow your x-gf to bring you down so easily...
Remember one thing, you are a guy whom does not have age expiry. But gal do have age expiry...

Start hunting again & Good Luck
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post Feb 20 2009, 02:42 AM

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QUOTE(LiewFreddy @ Feb 19 2009, 04:28 PM)
i have a big fight with my gf last week.....he always say that i cannot aford her with my income.....our relatioship is going well during our universities, we been paktoh when during studies at uni, i know that i am using my PTPTN money, but we always spending time together and took her travel to almost every state in penisular Malaysia...to Penang, KL (every week days) and Johor....during the time, we even went to Genting Highlands and Cameron from Ipoh.....during the Uni?studies years, we benn staying together and rent a house...but i know..the PTPTN money is not enough for our studies living...our parents do sent us more money not less than RM400. For me i think that my GF have arich family that her parents sent her mauch money during our studies years...

When we grad, we still together and she been post to a company near my place...then i also haven find any job for one year...but the second year on 2007 i finally find a job for a gov sector..... but my salary is not high if compare to those others gov officers that can get RM4K per month.....then i applying for an interview that i failed the interview twice....so my salary now becoming static with only RM2++K. i also afraid that i will lost job soon....when these  two years goes by, i can see a change from my gf that she says that i am a loser....so i often see her going out with other guys.....then we always fight. i wonder how can she behave in such ways...she has change.....i wonder what happening to her.....she always not intrested in me anymore....maybe is my income or my apperence that she always say that i am not goodlooking anymore like before...but i fell so starnge becouse my weight havent even change...maybe i now wearing spec?????

So just few days, my gf oledi dicuss with her parents that she dont want to meet me anymore.......she say many things about me with her parents....then she act so stange lately then finally we saparated.I am so despo right now couse i am not young anymore and all my pass friends oledi getting married and even had kids....my parents always advice me to forget about her and says she is useless , and dont think of getting girls right now....i now conduct a phycology doctor and take pills every nite to calm me down
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i'll be honest i didnt read your whole post, but you know what dude, she probably doesn't love you as much then, take some time off and move on.. you'll do alright without her..
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post Feb 20 2009, 03:01 AM

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Now a days there is no more true love T.T

Money talks. If she has a choice for something significantly better why not? Work hard on your career for now and do activities that keep you busy e.g. some sports or a hobby. You'll emerge a stronger man after that!
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post Feb 20 2009, 03:04 AM

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work hard like cow no use. use your brain. but use your brain in public sector is a waste. so just continue your normal life. no need change anything. find a not so pretty girl that she also dun have choice.
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post Feb 20 2009, 03:09 AM

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stay single and u`ll earn more money to save and u go buy ur self a BMW
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post Feb 20 2009, 03:14 AM

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girls r suck gugu 1..... they just pick 1. at least give some support mah.

but now u r single, so u can fully focus on urself. Next time u revenge kao kao on her.
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post Feb 20 2009, 05:25 AM

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Level up TS and show her what you're really made off.She's not worth your time.You deserve someone better. smile.gif
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post Feb 20 2009, 08:43 AM

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money cant buy love

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post Feb 20 2009, 10:02 AM

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but money can maintain love! dont forget about it ! now a days is not like "good old days" bro

if you can't even fulfill your own needs dont expect to take care of some one else

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post Feb 20 2009, 10:13 AM

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Money can't buy love
Money can maintain relationship..
Money isnt everything.

If money is used as a tool or incentive just to maintain a r/ship, i say good luck to those relationships.

When your down and out, ur partner will kick u in the nuts and abandon u once ur money tree all dries up.

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at least she left u early and you found out really early what kind of woman she is, who knows u might hit the jackpot one day... and she'd be there to screw u over!

u need a life partner who both of u can depend on each other "for better or for worse", "through sickness and health" and "till death do us apart type". Move along throw away those pills, burn all ur ex pictures n things and get on with life, gd luck in your hunt for your other better half.


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hey tell u what get a console or pc and game for months sooner or later u will forget about her smile.gif
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post ur ex nude pic here...lets we describe she worth or not

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