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QUOTE(CherryD @ Nov 21 2008, 10:47 AM)
Please elaborate.
BTW what do u all guys/girls usually do during the weekend? is it always Party/Drinking/Smoking/Clubbing on Saturday night?sex?doing wild things?
Have u encounter a situation where u're mixing with all the whites/blacks and they're smoking and drinking but you don't. However you wouldn't wanna walk away coz you wanna be part of the gang and get to know people...so what would you do? (just 2 questions im curious about)
What you do during weekends depends on your lifestyle. How & where you grew up in.
As for me, I used to party like 3-4 nights a week. Non-stop back to back in my Sophomore & Junior year. Even if I have class the next morning, I never fail to show up to drinking parties & clubs

. But as you enter your Senior year, you'll set all these "activities" aside & focus more on serious stuff like building your career. Now, during my weekends, I usually stay at home & watch movie or TV series. I dunno why but I kinda not in the mood for all these "things" already. Of course, once in a while I'll go & hang out & enjoy myself. But not as often as before. I spent A LOT on booze last time. Uncountable

. As for the sex part, sometimes got la

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How you wanna mix & who you wanna is again up to yourself. No harm making more friends. As the Chinese proverb goes, "its better to have 1 more friend than 1 more enemy"

. I'm cool hanging out with everybody, be it blacks, whites, browns, yellows, greens, purples, pinky. Always remember, you're in a foreign land and respect people's culture. In return, people will respect you as a M'sian

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QUOTE(HanYH @ Nov 21 2008, 11:47 AM)
Yeah I'm in U.S now. Culture shock in terms of well, I have always been bothered by the special rights. And the ways people mingle with each other and the activities they do during free time, it's going to be very different, at least I think so, lol. I look at my bro who's still in KL and I can't even agree with him in almost everything he does

Added on November 21, 2008, 11:50 amThis totally depends on the people you hang out with. If you are friends with the party animals, then expect to get drunk every weekend (if that's your ideal college lifestyle, so be it

)
But of course, there are friends who know how to party yet study hard too, so yeah, it totally depends on who you are and who you want to be friends with.
Yes, no doubt U.S is the land of freedom & change. But some things are beyond our control like the "special rights" thing. Can't really do anything about it but just to live with it. Things are different every, just gotta adapt to the surroundings lo

. What to do? Close one eyes
Added on November 21, 2008, 12:45 pmHey when you guys go back to M'sia, we can have a gathering perhaps. What say you guys?
This post has been edited by P.I.M.P: Nov 21 2008, 12:45 PM