Lose what exactly? Hymens can tear from normal exercise/physical activity. What is there to lose exactly?


Sex is a natural part of life and relationships. The bond between people are stronger with sex.


Once again, what is she losing? The importance of virginity is entirely a social construct and it really MEANS NOTHING. I place no importance on virginity, its just about as important as the first kiss. There's some emotional attachment to the first person, but like your first anything, its not a big deal.

Guys who care about whether a girl is a virgin or not are bloody insecure.

Its quite true, rejection of sex is a sign of rejection of love. Sex is part of the relationship, you just don't understand that point yet. Maybe you're just young, naive and innocent. Maybe you'll come to understand the point some day.

The TS's boyfriend has been great, he has not forced her to do anything, but instead is trying to get her out of her shell. Its obvious the TS likes it too, she's just afraid. Truthfully, that fear exists because of the teachings people like you give, its denying a very important aspect of ourselves, which is probably why so many couples are miserable.


meru meru... im sick... can sex me up to cure me?

owhhhh i can sex you up but not sexually

You my friend deserve my respect!

being a virgin or not really is nothing..but society perceive girls who are not virgins as 'dirty' and have no 'value' and thus lose respect towards themm...i dont see anything disrespectful about being a non virgin unless you're always sleeping around with guys you dont have feelings for..then you are doing harm to your body and risking your health.

I think people who lose their virginity to some1 they love is a wonderful thing..Sex is beautiful and pleasant if you're doing it out of love. It is like a time that couple learn to udnerstand each other, and tighten bonds. society makes sex a taboo conversation sometimes..and i dont know why..is not like they dont need it..sex is like a necessity in life..esp for men...hiding that just show that sometimes ppl is living in denial..

Its quite simple really, I believe someone made sex taboo as a way to prevent unwanted pregnancies and reduce STDs from spreading. Soon the idea begins to spread and now we have silly situations like these.

People just cant forget the trend of a woman should protect their virginity and give to the one who marry her only,
so its pretty normal they cant accept it.

I dont really agree sex is some type of bond to make relationship stronger,
if both parties treat it like this its fine, but i dont think they really will do like this.
Either the man or woman will break it when something happen.
People treat sex nowaday as some kind of entertainment, "Just for fun, dont treat it real".
even some woman dont care they themself first time or not, how can man care.

sex education is like nil in our country...which makes matters even worst i think...ppl are so dumb when it comes to sex...just look at the thread in CC... a uni student..who has zero knowledge when it comes to sex and pregnancy... makes me

Japanese more open, they teach since primary, even have picture for the little student to see how it look like.
Good thing is make them know how to do,
Bad thing is make them feel like want to do.

i need to be educated on it
where can i find such school?

sex is suppose to be kept sacred and only to be enjoyed between wedded couples.
It looses meaning to have sex, if it's for plain pleasure.
imagine if you had sex 100 times already before you get married, when you see your wife, you go borrriinnggg

So if u married with your wife and then have sex for 100 times already, then you will also go boring?

zaxiao~ i feel boring reading your quote-_- apelah..i pity your future wife/gf lah... sex is like eating...u nvr get bored of eating do you? but u always eat same dish sure bored..same with sex...you alwys do the same routine sure bore.d...that's why married couple do changes to spice things up. i need to have sex with my husband to be to make sure he's up to standard but if that's your ideal so be it.

hobbes~ find sassy

its strange how culture effects ones perception of sex, some cultures refer being a virgin as a bad thing (even for females) and odd to say my doctor friend in uni tells me that in his travels mostly malaysians and some conservertive countires practice such, other then that humans have sex like rabbits.

where im at theres a sexuality club for gays and les, hahahah thinkk about that.

the meaning to have sex is not sacred love or anything my brother, its about breeding, every book you read about sex tells you this. love and sex is not some magical hoo haa that come with pixie dust, its just the simple urge to breed.

i need a school
where i can have orgy practicals everyday

aiyo... jz tell him u are not ready... maybe after marriage...

but i tell u, once it's in, u will love it...
jz kidding...

hobbbes ~ find sassy loh...he's be delighted to help you! :

once you pop you never stop?

Tell me, if someone can really explain to me the concept of virginity and how important it is relative to maintaining a relationship? Will it be blissful and fulfilling if the virginity is keep till marriage? What does it mean by she will lose everything? Lose what? Senses?

Please stop being naive.



Looks like someone doesn't get laid 'properly' ey?

Your assumption towards making love is so narrow and bias till you quickly assume it is bad? And your reasoning was to be blame on society's perception nowadays? Wow. +1 for your immaturity reasoning skills.

Frankly speaking? Its none of your business whether the couple perceives it is a form of entertainment or intimacy (bonding). Should they choose to follow either or both at the same time, its their own prerogative and neither is wrong. Guess you need more intimacy time with your love one before you even understood what's actually happening under your blanket. And it doesn't also means that if my sex life is good, my relationship should last longer.

+1!
3 cheers for unification of the body and soul!

aiyah...what's with this arguing..let's just have a sex party and decide!!!








This is clearly a jokE!

O.O

Hobbes? Not yet lunch ka?