My story began when im still in U... I met this gurl, B. She & i agreed to get together for 3 months. I agreed & we had the best of the 3 months... as time passes by we seems to agreed to be continue our relationship & however things changed fews months later. We started to argue bout simple things & i had to bow to her becoz i wont want to hurt her feelings. She also admitted she not happy when im wit her, even though i tried everyting & give her my all... In the end we broke off past few months & she sms me dat both of us dont have any relationship anymore. Ok, fine. Few weeks latter she sms me tht i need to give her pampasan for her "dara" dat i took from her. yes i slept with her based on mutual feelings & acceptance during the time. I agreed to her terms... monthly pocket money, weekly topups, gifts ( smartag, & phone ). I was basically "kering" after giving all those things to her untill i need to ask money from my sis to buy my own food. My family started to suspect me & questioning me many things regarding me & B, however i quiet & dunt want them to get involve. One day my sis saw B's sms on my phone & i got no choice but to explain to her... she was very "sap mong" with me & told me to ignore the gurl... Now i ignore her for couple of weeks already....

the lesson dat i had from my past relationship with B is, Dont have pre marriage sex. U will end up destroying urself...

i broke up about 3months plus ago.. out of my many past relationship im always the bf thats doesnt care if another guy is able to tackle my gf. i wouldnt mind if that guy is successful but if he's not, i'll juz have to say F urself loser~!. but things changed with this girl im always feeling insecured she's really a hottie and it seems like everywhere she goes guys are after her. after more than 3months i thought i am standing strong again probably stronger than ever but things like MSN, facebook and friendster brought me back down to earth HARD. she always pose with her new bf and expressing how much she loves him and all.. breaks my heart as if a thousand arrows stabbing my heart.

my friends are getting fewer and fewer resulting in fewer support for me.. life is harsh right now as i just screwed my uni damn its hard but optimism keeps me alive. should i ban and delete all contacts with her? i duwan to look weak though

dude, its nothing wrong to have pre marriage sex. its very normal. as for the pampasan thing, you are stupid enough to give all those to her are you sure she's a virgin? got blood come out? do u need to put your whole body weight on that particular place to penerate? my point is a girl will eventually loose their virgin at one point of their life you did not point a gun at her head to have sex with you did you? it only works when both hands clap together

Can foreplay break the hymen?

i tau la i noob... sigh...