no. its in your own. thats my believe. if u leave it to "god's" hands, then you're basically washing your hands off responsibility. there's always cause and effect, and whether consciously or unconsciously, u can be the cause or the effect

Everyone is both the cause AND effect

the mother said to me like this leh.. "if u both have a faith by GOD being together as a strong perfect mates.. both of u will always be together again"

walao.. but i was thinking.. if i don't change.. GOD will never change my path of life.. Arrghh.. like if i ignore of cause totally there is no chances la.. but what if i try but it still fail? or maybe 50/50 or 100% no chances.. =( or i really need to move on.. get more mature.. i'm so confused!

This post has been edited by fusionnetx: Apr 26 2009, 06:25 PM

lol, i have never put my destiny into the hands of lady luck, fate, or "god".

Take charge i say. Take responsibility. IF something good happened, why give someone else credit? investigate why it happened, and if something good happened cuz of something u did, good, take credit for it. On the other hand if life is a mess, admit responsibility, and make a change.

blaming "god", luck, and fate, generally leads to apathy for your own current situation which leads to self pity, instead of doing something constructive like making a change

confession of a broken heart... everything's a mistake.

This post has been edited by carmenlow_25: May 1 2009, 01:34 AM

I used to have a big broken heart, after glue up everything, tho' that was he rite one, then burnt down again ... haihz.. now left nuffing .... no feeling d ...

read all the way from 1st post until the last. Cant deny it makes me feels better especially the part silverhawk tried his hard to deny he is a buaya damn funny.
Just broke up vf my gf one month ago, 5 years relationship. I tried to get over it, but something happen day before yesterday, now i feel like shit again. Cant even concentrate in my study. Btw, thanks for the tips, it helps thought not much

well, of course reading the tips is not enuf silly. u gotta practice the tips everyone has shared

and dun be defeatist. that itself was one of the tips lol

*sigh* from My experience , technically speaking you can never get over a past relationship.... The thoughts still remain , since your subconscious remembers every detail.... You would have to condition yourself to not see her in a romantic sense...... So....

What the hell is it Im saying...

QUIT THINKIN ABOUT HER ALREADY , AND GET RID OF ANYTHING THAT WILL REMIND YOU OF HER..... NO MATTER WHAT HAPPENS... CONSIDER YOURSELF LUCKY TO HAVE EXPERIENCED SUCH A THING...

AS THE SAYING GOES " WHAT DOESN't KILL YA" MAKES YOU STRONGER... YEEHAA !!!

easy one my friend taught me " Pegi ambik pisau.. "

If your partner meant so much for you, I doubt you can get over it...cuz he/she already marked their entry into your heart... so deeply... and it is not like a rubber where you can rub it off totally, there will still be a mark in your heart....

Well, you can only move on ... anyhow the mark will still be there... If the problem liase on u...then try to change to a better person...if the problem liase on your partner, then think on the bright side that you are not the bad 1...just think of your own life is more important then you shall get over it...

I know it is easy to say...but... you will just need time... 1 year or 2 years no 1 know...just take ur time...do what you should and move on...there are plenty of guys/gals out there.. 1 will suit you anyhow..cheers!

I totally agree with when you are in love with someone, love him/her with all your heart. Put in efforts to make the relationship interesting, maintain the attractions between the two of you. Never be too comfortable, and you will start to take things for granted. You will see him/her as a companion, not a lover anymore. Be passionate to her, be romantic to her, don't be afraid and don't be stingy to tell her and show her your love.

Being too comfortable with each other, eventually it will end in both going separate ways. Always remember this!

My gf of 4 years+ had broke up with me last week. We tried out many times to work things out but it really didn't turn out to be what we wanted. I made too many mistakes and empty promises to her until she felt doubt and unsecure about our relationship. I really tried to be the guy that she wanted all the while but failed. I'm not a good bf though and this was my first relationship. I think I'm a bad partner cos I'm bad tempered when everything went wrong. I really regretted what I did and I always said the wrong things to her that hurt her feelings. I think our communications got problems and attitude is not suitable.

This post has been edited by ITforce: Jun 23 2009, 08:36 PM

just break up with my girl last night..
she just back from australia and 1st time meet after 4 months.
LDR is realy tough.
sigh~

sigh. LDR.. I had LDR for nearly 1.5 years but we broke up a few months ago. it wasn't tough to me but for him. i tin if one party has no more commitment in the relationship, LDR's nt going to work anymore. Now im in the process of getting over it and yes, pls do follow recommended steps given. i believe it helps. don't stay in the sorrow for too long. get over it. you'll get a better one.

the cause and effect
well, thing is like a circulation wat come around will goes around
~A girl like u is impossible to find, impossible to find..~

Well,life have to go on too...

Time heals everything they say.

guys go to thailand or china.. plenty of girls there hohoho..
just came back from bangkok/pattaya.. so many "Sui Jing Jing" lerr.. what to worry.. malaysia cannot find go there find arr!!

wow..seem u enjoying ur life now

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Added on June 28, 2009, 5:34 pmu need super strong glue to put ur heart back...
same like me lah..no feeling d for dunno how long

This post has been edited by k@|i0s: Jun 28 2009, 05:34 PM

watch movies every weekends... see leng luis at shopping centre. then, day by day... ur moodiness and pain will disappear slowly.