If your partner meant so much for you, I doubt you can get over it...cuz he/she already marked their entry into your heart... so deeply... and it is not like a rubber where you can rub it off totally, there will still be a mark in your heart....

Well, you can only move on ... anyhow the mark will still be there... If the problem liase on u...then try to change to a better person...if the problem liase on your partner, then think on the bright side that you are not the bad 1...just think of your own life is more important then you shall get over it...

I know it is easy to say...but... you will just need time... 1 year or 2 years no 1 know...just take ur time...do what you should and move on...there are plenty of guys/gals out there.. 1 will suit you anyhow..cheers!