*sigh* from My experience , technically speaking you can never get over a past relationship.... The thoughts still remain , since your subconscious remembers every detail.... You would have to condition yourself to not see her in a romantic sense...... So....

What the hell is it Im saying...

QUIT THINKIN ABOUT HER ALREADY , AND GET RID OF ANYTHING THAT WILL REMIND YOU OF HER..... NO MATTER WHAT HAPPENS... CONSIDER YOURSELF LUCKY TO HAVE EXPERIENCED SUCH A THING...

AS THE SAYING GOES " WHAT DOESN't KILL YA" MAKES YOU STRONGER... YEEHAA !!!