does your gf noe that time u have another gal (ur ex) in your heart??does she noe wats happening that time???
b4 i was wit my bf..i stil like my ex..(not so much compare 2 my current bf)..but i learn 2 control my feelings n i noe that i 1 2 be loyal..so i slowly 4get my ex..n i rely did it..i came 2 fal in love more n more wit my current bf...but now..i ask myself whether i can accept what he did 2 me..the answer is no..i cant accept it..i duno y im stil wit him now..he actually din cheat on me..he jus like that gal...they oni met once!!!!!!he promise me he wil not contact that gal anymore..need 2 giv him time 2 4get bout her..im 2 soft hearted..haihz...y i cant be like other gals.like my fren,can jus 4get bout her bf easily..

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Added on June 3, 2008, 9:17 pmThis is Leona Lewis song title BETTER IN TIME
i hope this song can help those same situation like mine..its nice 2 hear it 2..

It's been the longest winter without you
I didn't know where to turn to
See somehow I can't forget you
After all that we've been through

Going coming thought I heard a knock
Who's there no one
Thinking that I deserve it
Now I realize that I really didn't know
If you didn't notice you mean everything
Quickly I'm learning to love again
All I know is I'ma be okay

[ Chorus: ]

Thought I couldn't live without you
It's gonna hurt when it heals too
It'll all get better in time
And even though I really love you
I'm gonna smile cause I deserve to
It'll all get better in time

How could I turn on the TV
When there's something there to remind me
Was it all that easy
To just put aside your feelings

If I'm dreaming don't wanna let
Hurt my feelings
but that's the path
I believe in
And I know that time will heal it
If you didn't notice
boy you meant everything
Quickly I'm learning to love again
All I know is I'ma be okay

[ Chorus: ]
Thought I couldn't live without you
It's gonna hurt when it heals too
It'll all get better in time
And even though I really love you
I'm gonna smile cause I deserve to
It'll all get better in time

Since there's no more you and me
It's time I let you go
So I can be free
And live my life how it should be
No matter how hard it is I'll
be fine without you
Yes I will

[ Chorus: ]

Thought I couldn't live without you
It's gonna hurt when it heals too
It'll all get better in time
And even though I really love you
I'm gonna smile cause I deserve to
It'll all get better in time

Thought I couldn't live without you
It's gonna hurt when it heals too
It'll all get better in time
And even though I really love you
I'm gonna smile cause I deserve to
It'll all get better in time

This post has been edited by gracechew: Jun 3 2008, 09:17 PM

haihz! if you cant accept it den seriously, MOVE ON!!!
complaining about it is not use.
it's not that your fren can easily forget her bf.
she just CHOSE to move on.
she can be hurting inside but at least she's trying.
if you continue to just ignore what he's doing, he's going to do it to you again and again.
and t'll be no one's fault but yours.

MOVE ON

hi Grace,

U adi know wat u wan n wat should do.. juz tat u r not confident on urself n scare u wil regret.. think carefully.. tat's only 2 ways u can choose.. take it o leave it.. if u choose to take it then try not to think abt the past n trust on him again n love urself more.. if u choose to leave it, then b stronger.. it's hard time but for sure u can make it..

Good luck..

hi, i'm gracechew's bf ... i know that i was wrong, actually i was jz like grace... i like that gal but i didn't take any action, and now i aredi decided 2 stop contact with that girl, even all my friends also encouraged me to be with grace. I'm sorry grace... i will always love you, always always... i'm sorry that i hurt you, please allow me to be the good guy in ur heart again. We have been together 4 years.. love make us be together so long... thanks for the advises from all the forumers, i will be a good bf

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Added on June 5, 2008, 9:16 pmhi, i'm gracechew's bf ... i know that i was wrong, actually i was jz like grace... i like that gal but i didn't take any action, and now i aredi decided 2 stop contact with that girl, even all my friends also encouraged me to be with grace. I'm sorry grace... i will always love you, always always... i'm sorry that i hurt you, please allow me to be the good guy in ur heart again. We have been together 4 years.. love make us be together so long... thanks for the advises from all the forumers, i will be a good bf

This post has been edited by magnumrolez: Jun 5 2008, 09:16 PM

eh! better pujuk her back nicely
grace! don let him off so easily!!
swt! i feel like nagging you for all the pain you've caused her. treat her nicely okay?!

i rely din expect that u (my bf) wil be coming into my thread to write..alamak...habis...he noes wat bad thing i wrote bout him...hahaha!dear,if u read this thread again..i will giv u chance again 2 be a good bf..i mean i aso 1 2 be wit u aso..but i rely hope that u dun do this 2 me again..rely painful... mayb this is jus a small obstacle we have 2 face..there r more 2 come..we wil go tru it 2geta okie???jus dun do this type of hal anymore...banyak banyak sakit..say sakit but u duno how pain is it lah sei guai!!!!alice u r right..i jus din have the courage 2 move on like my fren..noe how 2 talk but cant even do it...so sorry...but i rely thank u 4 ur advises..hehehe!

after i read some of the replies from all of you, i really feel like that girl is kinda dangerous, she is like... will do anything when she wants me, but when she feels like want to be with bf again, will just let off immediately without any hesitation, haha! Honestly i'm really glad my gf still willing to be with me, i really appreciate that, and i promise will treat her better!!!! in meantime, i wish some of our forumers here don't be too disappointed here.. perhaps think will change to be right way again... i will be a good bf ... thank u semua!!!

Did your bf send wrong sign to her?

Dun worry.. i understand.. i really understand.. i m going through all tis before n now.. just hope u will not getting hurt again like me for the 2nd time.. it's very sh*t.. so try to concentrate more on urself n frend.. dun too dependent on this relationship.. we girls always too soft-hearted n weak to depend on the relationship too much n getting more hurt when sh*t happened.. it's for good sake of urself n ur bf n tis healthy relationship.. go n read more u will get more.. but it take time to change/improve.. good luck to all of the good girls like us.. n hope i can fast fast get out from this sh*t n get a new good bf soon..

P/S: i always here when u need someone to talk u r free to find me..


I really hope tat u know wat's ur problem n wat's ur fault.. n take it as a lesson.. n dun repeat it again.. dun talk one do others.. action speak the words.. so go n proof to ur gf tat she is the one n only one u love the most... appreciate what u hv now.. dun take her for granted.. if tis kind of case happened again.. i wont let u go.. jk jk..

as for the girl plz get her out from ur world.. stopping thinking abt her n delete all the related stuff abt her.. a girl like her wont b too good.. doing those small tricks to ruin other relationship.. she just plain too selfish.. she will get double back from wat she did to ur gf.. i promise tat.. she will get it.. just in term of times..

This post has been edited by @lice~~: Jun 6 2008, 01:31 PM

i guess its a happy ending after all.. glad to see ur bf still know what is right and wrong..

well..one advice is never ever try to steal other ppl's guy or girl, u'll never know it might happen back to you the same thing..

TS, u got challenger. So stop whinning and do your part.

NO it's NOT okay to steal other girls' boyfriends because I don't think you'd like the same thing to happen to you, you inconsiderate brats.

u rely glad that i stil with u meh?!!! tak ada show any appreciation aso...hehehe!!u say ga u promise u wil treat me better...but i stil think u duno how 2 show me appreciation lor..need me 2 alwis remind u geh... cis....i say that girl is dangerous u dun 1 2 listen 2 my opinion...oni wen read other forumers oni really feel like she is dangerous...alamak.. next time listen 2 my advise okie??hehehe!!

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Added on June 6, 2008, 8:00 pmyeah i agree wit u..we girls alwis 2 soft-hearted..thats y mother's day is celebrated earlier than father's day!!!yeah it rely take time..he (my bf) take time 2 4get that girl(AH HEMM!!2 my bf if u read tis u noe wat i mean)..me..i have 2 take time 2 heal..i mean whatever things he is doing now especially on the phone i wil take a peek(wen he is around..not behind his back)...cant rely trust 100% anymore..i hope i wun be like that..i hope i wil have trust again n no need 2 feel insecure..
2 alice,i hope u wil get out from this sh*t ASAP!!although i think my situation is not so serious s urs..but mayb this sh*t wil come back 2 me aso...one day..mayb..that shity guy of urs mayb come running back 2 u..if u aredi get rid of him in ur heart..u can have sweet revenge time hahaha!!jus joking!


This post has been edited by gracechew: Jun 6 2008, 08:00 PM

if for me, i wld go face 2 face. because eventually things WILL actually go worse and no1 will knw wht will happen rite? whether or not they hv been for 4 yrs.. so wht?? even 10 yrs will hv the same ending if jus left like that... trust me....
when tht day finally comes, who wld u blame?? make sure u remind him as well... and talk 2 de other girl... make her und tht bf just trying 2 b a gd fren...

i'm kinda selfsifh to say this ... even though i really appreciated the advices, but pls dun misguide my gf to be mean or something, she is kind hearted, i hope she always will be that way... wrong guidance will only worsen our relationship, i love my gf... thank you for the cooperation

we're not misguiding her. just advising.
besides, i don't think its mean of us to tell her to do something that we think is good for her yeah

heh...face 2 face..i think now dun need 2 face 2 face gua...unles my bf allow me 2 do it la..(with him)..i wouldnt go alone wit that gal...but actually i aso 1 2 make things clear (dun need face 2 face) ..but i gues that gal wun tel the truth even she is lying..if she is telling the truth..den my bf wil kasihan her more n more????haihz...actually duno wat my bf is thinkin until he wil do tis 2 me..mayb get knocked off by that girl's tears n beauty
to my bf..u cannot deny the fact that sum ppl rely give good advise..is jus that i din 4low oni...cuz i stil love u n i rely dun 1 2 lose u...but wen i think about what u did 2 me last week..the hurt n pain seems 2 be hiding inside..wen i look at u sleeping 2day..i felt so comfortable jus by looking at u sleepin..i duno y..hahaha!i wil remain 2 be good..dun worry..unles u 9394 again la!!den i wil wen u r sleeping!!huh!!!!dun ask 4 that time!!!

Dun look back n regret what u hv done on the decision.. once u hv make the decision dun regret n use ur full heart to appreciate it.. by the while u still need to love urself now... dun fully concentrate on ur bf only.. try to divide it to urself, family n frens.. i believe if he really love he should understand it... remember LOVE URSELF more..

Today not in the good mood... dunno y i m like tat.. n juz now accidentally fall one plate of my mum dish.. well, no one scold me o blame me abt it.. but i juz feel not good... feel like crying now but i know i cant... i must b tough n stronger.. i dun wan my family to worry abt me God, plz send me more love n caring n make me stronger..

YES, u r.. u r too selfish.. n we r not misguide ur gf.. we stil telling the true n fact tat we faced.. n the possibility... if u r really love ur gf tat much stop thinking urself.. plz think for her in her shoes.. we r here not teaching her to 2 timing u o watever worst.. we r just advise her to love herself more n it doesn't mean we r misguide... u r lucky tat the thread is in Girl's club, if tis thread is happen to b in Cupid Corner, i believe u r kena flame kau kau now..

Appreciate wat u hv now..

u have to fight with your own way

oh...dun be sad..but if u feel like crying jus let it all out...2day i aso cried..i aso duno y...my mood is like ur mood 2day..not very good with all the assignments 2 come..that gal did sms my bf again..haihz...i feel so helpless..but like u said..i have made my decision so i think i mus face the consequences now..i aso wished that my bf sometimes tiny tiny little bit think in my shoes..its not easy 2 c him smsed that gal wen i have 2 pretend nth is happening..feel like jus 1 2 knock my head against the wall..faint den dun need 2 think so much..i hope he wun come 2 read my thread again..