I honestly hope that the starter of this post (Gweneth or TS??) is still around to read this.. if not it will still be a good read for all the girls in this page.
There are no such thing as Ugly girls.. only Lazy girls. (same go to guys) As one of the forum readers have said there are many things u can do to improve yourself. I won't revert to the list - he was quite thorough from cleaning to exercise to make up etc.. I believe he or some other contributor even touched on inner beauty in addition to outer beauty. I honestly think by the time u get to page 15 -16 of this thread u kinda have an idea what most guys want in a girl.
So instead I will give u the reason WHY u kinda HAVE to do so to mark up your marketability with guys. Simply take into account if it you who was on the receiving end of this thread and a guy asks u why he stays single for 25 yrs.. u will have a tonne of requirements set up for him.. its survival of the fittest yes.. but each lock will find its own key.. and some bastardly ppl think they have skeleton keys.. sigh.. anyway.
Lets turn the table around.. if u wanted a guy to spend your whole life with.. u would also expect him to be of average(if not good looking as bonus) weight also can exercise etc.. but down to stability of character, good education (if any), good job, good pay, good upbringing, love children, love u, be tender, have a car to drive u around, better if can buy a car for u to drive yourself around, take u for holidays etc etc. U see.. both sexes are subject to such criterias.
Both have to equally work hard to achieve such and such (mental/physical/social) status before they can become attractive to the opposite sex. Its not really about being weak or strong.. If u are a strong one.. and are verbally capable of doing sales presentations etc.. earn a healthy sum or have a good career whatever.. thats your strong points.. you really need not change yourself (downgrade) to whomever u fancy's level. Instead choose to upgrade whatever u think u lack in (social/mental/physical/makeup) etc skills and criteria.
Love is a fair game. And your mind as a mental magnet will attract whatever u project yourself to be. If u choose to be beautiful, successful, confident, capable and outgoing.. u will attract likewise guys.. u keep brooding around without improving yourself.. u will attract less than desirable types instead of good husband material. Main point being both sexes need to work hard to groom yourselves up (physically/mentally/socially) to the best that u can be.. dun be lazy.. coz even in the animal world.. its the one that works hardest, fights back hardest to improve what life started u off with that makes u attractive to the opposite sex.
Good luck and take up some of the girl's advice here for makeovers and pep talks.

You may be young now.. but thats still no excuse for u or anyone to slacken down.. remember there are no ugly ppl.. only lazy ppl. What u see yourself as is how ppl see u.

Start from within.. and let your glow encompass the world around u. Be perfect! or better still.. Be Fabulous!!
This post has been edited by BCO_WP: Aug 19 2008, 07:57 AM