TS, from your topic title, seems like you got a HUGE self esteem problem. how can someone said she "single for 25 years"? you mean that you been aiming to find a bf as soon as you were born to this world ?

well, being unattractive is not blocking path in finding a partner. just dont keep your expectations high. I'm sure there are many out-of-shape nerds with heart of gold that is willing to know you better.

well in this realistic world, sometimes sitting there doing nothing will get all Mr rights to turn "left" before knowing TS even exist. Perform a self evaluation of one's strenght and weakness, then maybe find ways to improve those improve-able, and get out and meet more people. eventually the right guy will appear.

sometimes we all hard to admit it that as long as someone looks "presentable" and "nice/kind" enough, he/she has equal chances. but then again, presentable-ness , and how people perceive "nice/kind" is pretty subjective. behaving like normal and feel "something is wrong" in love life, will gets her lonely for a long time time one.

Maybe TS can improve various aspect of communicating with people and become more cheerful. Guys dig girls who smiles often.

just like girls prefer confident guys (even those with shitty looks). The same applies the opposite way.

Guys will stay away from girls who whined and think themselves negatively. Many "average" gal held their head high and straight, do things with confidence, and with the magic of proper make-up and presentable clothing style..... you see guys wagging their tails waiting to date her

for all single females out there, remember. there ARE many car parking spots JUST for you gal drivers in Cineleisure. So its a boon to be in your shoes once in a while.