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 How much should a guy earns per month?, When they reach 30

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SUSSPS
post Sep 5 2008, 04:23 PM

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QUOTE(JuneJing @ Sep 5 2008, 03:58 PM)
mm..i thk 30 years old maybe shud stated on atleast 12k per month IF married. coz including all de expenses like house loan,car loan [2 cars ] ,electricity bill , water bill , credit cards , children education fees [ one child ] , own entertainment fees , wife's entertainment fees [ if u r planing to to let ur wife work after married ] but atleast give abit to ur wife lorr, ur parents pocketmoney, ur wife's parents pocketmoney, and whole family travel expenses once a year. is it look enuf after so many things? O_______________o

if not marry yet but gt gf , atleast 7k per month. Y SO MUCH? do u spend more on wife or gf? diamond rings, psp , handphone , hair dressing, LV bags , Gucci bags , branded clothes. maybe only left around 2 k for urself. the 2 k for car loan , parent's pocketmoney , sister/brother begging u for pocketmoney [ if u r the eldest ] , credit card (S) [ one for u, one for ur gf ] .  whistling.gif  , saving for wedding is a MUST.

if not marry and dun have a gf but gt someone that u admiring. 4k. buy some lil surprise to chase the gal and spent 1/4 of the money to decorate urself.and 2/4 vto buy off the gal's best fren(s) mind.  tongue.gif  and 1/4 to save for wedding in future.

if not marry yet and dun have a gal fren and NOT YET have someone that u admire. 3 k. spent watever u like. but please do remember to give some to ur parents n save for marriage.

if not marry yet+no gf+no admire+dun plan to marry= alone. den suppose to be 15k per month. pay for parents,loans,saving for future to specialist home for elderly fees. tongue.gif
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You must be one of those miserable women of those 3-figure per month income earners working in a deadbeat clerical job in some flea-infested backwater one man proprietorship tucked away in a dilipated shop house.

Earn your own DAMN MONEY instead of leeching of others!!!!
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post Sep 5 2008, 04:56 PM

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QUOTE(SPS @ Sep 5 2008, 04:23 PM)
You must be one of those miserable women of those 3-figure per month income earners working in a deadbeat clerical job in some flea-infested backwater one man proprietorship tucked away in a dilipated shop house.

Earn your own DAMN MONEY instead of leeching of others!!!!
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erhem~im not using my bf money or not even asking him to buy me anything thou he is able to affort. I earned my so-called DAMN MONEY with some freelance jobs n my parents support me as im still a student okay.

mine LV and Gucci is come from my own wallet.

Dun ever jealous others that able to give those to their love one.and they are wanting to give out.

Gals are not pointing a gun on their head to force them.

Just u r not one of them. dun try to shirks on all the fault to us. shakehead.gif
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post Sep 5 2008, 05:13 PM

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QUOTE(JuneJing @ Sep 5 2008, 04:56 PM)
erhem~im not using my bf money or not even asking him to buy me anything thou he is able to affort. I earned my so-called DAMN MONEY with some freelance jobs n my parents support me as im still a student okay.

mine LV and Gucci is come from my own wallet.

Dun ever jealous others that able to give those to their love one.and they are wanting to give out.

Gals are not pointing a gun on their head to force them.

Just u r not one of them.  dun try to shirks on all the fault to us.  shakehead.gif
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Then don't post statements exhorting men to earn such-and-such an income in order to feed some materialistic woman's needs for branded consumer products.

This has nothing with jelousy - this is about standing on your own damn feet instead of being an economic leech. Use your brains to think straight if you have any.




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post Sep 5 2008, 05:42 PM

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well 12k is quite....high la...
for our malaysian people...
who live in kl... Atleast by the age of 30
they shud earn rm5k and above...
or min rm4k...now woman all high maintenance
how to support them if u dun hav money..
seriously...some more all the loans...
Yala...for normal living or normal people
4k to 5k is enuff...5k above is better.


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post Sep 5 2008, 06:04 PM

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QUOTE(nadeary @ Sep 5 2008, 05:42 PM)
well 12k is quite....high la...
for our malaysian people...
who live in kl... Atleast by the age of 30
they shud earn rm5k and above...
or min rm4k...now woman all high maintenance
how to support them if u dun hav money..
seriously...some more all the loans...
Yala...for normal living or normal people
4k to 5k is enuff...5k above is better.
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What happened to the concept of self-maintenance?

Aren't these women ashamed of being economic leeches?
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post Sep 5 2008, 06:12 PM

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Sps are u a guy...if yes..
okey let me tell u this....
u want us to treat u super nicely..
u hav to give us something that can make us stick on u.
Love is one thing la...but money is a plus...
u want us to look nice purrttyy and sexy..
u hav to support us...bcuz for me la...
I will work also...and i will do house keeping or cooking for my hubby..
And if he want ehem... I will do something special...
But money tetap money beb..No money no talk!
If marry with guy with no money..u will sensara later on...



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post Sep 5 2008, 06:22 PM

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QUOTE(SPS @ Sep 5 2008, 03:21 PM)
I pressume your BF is working for Accenture (just a stab in the dark on this).

A person earning RM10,000 per month as a salaried worker is very uncommon at the age of 30.  As a corporate working woman yourself, you know perfectly that corporations in Malaysia do not dish out RM10K monthly paychecks unless they are at least of senior management level (and how many 30 year olds are there who sit in such positions)?

So your statement regarding a monthly salary of RM10,000 for an office worker in Malaysia as being "average" is utterly off the mark.
He's just a senior consultant. Will only be promoted to manager next year...

According to his company, min pay for a manager is 12k(excluding benefits & allowances), and 16k(excluding benefits & allowances) for a senior manager, so? there is still another 5 years for him to hit to tat senior level smile.gif gambateh darling!!
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post Sep 5 2008, 06:23 PM

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QUOTE(nadeary @ Sep 5 2008, 06:12 PM)
Sps are u a guy...if yes..
okey let me tell u this....
u want us to treat u super nicely..
u hav to give us something that can make us stick on u.
Love is one thing la...but money is a plus...
u want us to look nice purrttyy and sexy..
u hav to support us...bcuz for me la...
I will work also...and i will do house keeping or cooking for my hubby..
And if he want ehem... I will do something special...
But money tetap money beb..No money no talk!
If marry with guy with no money..u will sensara later on...
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Fair enough if you seeking a traditional husband-wfe relationship whereby the man is the main breadwinner of the family and thus the leader of the household.

What I object to is the notion of demanding so-called equal rights and material stuff yet provide nothing in return to the other half.


Added on September 5, 2008, 6:26 pm
QUOTE(Greybear @ Sep 5 2008, 06:22 PM)
He's just a senior consultant. Will only be promoted to manager next year...

According to his company, min pay for a manager is 12k(excluding benefits & allowances), and 16k(excluding benefits & allowances) for a senior manager, so? there is still another 5 years for him to hit to tat senior level smile.gif gambateh darling!!
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Your remakrs does not address my earlier statement.

Regarding my mentioning your bf is working in Accenture, I was formerly an employee there and based on your postings it led me to my supposition that he is working for this organization.

This post has been edited by SPS: Sep 5 2008, 06:26 PM
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post Sep 5 2008, 06:40 PM

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hmmm well i dont knowla...
but nowadays guys are so lazy.. tongue.gif..
woman gotta work hard to earn money for family.

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QUOTE(nadeary @ Sep 5 2008, 06:40 PM)
hmmm well i dont knowla...
but nowadays guys are so lazy.. tongue.gif..
woman gotta work hard to earn money for family.
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Laziness is not a desirable trait regardless of gender.


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post Sep 5 2008, 07:07 PM

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i dont think there's really a how much should a guy earn...because it connects to the degree on how much you want to spend from his money...and i'm not a gold digger..i dont really like my guys to pay for my everything..makes me feel useless..i prefer to be independent an earn my own money...it;s okay if he buys me gift and bring me to a holiday etc..but not to the extent that everything i buy and do..he must pay for.
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QUOTE(MeruChan @ Sep 5 2008, 07:15 PM)
i dont think there's really a how much should a guy earn...because it connects to the degree on how much you want to spend from his money...and i'm not a gold digger..i dont really like my guys to pay for my everything..makes me feel useless..i prefer to be independent an earn my own money...it;s okay if he buys me gift and bring me to a holiday etc..but not to the extent that everything i buy and do..he must pay for.
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yeah~totally agree..i dun like to use my bf money but if he buy me any gifts as surprise will be a bonus. I also bought him alot of presents too.sometimes i even surprise him with whole day trip and im the one who paying.

no point to ask guy pay all.some more i will feel more happy if i buy things with my own hard-earned money [thou im just working freelance] . sense of achievement. flex.gif

coming matta fair..planing to invite him for a romance holidays. tongue.gif

in my statement above, i dint say a guy must spend money on women, but if they wanting.

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post Sep 6 2008, 10:14 AM

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geee u guys talked as if the money is earned easily
how many of u guys/gals out there r still students or freshies in the market?

how many of u came from a well to do family who can afford to send u guys to college and universities?

i started working right out of SPM. Family didn't hv money to support.

IMHO, some of u have not seen the real world with some of the postings here. Just naive bout the real world out there.


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post Sep 6 2008, 10:39 AM

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this is the basic stupidity people do all the time, which is jumping into the lifestyle they could barely maintain

what a guy earns a month is not as important as how he manages his money to grow and what lifestyle you choose to live in.




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post Sep 6 2008, 10:54 AM

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This thread is full of people with their head up in the clouds. Derailed thread, is very much derailed
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post Sep 6 2008, 11:29 AM

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15k? sweat.gif
if add up the income of the man and wife for 15k still reasonable lar (still quite rare this days actually)

cant earn like 10k by the age of 30 is consider not capable? damm i bet allmost all of my guys friend are not capable enuf lor.

nowdays u got a steady job and can manage you and your family income is consider very good already looking at our current economics sweat.gif
and ofcuz the guy or gal have to work hard and try to achieve a better life stlye la, but as one of the forrumer said la, dun jump into the life style u could barely maintain< this sentence is made of win thumbup.gif


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post Sep 6 2008, 06:49 PM

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i agree with 15k is the total of both husband and wife, thats like 7.5k per person at the sage of 30, which is quite ok in malaysia, to speak of 15k / month for a person... there are not many, but still achievable, but the majority whic is the mid class makes bout 5k / month
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Sigh, no wonder nowdays all the guys dump their gf becoz of WOW or DOTA. tongue.gif 15k a month ? Guys, pls lah.. work for urself and ur famili , and not those who want u to earn this much so that they can live a luxurious life and play mahjong all day long. No gals wont die wan, u still have ur right hand .... tongue.gif
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this thread make me(guy) feel pressure sweat.gif sweat.gif

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