mm..i thk 30 years old maybe shud stated on atleast 12k per month IF married. coz including all de expenses like house loan,car loan [2 cars ] ,electricity bill , water bill , credit cards , children education fees [ one child ] , own entertainment fees , wife's entertainment fees [ if u r planing to to let ur wife work after married ] but atleast give abit to ur wife lorr, ur parents pocketmoney, ur wife's parents pocketmoney, and whole family travel expenses once a year. is it look enuf after so many things? O_______________o

if not marry yet but gt gf , atleast 7k per month. Y SO MUCH? do u spend more on wife or gf? diamond rings, psp , handphone , hair dressing, LV bags , Gucci bags , branded clothes. maybe only left around 2 k for urself. the 2 k for car loan , parent's pocketmoney , sister/brother begging u for pocketmoney [ if u r the eldest ] , credit card (S) [ one for u, one for ur gf ] . , saving for wedding is a MUST.

if not marry and dun have a gf but gt someone that u admiring. 4k. buy some lil surprise to chase the gal and spent 1/4 of the money to decorate urself.and 2/4 vto buy off the gal's best fren(s) mind. and 1/4 to save for wedding in future.

if not marry yet and dun have a gal fren and NOT YET have someone that u admire. 3 k. spent watever u like. but please do remember to give some to ur parents n save for marriage.

if not marry yet+no gf+no admire+dun plan to marry= alone. den suppose to be 15k per month. pay for parents,loans,saving for future to specialist home for elderly fees.

This post has been edited by JuneJing: Sep 5 2008, 04:12 PM

haha.babe..not yet finish reading my post lar u..by de way,im not from a rich family.but consider ok lar..if compare wif those really poor family..coz both of my parents is oso running their own business. n working well. im glad tat God had let me born in tis happy family thou it is some prob comes up. i love my family.

erhem~im not using my bf money or not even asking him to buy me anything thou he is able to affort. I earned my so-called DAMN MONEY with some freelance jobs n my parents support me as im still a student okay.

mine LV and Gucci is come from my own wallet.

Dun ever jealous others that able to give those to their love one.and they are wanting to give out.

Gals are not pointing a gun on their head to force them.

Just u r not one of them. dun try to shirks on all the fault to us.

yeah~totally agree..i dun like to use my bf money but if he buy me any gifts as surprise will be a bonus. I also bought him alot of presents too.sometimes i even surprise him with whole day trip and im the one who paying.

no point to ask guy pay all.some more i will feel more happy if i buy things with my own hard-earned money [thou im just working freelance] . sense of achievement.

coming matta fair..planing to invite him for a romance holidays.

in my statement above, i dint say a guy must spend money on women, but if they wanting.