how much a guy earn and how much he can

(1) SAVE for our future [ not for SAVE for himself ]
(2) SPEND ON you
(3) Treat ur parents

is diferent story.

but as u say u are having a family planning...

this all isue u should think of..

Planning will always change time to time even after you are giving birth.

In fact, if you can work to have better lifestyle that you wish to be, u still can think of it...
We shouldnt classified how much SHOULD a guy earns ?

when we always ask for NO diference betwwen man And woman status...

why should we claimed how uch should a guy earn ?

I'm not stereotyping, but that is what generally happening. Just accept the fact, pay more attention and work harder to give yourself and your family a better life.

p/s: my bf is only 22 and he's earning average of 14k a month being a real estate agent.  He's living a lavish life? No, he's still driving his old Proton.
He is even worried to change a new car. But he already bought a 250k condo, for us after we get married end of this year. There ARE people that can do it. Don't blame the girls if you can't do it yourself. Blame yourslef for not being capable and ambitious enough.

To live in a city, I think salary around 10K is just an average. He's earning ard 10K working as a consultant in a US company now. I'm not sure for this becoz he's staying alone now, paying all his own expenses, phone, water & electrical bills by his own, end up he's like saving very little...  really wondering after get married next year, can he afford the whole family or not 

I'm planning to stop working after pregnant, will only work again maybe my child grows up to 2years old. Worried tat we might need to survive in miserable life if he's under paying... 

I voted 10K 

I personally think an above average person would earn somewhere around there by the time he reaches 30.

mm..i thk 30 years old maybe shud stated on atleast 12k per month IF married. coz including all de expenses like house loan,car loan [2 cars ] ,electricity bill , water bill , credit cards , children education fees [ one child ] , own entertainment fees , wife's entertainment fees [ if u r planing to to let ur wife work after married ] but atleast give abit to ur wife lorr, ur parents pocketmoney, ur wife's parents pocketmoney, and whole family travel expenses once a year. is it look enuf after so many things? O_______________o

if not marry yet but gt gf , atleast 7k per month. Y SO MUCH? do u spend more on wife or gf? diamond rings, psp , handphone , hair dressing, LV bags , Gucci bags , branded clothes. maybe only left around 2 k for urself. the 2 k for car loan , parent's pocketmoney , sister/brother begging u for pocketmoney [ if u r the eldest ] , credit card (S) [ one for u, one for ur gf ] .    , saving for wedding is a MUST.

if not marry and dun have a gf but gt someone that u admiring. 4k. buy some lil surprise to chase the gal and spent 1/4 of the money to decorate urself.and 2/4 vto buy off the gal's best fren(s) mind.    and 1/4 to save for wedding in future.

if not marry yet and dun have a gal fren and NOT YET have someone that u admire. 3 k. spent watever u like. but please do remember to give some to ur parents n save for marriage.

if not marry yet+no gf+no admire+dun plan to marry= alone. den suppose to be 15k per month. pay for parents,loans,saving for future to specialist home for elderly fees.

erhem~im not using my bf money or not even asking him to buy me anything thou he is able to affort. I earned my so-called DAMN MONEY with some freelance jobs n my parents support me as im still a student okay.

mine LV and Gucci is come from my own wallet.

Dun ever jealous others that able to give those to their love one.and they are wanting to give out.

Gals are not pointing a gun on their head to force them.

Just u r not one of them.  dun try to shirks on all the fault to us. 

well 12k is quite....high la...
for our malaysian people...
who live in kl... Atleast by the age of 30
they shud earn rm5k and above...
or min rm4k...now woman all high maintenance
how to support them if u dun hav money..
seriously...some more all the loans...
Yala...for normal living or normal people
4k to 5k is enuff...5k above is better.

Sps are u a guy...if yes..
okey let me tell u this....
u want us to treat u super nicely..
u hav to give us something that can make us stick on u.
Love is one thing la...but money is a plus...
u want us to look nice purrttyy and sexy..
u hav to support us...bcuz for me la...
I will work also...and i will do house keeping or cooking for my hubby..
And if he want ehem... I will do something special...
But money tetap money beb..No money no talk!
If marry with guy with no money..u will sensara later on...

He's just a senior consultant. Will only be promoted to manager next year...

According to his company, min pay for a manager is 12k(excluding benefits & allowances), and 16k(excluding benefits & allowances) for a senior manager, so? there is still another 5 years for him to hit to tat senior level gambateh darling!!

hmmm well i dont knowla...
but nowadays guys are so lazy.. ..
woman gotta work hard to earn money for family.

just go with the flow 

earn ur wealth to make a better living for you and ur family

and oh, be proud of it  

i feel kinda disturbed reading this thread. a lot voted for more than 15k. most guys grad at their mid to late 20s. typical starting salary is rm2k-3k. to me, reaching 5k by 30 is already a miracle. unless he's super genius or linked to mca or umno top guns...

girls, imho if your guy commands a rm15k pay, then his job will be gila-glia type, like going outstation all the time and having to sleep in the office.. i know a bank manager earning 20k, spends most of the nights in the office. so you'll enjoy his $$$ but not his presence. in the end, some tai tai cannot tahan then go and find toy boys. defeats the entire purpose.

just what i think la..