If you think whoever you mix have a negative mindset i suggest you change that friends.

Because if you mix with negative ppl they channel negative energy and all you get is everything negative.

YOu mix with positive ppl then everything becomes positive

Why look? I'm not looking to date anyone. I don't impose my views on others the way you seem to, with your changing their mindset.

That's a stereotype. A mindset is something what I have - men are all out to want me for one thing and one thing only and there's no reasoning to it. For example. I have met some that have made me loosen this.

This post has been edited by spunkberry: Jul 25 2008, 03:08 PM

seriously speaking, if you want to be a happy person, just begin a day feeling happy and so on, if something bad turns up, at least you are still alot more ok then beginning a day filled with sorrow, right?=)

But first remember, acknowledge the power of what MIND can do. I see the way you see, but i think you shouldn't force them whether it be direct or indirectly. We just have to RESPECT them. Respect do arise from positivity....don't we learned that from seminars?

ok, looks like i will need to look back into my notes about mindset then...haha

yea, respect is another factor i suppose, thanks for bringing that up pein...=)

I respect other people enough to voice my views but not expect them to conform. How about that?

Hi pein-pein. XD

This post has been edited by spunkberry: Jul 25 2008, 03:16 PM

chinese-ed gals more soft-spoken, i think they'll be better wife than english-ed gals.

here's something I want you guys to conform, stop arguing, can or not?

SB, I think you had a bad past, leave it, dun keep bringing up like you're so damn sour about it. Doesn't look good on you.

I'm not. And I know you like to fire me. The instant I saw your post, I knew. And I used it as an example. How about that?

Exactly, well put it this way. As im reading some of his points that he pointed out, he does however have intention to make you guys loosen and open your mind abit. In a way his intention was good. But however, there's a slight mistake in what he did. He should learn the concept of Persuasion. We do know regardless of what went wrong in a relationship, whether we like it or not, the blame will be directly pointed back to us. But of course, this is the one we should kept secret in ourselves and not to point it out to others. Secrecy does play a role. Besides, if he can't convince you nor opened your mind, what does it say? It means the 'blame' will be back on him for not being able to convince you guys as i saw the result clearly from your response regardless how he perceive how 'negative' you guys are.

As a conclusion, respect is part of conclusion.

Besides, why call me pein pein..Geli la~~

Sigh...you trying to be mature and all that, here you fail.

LOL pein-pein. I accept that it always takes two in a relationship, which is why I do not deny that I have some fault as well.

Not really, you just don't like me. Says so in all your posts regarding mine. Besides, I don't really care about whether you think I am. You're not one of the users on here that make me feel happy being around.

Absolute responsibility is the key. Keep this a secret to yourself, spunk spunk

HAHAHHHAHA spunk spunk.

LoL. Somehow I don't know why I affect you so much.

because humans are, after all emotional creatures who loves good attention?

er...think of it as some stranger passing by and criticize on your clothing for example and you might get the point...XD

however, highly self esteem people usually tend to feel these criticizes the most, and it's true...=)

no joke. LOL

spunk, you are referring to my statement, right?

yes your statement. Are you a psychology major?

yes, and you?lol