Neslo exist for a reason

JimmyX isn’t the first Milo nerd who suddenly wants Ovaltine on the side and he won’t be the last.

And Malaysia’s law pretending this doesn’t happen?
That’s the biggest joke.

⚖️ 1. Bigamy laws under LRA 1976 don’t stop the behaviour. They only punish the second woman.

Before 1982, Civil Law didn’t make bigamy an automatic criminal offence.
Many Catholics, had two wives, one household, zero legal battles.

Since 1982, the LRA criminalised bigamy but didn’t remove the human behaviour that leads to it.

Now what happens?

• Man still finds a second partner
  
• First wife gets blindsided
  
• Second woman gets ZERO rights
  
• Children (if any) get mixed-status complications
  
• Man risks jail, but rarely actually gets charged
  
• Society pretends “this doesn’t happen”
  
• So the law protects nobody. It just creates losers.
  

🥄 2. If JimmyX “Ovaltines” behind the scenes, the second woman is legally invisible.

When Milo nerd wants Ovaltine… Fine. His stomach, his problem.

But if he drinks Ovaltine in secret, what happens?

• Ovaltine has no legal status
  
• Milo doesn’t know what’s going on
  
• The kitchen becomes a war zone
  
• That’s what LRA 1976 does today.
  It forces men to hide, and punishes the woman who chooses to be the second partner.
  
• Why should she be left unprotected?
  

⛪ 3. Historically, Malaysia DID allow it. Even for Catholics.

I personally knew someone:

• He lived happily.
  
• Both wives knew.
  
• The community accepted it.
  
• The law allowed it.
  
• Even Samy Vellu had a second wife.
  

So why is something normalised in the past suddenly a crime today?

Human behaviour didn’t change.
Only the law did and not necessarily for the better.

📜 4. Revision ≠ encouraging cheating. It’s regulating a reality.
Legal recognition doesn’t “promote” bigamy.

It regulates:

• consent of the first wife
  
• financial transparency
  
• property rights
  
• inheritance fairness
  
• maintenance obligations
  
• protection for ALL children
  

Most importantly:
It stops women from being collateral damage.

🧠 5. The current law creates the PERFECT conditions for disaster.

JimmyX is already:

• Reconnecting old flames
  
• Seeking emotional validation
  
• Hiding behind “wife’s permission”
  
• Clearly interested in Ovaltine again
  
• Pretending he’s just being friendly
  

This is EXACTLY how modern bigamy starts today; quietly, emotionally, then legally explosive.

Instead of criminalising reality, regulate it properly.

🛠️ 6. Proposed Reform.

1. Permit a second civil marriage ONLY if Wife #1 gives notarised consent
   
2. Mandatory financial disclosure
   
3. Maintenance and inheritance rules applied equally
   
4. Protection for all children from both households
   
5. Failure to comply = offence
   

This protects:

1. First wife
   
2. Second wife
   
3. Children
   
4. Property
   
5. Society
   

The only loser is secrecy and hypocrisy.

If Milo nerds like JimmyX are going to sneak Ovaltine anyway, better we legalise, regulate, and protect everyone instead of pretending “no one drinks anything except Milo.”

wife permission?

TS just sendiri cari sakit

this gonna be good

Okay guys, disclaimer... She is my ex best friend, but anyway, she is from very far distance away from MY

Okay guys, disclaimer... She is my ex best friend, but anyway, she is from very far distance away from MY

Bullshit lah no feeling

If you've truly moved on you wouldn't occasionally be searching for your ex.

You gatal jer, playing 'what if' scenario in your head.

OMG .. please don't.
It's a trap... your wife might seems cool and all, but deep down she is hurt by your actions.
Now imagine your wife suddenly ask you that she just found where her ex is and will want to reconnect the dots again.. but only as a friend.

You have a family now with a kid and most importantly ... representing Milo.

Thanks for concerning.
That girl is not from Malaysia anyway, that's why LDR.

I search her again, the name and location looks very familiar, and then tried to connect to her.
"Hi" to her. She replied, "Hello, it's been a while...".

Why though? I too moved on from rejection and all but never look for those ladies anymore, don't even give any fuck about their wellbeing. No such thing as "Oh i just saying hi to an old friend" or "We just friend", you don't cut open your healed wounds.