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 I contact my ex...and she respond after 10+ years

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abelyap
post Today, 03:31 AM

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QUOTE(AfraidIGotBan @ Dec 8 2025, 08:49 PM)
My case:

One of my ex comes to the UK with her humgarchan for holiday, still single konon, and sorta LCLY says my poorfag face memang pun just qualified to eat in chinatown treat friend in Four season for Charsiew siewyuk because its cheaper and more affordable.

Later my wife heard her comment, come over after dumping my twin dotters to a friend, then show off to them by getting a michelin star punya beijing crispy duck delivery into another restaurant, unhindered, and we're treated like VIP in that main dining lounge, but not them.

Shiok mang, when that happened. She tried to bully my wife for not able to speak good english, but my wife almost reply each question of hers with my moolah is my translator. If I call it Kukulate, its Kukulate, not chocolate.
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U should cut contact earlier. Why still entertain someone that disrespect u?
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QUOTE(JimmyX @ Dec 8 2025, 02:45 PM)
I’ve had a few exes. My first relationship was quite traumatic, and I didn’t bother seeking closure at the time. However, she and I eventually talked things through and found closure later on but never talk again.

This friend I’m talking about now is different. she’s a really good friend. Because she’s very busy and lives far from me in Malaysia, I made the mistake of relying too much on online conversations with her. Eventually confessing my feelings.....and then we went our separate ways. That’s all in the past.

Even though I’m now married with kids, I’ve been dealing with health issues, worries and a lot of negative thoughts lately. She is the first person who understood right away even after 10+ years of separation. She could tell I was concerned about my family, my kids and the future because of my health issues, and she gave me pretty good advices.

Most of the time, my male friends don’t take these sensitive topics seriously. Either they joke about it or brush them off, 'relax bro'. Female friends tend to be more understanding. Men and women can be friends, not everything has to be something more (romantic way, etc).

I know my boundaries, and those past things make me realize that I’ve learned to value the friendship more than ever.
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I know my boundaries. Funny..pf n bf all had ppl who know their boundaries ended up sleeping with their ex/affairs n divorced bcome lonely guy crying fader mader.

Cheong scene also alot guy know their boundaries kana caught by wifey divorced cry fader mader

My own cousin also know his boundary kena caught pants down by wife n kana divorced.

Men is the funniest creature.
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QUOTE(kons @ Dec 8 2025, 10:30 AM)
yes basketball team.
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How..?

Financially, mentally and physically for both of you and wife..
Stefanov
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QUOTE(JimmyX @ Dec 8 2025, 02:45 PM)
I’ve had a few exes. My first relationship was quite traumatic, and I didn’t bother seeking closure at the time. However, she and I eventually talked things through and found closure later on but never talk again.

This friend I’m talking about now is different. she’s a really good friend. Because she’s very busy and lives far from me in Malaysia, I made the mistake of relying too much on online conversations with her. Eventually confessing my feelings.....and then we went our separate ways. That’s all in the past.

Even though I’m now married with kids, I’ve been dealing with health issues, worries and a lot of negative thoughts lately. She is the first person who understood right away even after 10+ years of separation. She could tell I was concerned about my family, my kids and the future because of my health issues, and she gave me pretty good advices.

Most of the time, my male friends don’t take these sensitive topics seriously. Either they joke about it or brush them off, 'relax bro'. Female friends tend to be more understanding. Men and women can be friends, not everything has to be something more (romantic way, etc).

I know my boundaries, and those past things make me realize that I’ve learned to value the friendship more than ever.
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I see there is nothing wrong with this.
Sometimes you wish you can unturn stuff you did in the past. We just human after all
Just you don't physically touch stuff.

kons
post Today, 08:05 AM

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QUOTE(cuddlybubblyteddy @ Dec 9 2025, 06:10 AM)
How..?

Financially, mentally and physically for both of you and wife..
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financially no issue.

all her sisters very supportive.

plus the eldest one now also help to take care of the younger ones.
AfraidIGotBan
post Today, 09:13 AM

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QUOTE(abelyap @ Dec 8 2025, 07:31 PM)
U should cut contact earlier. Why still entertain someone that disrespect u?
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Before mali tatau, but after that tau lor.

Furthermore who knows she sou sourish like gherkin leh... Sudah mau 46 Liao that time, still declare single sudah tau la....

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