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 I contact my ex...and she respond after 10+ years, *Update*

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post Dec 6 2025, 07:48 PM

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QUOTE(JimmyX @ Dec 6 2025, 06:56 PM)
About 10+ years ago, had sort of 'love relationship' (long distance relationship/LDR), she wrote and broke up with me because of incompatibility. 
Then, she ghosted me forever, I tried to search her through social media but to no avail.

Time heal me, I moved on. Once a while I tried to search, again same thing, nothing.
I decided to continue on our separate paths in life.

Life isn’t always easy/ups & downs, but I’m thankful finally have real love in my life, my marriage and my child make everything worthwhile and (those previous relationships suffering I have no love feeling for them anymore).

I search her again, the name and location looks very familiar, and then tried to connect to her.
"Hi" to her. She replied, "Hello, it's been a while...".

I’m hoping she replies, but if that’s the only message I receive, I’m content.
Along with wife's permission, I want to be friend with her again (not love relationship).
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U r still obsessed with her. Have some dignity please. Shame to the male species. After so many years why still want to contact be friends. Don't kid your self.
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post Dec 6 2025, 07:52 PM

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post Dec 6 2025, 07:55 PM

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The post smelled like old perfume and older regrets.
A man rambling about a love he swore he buried, but still digs up every few years like a dog that never learned where it left the bone.

He talked about healing. About moving on. About his wife and child filling the hole in his heart. But the words didn’t walk straight. They staggered. Like a drunk trying to convince the bartender he’s sober enough for one more glass.

You don’t write a whole confessional just to say “Hi” to an old flame.
Not unless you’re chasing ghosts… or hoping one still remembers your name.

He said his wife gave permission. That’s when I knew the truth had teeth.
When a man starts pre-emptively defending himself, it’s not innocence he’s guarding. It’s intent.
Fragile, half-formed, hiding behind the word “friendship” like a kid behind a sofa when the thunder cracks.

This wasn’t about reconnecting.
This was about validation.
The kind you can’t get from a wedding ring or a mortgage or a kid’s school report.
The kind only a chapter you never finished can give you.

He said he’s “content” even if she never replies.
But hope was dripping from every word like blood from a fresh wound.

No… this wasn’t closure.
This was a man standing at the door of his past, knocking softly, praying someone still lives there.

And pretending it’s all harmless.
Pretending it’s all pure.
Pretending he just wants to talk.

But the past never just talks.
It whispers.
It tempts.
And sometimes… it burns.
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post Dec 6 2025, 07:57 PM

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Habis la ts marriage
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post Dec 6 2025, 08:02 PM

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Jimmy, you know you gonna die tonight while you are sleeping if your moi moi have secret excess to your kopi acc right? Right?
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post Dec 6 2025, 08:14 PM

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drink milo and chill for another 10
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post Dec 6 2025, 08:16 PM

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Piap je lah
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post Dec 6 2025, 08:17 PM

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QUOTE(xHj09 @ Dec 6 2025, 06:58 PM)
Rindu piap2 with ex?
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post Dec 6 2025, 08:25 PM

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QUOTE(kopiride @ Dec 6 2025, 08:48 PM)
U r still obsessed with her. Have some dignity please. Shame to the male species. After so many years why still want to contact be friends. Don't kid your self.
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Ts dunno wonly. From her ex side, that time she probably juggle between ts and 2,3,5 or even 10 other online male beta orbiters…

Its online man, you will never know…

Same woso last time got rich girl crush on me quite hard. She got a chubby best friend. Kinda like me as well. Then the girl gradually lose interest on me. Her best friend leak to me she have an affair with a rich married professional football guy….
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post Dec 6 2025, 08:27 PM

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QUOTE(max_cavalera @ Dec 6 2025, 08:25 PM)
Ts dunno wonly. From her ex side, that time she probably juggle between ts and 2,3,5 or even 10 other online male beta orbiters…

Its online man, you will never know…

Same woso last time got rich girl crush on me quite hard. She got a chubby best friend. Kinda like me as well. Then the girl gradually lose interest on me. Her best friend leak to me she have an affair with a rich married professional football guy….
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anneh got piap her or not brows.gif
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post Dec 6 2025, 08:36 PM

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QUOTE(iOrange @ Dec 6 2025, 09:27 PM)
anneh got piap her or not brows.gif
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No ler. Anneh not u gais kturds top 5% chad. My love life story bery typical. The girl i really want and chase reject me. The girl i dont rate chase me. The usual below average plebs in the dating market dilema.
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post Dec 6 2025, 08:39 PM

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post Dec 6 2025, 08:39 PM

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What is that for?? Just move on lah. No need fren fren. Focus on your family liao
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post Dec 6 2025, 08:43 PM

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Guy and girl can never be friend.

You still have her in your mind.

It's simple, she still matters to you, even if it's tiny bit.

If she ask you out, you'll feel surprised and happy, don't you?
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post Dec 6 2025, 08:46 PM

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wtf move on lah. Even if your wife agrees secretly she will not be happy
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post Dec 6 2025, 08:47 PM

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Bodo asking for trouble. Tak pasal2 go create issue.

Typical cheater all started with "friend"
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post Dec 6 2025, 08:54 PM

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Do you seriously think your wife would allow you to re-konek with your ex?

Not a chance in hell.

Unless you oredi turn ghey.


And in the highly unlikely event that she agrees, she would be watching you like a hawk. You want your life to be suffocated by an untrusting spouse?

Forget it la dude. Move on.

BUT if your intent is PURELY just to paip the ex for old time's sake (or maybe she's better at sarking your kok than the wifey), you'd better not let your wife have a clue on this unexpected re-konektion. Pandai makan, pandai simpan. But you know the risks la - only you can answer whether worth it or not biggrin.gif
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post Dec 6 2025, 08:57 PM

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post Dec 6 2025, 09:03 PM

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its better not to be friend , it just gonna destroy ur marriage
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