About 10+ years ago, had sort of 'friend - relationship' (long distance friend-relationship), she wrote and broke up with me because of incompatibility of the friendship.
Then, she ghosted me forever, I tried to search her through social media but to no avail.

Time heal me, I moved on. Once a while I tried to search, again same thing, nothing.
I decided to continue on our separate paths in life.

Life isn’t always easy/ups & downs, but I’m thankful finally have real love in my life, my marriage and my child make everything worthwhile and (those previous relationships suffering I have no love feeling for them anymore).

I search her again, the name and location looks very familiar, and then tried to connect to her.
"Hi" to her. She replied, "Hello, it's been a while...".

I’m hoping she replies, but if that’s the only message I receive, I’m content.
Along with wife's permission, I want to be friend with her again (not that relationship).

(Disclaimer: She is my ex best friend, but anyway, she is from very far distance away from MY)


Update (11 December 2025):
I reached out to her because I genuinely cared and was worried about her after 8-10 years of separation. Even though I only said hello and tried to contact her through two of her friends (no info from other, but she is the one give the her contact herself), she blamed me for crossing a boundary, and she’s right, I shouldn’t have invaded her privacy. Oh well...

It feels like nothing has changed since the last time. She even wrote that I am “too dependent on her,” along with another comment that was quite hurtful. Because of this, I’ve decided to step back and significantly reduce my conversations with this “ex–best friend,” or whatever we are now. No real value will be lost. My own family will always be my first priority.

This post has been edited by JimmyX: Yesterday, 01:57 PM

And.... You are telling us this because?

Rindu piap2 with ex?

milok overdosed

bcum ukeked

Same thoughts here.

Ts already decided, tell us for what

Cerekarama Milo.

it always starts with 'wanna be friend'... the age old k0teh itchiness... starting to creep up to TS again after marry...

Musim hujan

Bullshit lah no feeling

If you've truly moved on you wouldn't occasionally be searching for your ex.

You gatal jer, playing 'what if' scenario in your head.

So which one is more addicted to milo? Your wife or ex, there lies the answer you seek

Whaaat? 😁

You content but still looking for ex after hitched + kid.
Message summore.

Now, wannabe friend with ex with wife's permission 😁
You either very lucky or dont know women 🤣

Good luck 👍😁

can try to send milo 1.8 kg to her during 12.12 sales

inb4 spotty biru versi milo

cakap jer la didi gatal and now u wanna spread milo on her

2 bullshit lies from you

1) Time heal me, I moved on.

2) I want to be friend with her again (not love relationship)

If Kukujiao gatai sila pergi melancap. Close thread please

This post has been edited by xeNOS: Dec 6 2025, 07:35 PM

OMG .. please don't.
It's a trap... your wife might seems cool and all, but deep down she is hurt by your actions.
Now imagine your wife suddenly ask you that she just found where her ex is and will want to reconnect the dots again.. but only as a friend.

You have a family now with a kid and most importantly ... representing Milo.

This post has been edited by Capt. Marble: Dec 6 2025, 07:41 PM

everything also start from friend one

my indon maid told me to tell you to stop disturbing her. she is busy cleaning up after cooking dinner

ts wants to put cream into her milo lettew

Piap saja

Nowadays curang is the norm