Shifted Energy on First Date
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 Jun 5 2025, 07:32 AM
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QUOTE(parisiansky @ Jun 3 2025, 03:24 PM) For me, I have no problem with deciding when I should stop scrolling. It's the guy that I'm seeing that worries me. Yeah he could promise me that he'll stop using dating apps once we're official but you'll never know if he still continues swiping on not just one but several other apps. This is probably 1 of the cons of dating the person that u knew frm dating apps. Me and my gf have each others phones passwords. We can check if we want. |
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Jun 5 2025, 04:50 PM
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Dating is like going shopping looking around first. Both need to sell yourself to the other party unless you already look like Miss Universe. But then if you look like one, the other party can still be turned off by snobbish attitude during the date.
it's not wise to lock yourself to one person the first time you meet the person it's also selfish to demand your date to stop dating others. It takes time to get to know the person over several dates. By asking him whether he wants to stay as friends after the first date, you have already pushed him away instead of giving a chance to both to develop the relationship. This post has been edited by Blofeld: Jun 5 2025, 04:51 PM |
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Jun 6 2025, 05:15 AM
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Male = Rational
Female = Emotional Serious, 101% you are not really attract (outlook) to what he need. Beside that, you make me think you look like miss out a chance (Why recall please!?). Serious, you are not. As you have the key........... |
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Jun 7 2025, 10:37 PM
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QUOTE(Takudan @ Jun 2 2025, 01:40 PM) I'll give a radical suggestion, it'll be way out of your comfort zone but maybe that may spur a change Omg he finally texted back! He said he missed talking to me n after having a long convo with him, he agreed to meet up with me again. Thought I should let u know abt this since u suggested me to msg him again. Thanks for the push 😊 Message him back and apologise for jumping the gun, explain that you confided in someone who pointed out the possibility that he was shy/nervous/awkward, hence the change in vibes. (And ask if he really was?) |
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Jun 7 2025, 11:40 PM
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1,056 posts Joined: Jun 2011 From: Kuala Lumpur, Malaysia 
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QUOTE(parisiansky @ Jun 7 2025, 10:37 PM) Omg he finally texted back! He said he missed talking to me n after having a long convo with him, he agreed to meet up with me again. Thought I should let u know abt this since u suggested me to msg him again. Thanks for the push 😊 Lol that's a nice start! Please keep your hopes in check ya haha you sound very excited 😂 give the awkward guy time to warm up, good luck! parisiansky liked this post
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