Dating is like going shopping looking around first. Both need to sell yourself to the other party unless you already look like Miss Universe. But then if you look like one, the other party can still be turned off by snobbish attitude during the date.

it's not wise to lock yourself to one person the first time you meet the person

it's also selfish to demand your date to stop dating others.

It takes time to get to know the person over several dates.

By asking him whether he wants to stay as friends after the first date, you have already pushed him away instead of giving a chance to both to develop the relationship.

This post has been edited by Blofeld: Jun 5 2025, 04:51 PM