I know there are caveat like if they are all working they can choose to tapao. but this is like permanent agreement that the wife do NOT have to cook anymore. lol, will u agree? ICANT agree with this dumb agreement.

I better cook than wife, she lagi hepi. No need fight..

red flag
later after merrid demand more dumb things

What about u? If u expect wife to cook, can the wife expect your to cook too? Or do u give monthly money to wife for her to cook?
What makes u think wife is a must to cook?

which century you from?

If wifey can’t cook, u sure
Cepat mati eating out daily…

My wife rules the kitchen.
I am content.

Fk her until she dies

Wife = mate, NOT MAID

I married my CCP wife expecting her to make me hot dinner daily after i come back from work.

No do whatever shit about prenup tbh.

Then Covid year tertiba, she peram a pair of telurs for me, then last year, peram another one.

From that moment onward, my wife sole responsibility is ensure my setan all grow up to become world most lahanat's monsters. Home stuff all I do. From what dinner tonight to what tomorrow morning all i settle. If housekeeping is tough hire people settle. If sendiri can settle sendiri settle.

My wife many year no touch laundry, mop, dishwasher, kitchen tool liao (got la, occassionally la but not all the time)

she better be a 10/10 for you to simp like that

how much money you give to your wife monthly??

This post has been edited by brkli: May 17 2025, 05:48 PM

if wimmiz think men should make money to provide for the family, then its wrong for a man, as a husband, to expect his wife to cook?

what level of beta male are you?

marry just to kep fai chai at home?

This one question many people's reaction I think.

Me and my wife punya stylo milo is

Laundry full, who toss masuk who dump into the washer and starts it. Who sees the machine settle who dries it.

Kitchen utensils, we're the kind that dont like clutter so when talking, sure 1 person cook, another clean, another cleaning, someone else will do the plating. As long we ensure that while cooking, when eating, after eating, there's no clutter.

Menu, if wife prep lobster for steam but I ended up baking it with cheese, the cheese it is. If she wanna make telur goreng but end turn it into steamed egg, then steam it is. Nobody will comment whatdafek you sohai humgarchan that telur is for goreng you got steam you mutafaka then get into arguement. Even if She want bobba i ended up buy her no bobba fresh tea she'll still down that shit and then tell me, you forget the word Milk ah? Today no milk, cow all holiday?

That'll do better instead of mengamuk because no milk in bobba and no cheese in your lobster.

Also, my wife is not the stingy mahai bastardos. I give all money to her, but she wont bother asking or checking wherelse, whatelse, and whoelse etc Im using the money on. I milfing also sometimes I'll swipe the personal card for some purchases, but no question asked. Even if I tertiba bukake room in shangrila middle of monday afternoon, no question asked who you go out there and piapping.

Nowadays, she handle all my other matters. Money food work headache stuff, all my responsibility mostly.

House and social communication, who birthday who die who bertelur who gamble fked who this who that her familia side my familia side who's dog gave birth, all my wife settle. If she say buy my bro a 95" tv then there's a reason behind it. No need ask question. I dont even ask her what's the pesal buying car for her cousin suddenly, just giving into the thought that they need it most likely. Why need to argue my money your money why kasi outsider stuff.

since u are so eager in this topic, why dont u give us a scenario where the wife doesnt need to cook at all.

people have to understand that today....right now

they demanded that is not because they don't want to...is because they don't even know how to even cook
many never even cooked instant noodle in their life

She's a cannot peram telur naturally wimmin. Kalau takde IVF she'll be the Ayam yang tak leh bertelur type.

Imagine a wimmin go for test, take several bloodtesting, screening, taking operation to remove part of her uterus and tube whatever（im clueless of the correct word on what was cut off) just to ensure the zygot can attach firmly in her womb stuff, and seeing her kena cucuke by doctor with cameras, keep taking pills, medication, just to conlanfirm my twin dotters can peram successfully.

Also, my wife request no shit, made no extra mau this mau that stuff.

Even my will sudah put in if I mampoi, everything goes to my wife, no comment no need adjust. My betina treat me well, I treat her 100 times better. But on a side note, yeah Im milfing outside but I make sure daily i come home I got no other shits on. Home is home, outside entertainment is outside.

I dont even bother to bring work home, arguement home, and unhappy stuff like today's milf down there smelly damn shit bitches etc attitude back home. At home I am so at peace, even my carrots tomatoes chillies and herbs and lettuces whatever all growing happily bombibi like its sanctuary of kantoi kena makan after grow up.

I have been eating out (every meal) for the past 32 years except CNY, Qing Ming, family get together where I can have some luxury of mum's home cooked.

I think my wife home cooks < 20x pa.

Great? No but we are OK

What's this pře agreement od yours all about again?

This post has been edited by jojolicia: May 17 2025, 06:05 PM

Wife: saya malas masak

Hubby: ok je. Seya pun malas kerja dan cari wang

If can go along why not. Eat outside has its perk.

But if you're at my age and picky on the food's freshness and quality, you'll start to become the pair of couple that comment

Damn, that Thai food is heavily OSAMA Been LADEN with MSG. Come home down a bottle of water still thirsty.
CHEEBYE, that lobster, I also can bake better lobster and put nicer cheese for that 50pound price, eat home better la lidat quality.
Chauhai, this restaurant, big big nice nice but food shit, I sendiri cook posh style Ramen with kimchi better than their cheat human food.

Yeah that's me and waifu. Tiring, but sendiri masak, even fall to floor you dont mind pick up, blow abit, continue lahap makan.

Bestest Example: My dad side cousins. Im the oldest in the Afraid Ban boomers gen. And I sorta babysits all my couz until the youngest is like 10 years old lidat. And today, ngaku 49. My oldest couz bro is 41. my youngest couz sis is 29. And not a single lahanat amongst this 6 bastards can cook, willing to cook, and openly open to the thought of cooking in home or eating home.

Cheebye oh...

Imagine, a Food Science Master Degree Graduate with Honors, owner of six, seven to come Chinese Takeaway, boss of a Charsiew Siewyuk Roast Duck and Lupmei pork parts Food factory, Avid cooking master, Chinese Bacon and Dehydrate seafood sifu, actually have a humgarchan of his own generation couz that not a single fuck know how to goreng a shit plate of nasi goreng telur.

I felt that my entire life and my ten plus years of youth baby sitting them is all wasted. Rather turn them into charsiew also dunwan to see them todei lolz.

It's not about whether to expect wife cook or not, it's about awal awal already demand don't wanna cook.

My wife make more money than me. Should I expect her to cook?

Mart chart is milfing.

U tiu chart another milf ?

husband and wife both working. got a maid who does the chores, cook and basic stuff for the kids.. is this scenario good enough for you, or u need more?

This post has been edited by brkli: May 17 2025, 06:37 PM

After no cook agrement, there will be many more agreement to come. No clean house agreement, no sex agreement etc.

Red flag
There's alot more things she wont do

lol ts must be still immature & alone.

thats not how any 2 person who wants to be married to the other would communicate.

Not even wayang before marriage?

Good luck TS, she is showing dominance oredi

Let's not touch the subject of who put food on the table la, cause majority both spouse work.
This kind of agreement is like a man declaring he will not do the fixing of burnt out lights, leaking taps and catching the cocroaches. Can the woman accept that in return ?

Yeah.

Im a casual Milf Programmer bro. Ocassionally go out kenal sophisticated milfs, see if they're open for new software installation or not. Can provide free software check to their mentality also, to see if they're doing good or not.

The percentage is usually out of 10 milfs targetted, got 5 interested party sudah counted as gooding liao. Can slowly kenal, take time exchange information and curiosity, and see if its possible to proceed further to install free software via cuddling petting teasing etc.

Maybe out of the 5, 2 is cold feet, 1 is whore, left only two super guillable, vulnerable, programmable, and curious.

Then when installation started, we'll see if both hardware is well maintained, no virus, no issue, no attachment. If got, maybe lucked out 1 out of 10 is a hit, if bad luck, both got hint of unkept hardware, can toss off aside.

Its a time game for bestest of fun. Definitely not for the impatient, weak hearted, unattentive, brain only know pancut pancut pakai buang mentality user.

You know what is the bestest part of Milfing? That wimmin's entire experiences, curiosity, adaptation, and willingness is all opened for you to discover, and there's hardly an issue of them got latched onto you like a leech because they too, had their own family, life, and responsilibity. Its all about you see me I see you let's tryst a bit and pancut dalam no worry, I prepare my morning after pill.

If u msrried her. Just make sure ur on top of the game at providing to the family.

There will be problem if theres any sign of hardship

i like to cook, my gf doesn't

so doesn't bother me

Both working then understandable , should at least do some home cooking during the weekend. All meals eat outside msg ain’t good for the kids also…

for me i can cook, so she wan cook or not doesn't matter

some ppl can accept, some cannot. so it's up to individuals la

but i'd say if your partner has caveats like that, he/she better have something to put on the table to compensate

This post has been edited by DarkAeon: May 17 2025, 07:59 PM

Not an issue if you make enough $ to not have to cook to lower expenses.

This is called sharing the burden. She don't have to cook everyday but none at all is not acceptable. Later got kids still eat tapao everyday? Bodoh.

My wife cooks all the time in fact i think she enjoy cooking
just sometime try new recipe really taste tak boleh but have to silently finish all else kena permaban later

its okay if you have access to the wife money, but unlikely you wont.

Why cannot u cook instead?
Be mature, it is wife not maid topkek

it's just a test to weed out beta males
fark 9 her and show whos the daddy

Then did u ask TS whether his friend, him or you is the only income earner? If yes then house wife sure cook and u provide money. If u can't support and expect wife to also work and cook, don't show your low beta level.

can if you demand not to do thing a husband suppose to do also see how she react

If she cant cook, make sure she is so delicious on the bed for your consumption, or else just show her the door since she offers nothing to be eaten.

But always take note that marriage is a passion killer, having kids is will murder sex altogether, so eventually no matter how hot she is you still wont be getting some other than listening to them complaining of how hard her life is sitting her ass and further adding salt saying your life as a man is so fun out there while she window shop for the next Gucci bag collection having saving money for not shouldering any household bill.

And their excuse? I ain't no maid, you got two hands ehy dont do it yourself eventually.

Now take note that this world wouldnt have only one chick, so do the right thing if coming back to your home with ur cow sulking in front the tv and concocting the next argument to demoralize you seem like a good deal - with no warm loving food on your table.

This post has been edited by MishimaZ: May 17 2025, 08:54 PM

I'm fine. I don't like to cook also but if something easy like steamed food, i don't mind to do.

My wife working but still cook for my family everyday .

She doesnt think its a burden .
She feel satisfied and happy when we finish the food .

Its one of her love language .

I do laundry .

lets just say at face value, both are earning money. will the wife really give part of their income to the family though. which i doubt it. and now, the soon-to-be wife imposing "im not going to cook" condition before marriage like wtf.

it is not me having this issue rather the growing no of betas accepting whatever their partner demanded. i mean look at page 1 where my topic actually triggered their 2". we are not stupid not to know what the female wanting to do.

Hasband gaji 3.8k wife 6k, act like a big man.🤣

i am okay my wife no cook, i more happy to see her relax

Wife soon to be kyky? Jambu? Hot piap? Bedminton skill top? Harimau? Most import can sakok?

kyky

Can sakok? Skill sakok great? Kyky marry her quick

I prefer if she can cook. I don't expect her to cook. I can cook too.

I prefer if she takes charge, makes the home her domain as we can't have 2 bosses and she just delegates what I need to do. And I will do it,...eventually. No, no. I will do it. 😁

janji boleh piap

if tak pannai cook, cook hell kitchen food force you eat lagi mati oh

Why get married then?

That's why there are so many restaurants now. Everyone eats out.

Tell wife, no cook, no fak. So many places to go out for a fak.

if ts friend is the only income earner yet wife still dont want to cook, what would u say then?

Ah happy marriage

Bless you bratha…

Janji bayar stamp duty.

Alergic sifut tak? If yes titap tiap weekends kau masaklah sifut. Dia pandai order food panda kan? If tak dpt siham makan luar berlambak penyondol.

Why would you want your wife to cook though?

Serious question.

Marry a virgin maid no such problems.

Not only must cook, must give birth also since I already promise the human race can only marry girl that willing to give birth. No I cannot give birth.

This post has been edited by Penamer: May 18 2025, 02:24 PM

can 10/10 for how long? 7 years will itch already or after give birth which ever comes first.

For me, depends on what other agreements there are in the relationship.

This in and of itself, is not enough for me to render a verdict. Example, maybe she earns a lot and has top notch skills that she promises to use frequently and pays for most things. In such a case, the cooking thing doesn’t matter so much.

You're marrying a wife or maid?

is she marrying a husband or a handyman?

A man who's not a handyman should just continue to live foreveralone in parents' house.

So, a husband should be a handyman instead of a bapok who can't even fix a simple leaking faucet.

This is not the first time I came across where the wife dictates that she doesn't do house chores or cooking for the husband. I also seen woman that willing to live in trash condition with her pets pooping around the house waiting for the husband to come house and does the chores .

Then on the other hand , I also came across complete shit guys that doesn't do shit at home. Completely spoiled by the mom, from doing the dishes to moving the shirt into washing machines .

I think the success of family is when - both parties take equal relationship instead of segregating the house chores .

Example , instead of just waking up and leave to work , you wake up early clean up , maybe prepare breakfast before leaving the house , or once you are back you see the house is messy, you clean up the house .

Ultimately having a clean house brings better comfort and peace to mind. Also if you are doing well , call a freaking cleaner , pay 65 for 4 hours its damn good deal . They leave the house super clean, you can spend more time flirting with your wife .

This post has been edited by akidos: May 18 2025, 02:52 PM

so, what are you doing to be called a handyman?

leaking faucet? wrong person la. damn, my post must be living rent free in ya brain for years. still holding grudge on internet forum. damn bro, how low can u get

Let bygones be bygones la, old man.

so you are not a handyman but demand your wife to be a maid?? seem right..

TS probably just earn enough for living hence require wife to cook cause can’t afford eating out everyday. Really born as wimmin nowadays susah. Need to give birth to offspring bearing the father’s surname, need to tidy up house, prepare 3x a day meal, share financial burden by being full time working mommy. Very Kesien. That’s why Woman’s International Day or Mother’s Day exists for a reason.

Dafug are you talking about??

Makan luar 2feidei

Born as woman nowadays susah? lol, dont even say 00s, how many 90s mothers can do all you mentioned above?

It's also getting normal that men cook and do house chores nowadays. Look at the amount of videos women flaunting that on social media and say something ''don't settle for less' but if the gender is reversed, thousands of posts condemning such acts.

This post has been edited by NicoRobinz: May 18 2025, 03:51 PM

My wife can't cook but she does other chores. I cook.

moi yini machiam. if really dirty, cleaner called (my housekeeping team for my airbnb)

To the point i will tegur wife if she didnt sayang my plants and simply spray water on them then bitch with her "ooi, that lettuce and chillies you also got part makan one, sayang the sayur sikit wokey or not?"

Y'all are really naive expecting women to cook in this day n age 🤣 Women are so busy working, do house chores, taking care of kids/ in laws n u still want them to cook? Dream on!

Some don't mind. If someone else does all the prep, Mise en place,
and all the cleaning up after... 😁

thank you for your post

for a while, i thought i was an alien, because people here posting machem i was the only one thinking whats wrong asking wife to cook

errr but nowadays they want equal participation in everything wor

then why they can still demand male must be taller, must earn more, etc

plus , nowadays they also can demand to go out and meet ppl freely. because if u give themt he right to ask "what century is this"

it opens up a whole can of worms, that question can be applied to almost any scenario

for example, wife wanna install tinder, but husband dun allow. wife ask "what century is this, a wife doesnt belong to her husband, if she finds someone she likes more, she should be allowed to date and if it works out she can divorce"

if waifu wanna go drink in club with guy, again "what century is this, u expect ur wife to stay at home and cook but cant go out and have fun"

if waifu wanna go overseas holiday with a male best friend , husband protest,... "what century is this, nowadays women cannot have best male friends and sleepover with them? you think still like old days women go to women house for sleepover party"

if they dress till can see nipples poking out, pusseh only covered with 1 line of cloth, they will ask u again what century is this do you think i should dress up like victorian era ?

This post has been edited by Knnbuccb: May 18 2025, 07:56 PM

I agree that equal participation should be done by both parties. I'm just not OK when most of the ppl here made it sound like it should 100% women's duty to cook from A to Z. Hello? It won't hurt to help a bit since she also works like u too.

Regarding opening the can of worms, this is when both parties should sit down n discuss boundaries together. A rship won't be healthy if this kinda discussion didn't take place at all. Also, not point being with a partner who doesn't know how to respect u or yr feelings.

This post has been edited by parisiansky: May 18 2025, 09:58 PM

Nowadays women don't wanna be controlled.. they want freedom... if u can't accept then you're old fashioned and misogynist

To all bro,

Please dont waste of time to have tree, when u can have a forest!

Please stop thinking girl love u because u are Tom Cruise, if outlook mean happiness all celebrity must be happy & happiness family!

The most important u need to have is "MONEY"!

MONEY = FREEDOM

PLEASE WORK HARD N LOVE OWNSELF.

Girl 101% is funny! If u are not the virgin taker, 101% u are "NO 2 in his life!

I'm loser in relationship not because I'm not good just I'm not earn enough!

Please stop thinking ur wife or partner is excellent but don't try it with "MONEY"!

On other hand, please don't put spyware into partner HP. 101% lead u to divorce! Info from spyware owner.

Girl cheating is 101% better that TVB movie!

Why not share some story about girl cheating please!?

This post has been edited by w19: May 19 2025, 12:34 AM

Nowadays most men are better cooks

You cook what u want to eat

She usually eats a bit then full d

Sure she works also ,but how much of her pay is actually contributed into the household. Most family I seen are mostly 70:30 at best with the husband contributing more towards household expenses. I have never seen wife actually contributing equally or half of the entire household expenses at 50:50.
If the husband is having to put more effort in earning money , shouldn't the wife do better and pur more effort to cook for the family ?

Does this mean that she is still cooking currently, since not married yet?

Like that she can be forever a girlfriend then. No need to get merrid.

2025 and this is debated.. my wife full time housewife.. she wants to cook then cook she don't want we take out. it's not cheap taking out but neither was cooking.. in Malaysia we have so much options why making your wife cool had to be mandatory?

Equal participation, or wifey cook (if got time...) then ok.

Kindly, weird if she set the condition ain't touching the kitchen or house chores prior to marriage...then mau wife for what?

Even if she give u anak, u do all the chores and cookings? or hari hari tapao for kids? (Very unhealthy)...

WDYM condemning such acts? If men 'don't settle for less' then just prepare be forever single lor. as easy as that. lel.

So you were saying if wimmin contribute to the financial burden by 50:50 then she is exempted from "cook" role? kek.

Then what do you bring to the table "other than money" when your wife gave birth to your offspring? some more night time still need to be your sex slave?

kesien being born wimmin. They leave their comfort house from parent only to get abused mentally and physically by another human.

This is why communication is important in a relationship. "Control" is a very strong word. Instead of controlling yr partner, why not ask yr partner to compromise? Surely if yr partner is, mature, understanding n actually listens to you, there won't be much resistance. A healthy relationship requires decent amount of compromise from both parties to make it work.

Lol do u know why there's no equal contribution? Coz there's a huge gender wage gap! It's a global issue n nobody gives a shit even though women have been highlighting this issue for so long. So it's not that women aren't putting enough effort in earning as much as their husband. It's the society doesn't allow them to do so!

A woman belongs to the man who gives her more money. If her boss gives her more money, she might be your wife in name but her loyalty lies with her boss. This is the reason why ancestors don't allow women to work outside the family.

counter a sensible but annoying caveat like she does see if she agrees to it or not.. example

1) poker night / drink night with the boys twice a week
2) overseas trip with the boys to thailand once a year
3) dont ask me to hang clothes or mop the floor or wash the dishes

if she thinks either above are bullshit, then not cooking for an entire marriage is bullshit too

They want all the privileges but none of the responsibilities. Their best case scenario is to divorce you and take your alimony for the rest of their lives.