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 Soon-to-be-wife demanded not to cook if get, married to you.

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k!nex
post May 19 2025, 05:17 PM

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QUOTE(PoorButHumble @ May 19 2025, 03:07 PM)
he dare to use period not knowing the strong prejudice towards soon to be mom / pregnant lady go for interview applying for job. the more he speak, the more he expose his kebodohan.

Also, want to talk about job/ wage gaps, just a simple google search the best fashion designer, hair dresser or chef, what is the gender majority? steal our job liao still dare to say out loud. wew.
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If you're an employer yourself. Be honest and ask yourself, will you even hire a pregnant lady for a job knowing that she will be MIA for awhile after childbirth. Be honest ! That is call logic and reasoning which you feminist lack and rely entirely on emotion.. when we men try to reason with you , you come up with 1000001 name calling .

Steal you all's job ? What sort of entitlement is that ? I thought your camp always say men and women are equal ? I only believe in survival of the fittest and meritocracy. Most qualified ppl get the job.
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post May 19 2025, 05:19 PM

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in this era, cant expect woman is capable of all things, give n take..
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post May 19 2025, 05:30 PM

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QUOTE(parisiansky @ May 19 2025, 05:14 PM)
Lol and how would u even know who's taking out the trash in my household? Have u been a pervert spying on me? πŸ€ͺ

Hello? Women have their period every month so are u saying that men have crippling illness every month as well? Use yr brain before arguing la, you dumb incel lol. And don't even talk abt how painful period can be unless u experience it yourself.
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Telling your feminist cult members out there, don't rely on your dad or husband to take out the trash from your house . Do yourself. Lets how many females willing to do it.

You really love bullshitting .You're implying that monthly period pain is a crippling illness. Hello 304 , have you apply for your OKU card since you have a crippling illness ?

All humans get sick with no exception. But since you say period pain is crippling illness, so why not all of you apply for OKU card ? Explain to me you 304

This post has been edited by k!nex: May 19 2025, 05:40 PM
parisiansky
post May 19 2025, 05:58 PM

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QUOTE(k!nex @ May 19 2025, 05:30 PM)
Telling your feminist cult members out there, don't rely on your dad or husband to take out the trash from your house . Do yourself. Lets how many females willing to do it.

You really love bullshitting .You're implying that monthly period pain is a crippling illness. Hello 304 , have you apply for your OKU card since you have a crippling illness ?

All humans get sick with no exception. But since you say period pain is crippling illness,  so why not all of you apply for OKU card ? Explain to me you 304
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Lol more accusations n assumptions? That's all u've got? πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚

I'm not gonna waste my time arguing with a misogynistic incel anymore. Have fun BLAMING everything on women till yr last breath πŸ˜‰
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post May 19 2025, 06:06 PM

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Me bring meat

pretty lady cook meat

later at night we bang meat
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post May 19 2025, 06:08 PM

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QUOTE(parisiansky @ May 19 2025, 05:58 PM)
Lol more accusations n assumptions? That's all u've got? πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚

I'm not gonna waste my time arguing with a misogynistic incel anymore. Have fun BLAMING everything on women till yr last breath πŸ˜‰
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Continue to bury your head in sand like an ostrich. I know feminist's Kryptonite is ACCOUNTABILITY.
REMEMBER TO APPLY FOR YOUR OKU CARD UNDER THE GUISE OF " CRIPPLING ILLNESS" for your monthly period pain since you so eager to admit your disability.

You're just a typical femiNazi 304 misandrist whom are ignored by men. LOL.

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post May 19 2025, 06:11 PM

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I think, there shouldn't be any problem to women taking leave for period pain, after all they are using their annual leave benefits for that. If they are taking MC leaves for period pain, then it's a problem. Otherwise, I see no point in denying them to take annual leave for period pain. Just as men can take annual leave for vacation but end up is just relaxing at home.

For the cooking one, that depends on the future husband. If the guy is okay that his wife no need to cook, that's their business. If the husband to be wants a wife to be that cooks, then, he just need to dump the girl and find a wife that cooks. The world of dating and marriage is a free world. So, if you don't like a wife that don't cook, then simply don't marry one.
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post May 19 2025, 06:20 PM

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QUOTE(sage61 @ May 19 2025, 06:11 PM)
I think, there shouldn't be any problem to women taking leave for period pain, after all they are using their annual leave benefits for that. If they are taking MC leaves for period pain, then it's a problem. Otherwise, I see no point in denying them to take annual leave for period pain. Just as men can take annual leave for vacation but end up is just relaxing at home.

For the cooking one, that depends on the future husband. If the guy is okay that his wife no need to cook, that's their business. If the husband to be wants a wife to be that cooks, then, he just need to dump the girl and find a wife that cooks. The world of dating and marriage is a free world. So, if you don't like a wife that don't cook, then simply don't marry one.
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I absolutely agree with you of entitlement of annual leave. However , in the real world, things are not so simple regarding annual leave. Sure , annual leave you can take for any reason. The problem is emergency leave , which means unplanned , last minute notification ( not even application) of annual leave leaving other co-workers having to clean up your shit because of no proper handover of task. That is not fair for other ppl , because that is not " equality " , that is "entitlement behaviour " . Doing that every month because of period pain, you think ppl won't get mad ? Especially shift workers , you last minute call in say wanna take leave , your supervisor will have to find ppl to replace you. The other fella who replace your shift will have resentment because tht fella might have other things planned ahead , now have to change plan because of you.

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post May 19 2025, 06:31 PM

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QUOTE(parisiansky @ May 18 2025, 06:28 PM)
Y'all are really naive expecting women to cook in this day n age 🀣 Women are so busy working, do house chores, taking care of kids/ in laws n u still want them to cook? Dream on!
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If no need to do house chores, can cook? Seems like TS soon to be wife have upfront agreement without much caveat, that's a big red flag.

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post May 19 2025, 06:35 PM

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QUOTE(munkeyflo @ May 19 2025, 06:09 AM)
Does this mean that she is still cooking currently, since not married yet?

Like that she can be forever a girlfriend then. No need to get merrid.
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Good point

Selectt does she cook now?
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post May 19 2025, 07:15 PM

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damn too many blue pill beta simps......wife must know how to cook
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post May 19 2025, 07:16 PM

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post May 19 2025, 08:18 PM

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QUOTE(DoomCognition @ May 19 2025, 06:35 PM)
Good point

Selectt does she cook now?
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tak tau oh, tiada followup. I shocked to hear this at first. I believe not only my end, but it is a trend now. no one is forcing anyone to cook, it is just weird ass condition to be imposed in a marriage.

female reader, do u agree one day ur son marrying a new girl, she imposes the same condition to him. Will u agree? lol

I thought this is a pretty interesting topic so i bukak tered.
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post May 19 2025, 10:42 PM

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QUOTE(Selectt @ May 19 2025, 08:18 PM)
tak tau oh, tiada followup. I shocked to hear this at first. I believe not only my end, but it is a trend now. no one is forcing anyone to cook, it is just weird ass condition to be imposed in a marriage.

female reader, do u agree one day ur son marrying a new girl, she imposes the same condition to him. Will u agree? lol

I thought this is a pretty interesting topic so i bukak tered.
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I'll get my son to ask her why she doesn't wanna cook. If it sounds reasonable like very tired from work then my son should offer to cook with her. Or both of them can prepare the meals together during the weekends for weekdays' consumption.
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post May 20 2025, 11:39 AM

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QUOTE(parisiansky @ May 19 2025, 10:42 PM)
If it sounds reasonable like very tired from work then my son should offer to cook with her. Or both of them can prepare the meals together during the weekends for weekdays' consumption.
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hello, it is the condition upon marriage. which part hard to understand?

tired working or not working, she isnt going to cook.
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post May 20 2025, 11:42 AM

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if dont want to cook nvm
if dont know how to cook - susah

maggi mee or ramen is not cooking


anyway, if dont know how to cook - if i go out curi makan (figuratively and literally speaking) - dont drama lar when i come home

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post May 21 2025, 12:55 AM

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QUOTE(PoorButHumble @ May 19 2025, 03:02 PM)
Apa double standard? you can set the bar as high as you like, but if you can't attract the wimmin according to their standard, what can you do? ma end up forever alone lor. hard truth indeed difficult to swallow.

Unless.....

There were super independent career oriented woman willing to be with you, the mediocre person, are you okay to eat slipper rice? I'm not sure.
ei.. wimmin doesn't have cup that need to empty out the liquid every 2-3 days once. when wimmin never spread their leg, then curi makan outside. not a sex slave then what is that?

That's why it is so unfair, men can open thread kecam you wimmin just diam diam swallow. When wimmin start voicing out some senses, piss off you feminist, don't bring your SJW agenda here.

Halo, don't let me catch you curi parking at pink lot nia. If you want to reap the benefit, can. just cut off your gigantic bebird and starts wearing skirt/ high heels. You are welcome.
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Since you're not that polite in your post and seems like a troll, I'm not gonna hold back either.

I was pointing out the fallacies in your post that young women nowadays don't even do what you listed. At the same time, they demand the same requirements which they deemed to be enslaving on men and say "don't settle for less".

All of sudden, one post after another shoving that into my throat as if I set such a high requirement although I did say in the early of the thread that I don't even mind my wife doesn't cook and I don't mind to do it if it's steamed food.

What you said is very true but shouldn't be directed to me but your lots who set such high demands on men on social media but deem to be slavery when imposed on them.

And idk, men usually date down, not up. It's women who prefer to date up. Based on what you say, men date up are soft rice king, does that mean women who prefer to date up are also gold diggers? Apa double standard? Let's see if you are the epitome of double standard.

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post May 21 2025, 11:11 PM

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I suppose it depends on yr value.
Gina told Jaden. I won't cook or clean. But I know how to F and look good.
Up to you... 😁




Jaden said, obviously you don't have to cook or clean.
We will have a cook and housekeepers. 🀣




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post May 21 2025, 11:19 PM

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I expect both husband and wife are able to cook in case something happened(wife or husband sick). No one asked you to be a professional chef. Just able to do simple dish and task like cooking rice would be helpful for both. Not just one side that can cooking.

Cooking can learn. Its not a natural talent.

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