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QUOTE(feyhime @ Feb 27 2008, 03:33 PM)
I'll tell them to STFU XD
Okay jokes aside, but yes, that's what I am going to tell them if it happens because heck, it's my life. I am the one getting married, not them. Don't like? Then go somewhere else and b**** about it as long as you don't mess with my plan.
Not very likely to happen though since me and bf both Atheist. My mum is not very strict about religion, she'll definitely object on other serious matter rather than religion.
feyhime> Wow, you are sure stay strong on your own principle regardless the outcome. But then again, what paraniod said made sense as well. Btw, I'm a free thinker....I think

(although last time I did go through some sort of blessing ceremony conduct by my aunt, which I didn't even know which part of Christian shes from). So I pretty much clueless on what's Atheist teaching concentrate in. I went to few church in my town before with my friends(most of them are Christians) to observe the teaching. So far the church I went before are SDA(most the time), Trinity, Catholic and Anglican(I think I did

). Overall, I think each teaching has their own concept but most of them are similar in away. It's all leave out to the PEOPLE on how they practice it.
Btw, What other serious matter your mom would probably object ? Your BF too handsome
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QUOTE(paranoid @ Feb 27 2008, 06:15 PM)
it's not nice if you don't get blessings from parents.. nobody says u cant go for it.. anyway in the end it's up to both of you still..
a few things u have to also know
- your kids won't have grandparents' love
- no close cousins
- no close relatives
your family will be 'cut' out ... unless time heals ur parents' heart.. (buy them OSIM chair -see the advertisement??

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paraniod> It's very depend on how convincing your words towards your parent are. If you're good in reasoning and both side are truthful towards each other. I don't think of any reason why they would object. But definitely no such thing as cutting tie to the entire family tree(since you're not mafias or what so ever). Parents will always wish for the son & daughter to gain the happiness.
Unless the parents are freaking old ancient minded + stubborn people. Then only time can tell.