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feyhime
post Nov 13 2007, 06:10 PM

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Oh and I thought I was the only one getting annoyed with all the sex threads around, it's Girl's Club after all, not Sex Club. That or those annoying how to please the guy thread (it's just a guy, you won't die without one.).

I am on DS (Phoenix Wright, you so kills my brain cells!!) too and looting my bf's PSP to play FFT XD
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post Nov 14 2007, 09:35 AM

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skylinelover> Ahaha~ Car lover eh? I look at cars sometimes though I am not really well verse with it but ehe, at least I won't be lost when my bf talks about cars. But it's funny when some girl friends went bombastic with their "I can't believe you will rather look at cars and play games than to go shopping with us!" -dies-
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post Nov 15 2007, 11:15 AM

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QUOTE(sense_less143 @ Nov 14 2007, 04:50 PM)
i need suggestion on a neutral topic which us girls can talk about. can see many stray le. my suggestions:

books- fav chick lit, usually
film - fav films to watch with girlfriends
music - i love pop shuvit n jpop smile.gif
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Hmm I am not sure myself. Maybe something more general than just limiting it to chick stuff? I am not even familiar with chick stuff myself ( doh.gif )

QUOTE(skylinelover @ Nov 14 2007, 11:28 PM)
i see. biggrin.gif well not only i am a car lover but car enthusiasts now because i know quite a lot of technical side on each cars. even a lot of guys kinda impressed with me 4 that.  rclxms.gif

anyway, these girls seriously need 2 open their mind up. my girlfriends also sometimes give me a weird impression when they know that i am a different type of girl. i mean there is really nothing wrong to be totally different girl what. haiz! anyway i dont really care about it after all. no big deal. better move on with life than 2 deal with these kind of girls.
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Ohh hahaha XD I am hopeless with any technical.

Yeah but it's common that people will shut off people that they considered out of norms out of fear of the unknown, I suppose? I am not really bothered by them since I have another group of friends who share the same interest, so I hang out with them a lot. As for those girls, sweat.gif I can hardly share anything with them, the only think they talk about is boys, shopping, boys, beauty, boys or gossip. Although there's nothing wrong with it but I get bored easily with them since I have no interest with those topics. They are nice people though, but too enclosed with the few things they knew and are unwilling to explore new things.


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post Nov 19 2007, 11:14 AM

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LOL Welcome back Gladys! MIA for so long, go where? XD

spunkberry> ahaha, Gladys is a girl XD

Sleepover with guy best friend is like asking for an immediate death sentence. I do hang out more often with guys too thanks to my interest. I can say I enjoy hanging out with guys better than girls because there's a larger variety of conversations. But yeah, like spunkberry put it, it's possible for a girl to become guy's best friend. I have a few of them and we all knew it all along that we are all JUST BEST FRIENDS and nothing more. Any hinky pinky must get out of your system. It's not easy at the beginning but after a while, you get used to it that your 'friends' pile will never become your 'gf/bf' pile. (Or guys I hang out with are also 'abnormal'?)




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post Nov 19 2007, 05:28 PM

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Yukirin> I am one of them. XD

There's a lot of female gamers. You simply need to know where to find them XD Otherwise I won't have a bunch of female gamer friends with me all the time.
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post Nov 20 2007, 10:36 AM

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QUOTE(Gladys @ Nov 19 2007, 10:20 PM)
the spunkbarry eat wrong medic eh? same stmt i'll throw back to her, kettle black shemale. yawn.gif

wat game u playing feyhime? im hanging ard ss2 CC n bz with work nowadays.. no topic can post in GC until this one comes up doh.gif
last time the magazine female gamer interview one, memang scamm x1, no news then take the "resume" MIA.. omg. dry.gif
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Ehh, it's a scam? Then all the profiling you did wasted lor? No wonder no news already...

I am playing Final Fantasy Tactics on PSP and Phoenix Wright 3 on NDSL now. I am not so much into PC games, more to consoles and hand-held. Yeah agree, I don't even bother to click open those threads these days unless I feel like laughing but they are so repetitive it's not funny anymore.


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post Nov 20 2007, 02:32 PM

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Yukirin> zenzen is used with negative nouns/verbs, no? >> watashi zenzen sukunai! (suki -> plain form sentence -> use nai-form). amari & zenzen (negative), sukoshi & totemo (positive). positive phrase will go>> watashi totemo daisuki!

At least that's what I am thought in Japanese class.
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post Nov 21 2007, 02:05 PM

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Yukirin> Ehehe I am attending Japanese class, doing Intermediate now. JLPT coming (>"<).

Gladys> LOL Hahaha XD I pity those who really did the profiling and all, wasted. Yeah I read the Relationship Jokes. Funny stuff, good ones too XD

Hey, then stay in here and chat ba.

Oh yeah, I believe one issue that always becomes a bother to every girls hitting mid-20s. The "When are you getting married?" questions XD

How do you all deal with it?
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post Nov 21 2007, 06:04 PM

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QUOTE(sense_less143 @ Nov 21 2007, 04:37 PM)
I said i dunt want to get married, which, i must say, shuts the trap from those people smile.gif

The thing is I'm attractive enough for them to not think that nobody would want me, so there's that la.

but seriously, i do think that marriage is overrated. *say* I get married, I dont want to live with him/her. I love my personal space to much.. lol/
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Well I said all those, it doesn't work doh.gif The only way them seem to shut up is when I start throwing rude answers at them doh.gif My cousin sister is funny, she actually said "I am not getting married! I don't want to end becoming like you when I grow old." Wow that really ... wow laugh.gif

Yeah marriage is so overrated. But a lot of people seems to think that marriage is the only important thing in a girl's life and try to force that opinion on them. Not that it's not important, but then marriage is a very personal thing, so why go and bother other people about theirs when it doesn't concern yourself right? rclxub.gif


QUOTE(Yukirin @ Nov 21 2007, 04:38 PM)

» Click to show Spoiler - click again to hide... «
JLPT = Japanese Language Proficiency Test

Well those that you suggested works with your own parents and friends, but with relative... doh.gif even worse if your relative happens to be more traditional. It's very annoying if they keep asking you the same thing every time there's a family gathering.

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post Nov 22 2007, 10:01 AM

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QUOTE(sense_less143 @ Nov 21 2007, 09:39 PM)
btw feyhime--> I love your sig. It's that guy from The king and the clown right? That's one of my fav movie.

I love that he looks so feminine in the movie lol.
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Ehehe Yeap, Lee Junki. Yeah he looks so feminine in the movie... my mum who was watching with me keep asking me if he is a guy or girl... doh.gif


QUOTE(spunkberry @ Nov 22 2007, 03:01 AM)
lol I'm almost 20 and I haven't had anybody bothering me with that question yet...but my mom does know that I don't really wanna get married. Dad gets pissed off about that
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Wait a few more year XD

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post Nov 23 2007, 09:34 AM

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Nikki> Haha like which girl will actually that sorts of questions anyway?

yeap clash of interests do make it hard to mix around sometimes. Even if we are willing to learn or join in with them, it's going to turn really displeasing after a while.

What other music do you listen to?

Somebody need to get some topic up to discuss XD This is getting really boring.. sense_less?
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post Nov 26 2007, 09:49 AM

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QUOTE(sense_less143 @ Nov 23 2007, 09:35 PM)

yaoi rocks!!!


Added on November 23, 2007, 9:39 pm

Currently obsessed with Peter Pan Musical's soundtrack. want to go again no money. So just hear online at flypeterpan.com X.x

btw, suggest some smile.gif
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Wahaha~ Yes Yaoi rocks~ Ahaks! tongue.gif

I am not sure if you would even like what I listen to XD I am on soundtracks and orchestra these days. I find the usual market songs full of craps and they are barely audible either >"<

QUOTE(nickisthemost @ Nov 24 2007, 02:36 PM)
actually there are still many things to talk about, how bout

girls what is your vision and goals in life, just want to know do you guys think about that, cheers happy.gif
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Vision in life? I want to be financially stable and successful in my career, travel the world and help in women's and family aid campaigns.
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post Nov 28 2007, 11:00 AM

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No, I am not bothered by date and day, I barely even register what day and date today is XD At the end of a bad day, I'll care more about going home and head to my bed and sleep!
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post Nov 28 2007, 01:40 PM

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I don't care about those specific days, am not superstitious. tongue.gif
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post Dec 3 2007, 09:15 AM

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QUOTE(Yukirin @ Nov 30 2007, 10:05 AM)
Ok girls, I found a topic which is quite disturbing in my point of view but I think I should share with all of you here since here is a free chat thread. Anyway, here it is,
This issue was first twitch the whole world when the Japan PM give the following Statement at March this year

» Click to show Spoiler - click again to hide... «

I really don't know what to say....speechless. What do all the fellow girls think ?

If you view the BBC News website, there's lot more source on this issue. The case was first brought to court on March 2003 (which is 5 year ago from now) by all the victims. Here's the SOS

I guess old scar wounds don't heal overtime eh


edit: Added more SOS, Anyway if this is inappropriate for this thread PLEASE LET ME KNOW. I WILL REMOVE IT. 
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Like sense_less143, I don't follow the case because to me, it's rather redundant.

Sure, the Japanese have committed the offence during WW2, but it's a war and it every war there will be crime committed, heck the war itself is a crime to humanity. And in every war, your enemies are the heroes of their own country. While the victim thinks that their actions violates them, to the enemy, it may be a right thing to do. They, after all is at war with you, they don't have to think about your well being. If they do, they won't even be attacking your country. It's cruel, every war is cruel.

I think the issue was over-hyped. Sure, they want apologies, but heck what can the apologises do to your life? It makes you feels better? I doubt it. Rape isn't something you can forgive with a mere sorry and monetary refund, it stays in your mind for a very long time. It's so much more productive to move on with your life.

Admit history? What history? History are biased in the winner eyes. Japanese may have lose the war, but in their homeland, they still fought bravely for their emperor, they are still heroes in their country. Why would they even care about you? (Logically, no enemies will give a damn about some unnamed victim they trampled upon).

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post Dec 4 2007, 11:50 AM

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QUOTE(sense_less143 @ Dec 3 2007, 06:25 PM)
Hmm harsh, but I guess that's your view. still, i feel that it'd be better if they apologised. Then the case would go away by itself and not be that big a deal anymore.

on another note, I do feel that wars are cruel, but I think it's necessary for humankind progression as well. I don't like war, but looking back in history, because of war something or other necessary for humans was invented. Like penecilin (that's panadol for you), computers, ect. I cant think of more examples right now, but desperation accelerates technology.

I mean, we're on lowyat right now because of wars (internet was invented in the military btw). Funny how things turn out sometimes.
Ehee the world is harsh XD
The thing is, IF you have been raped, would any apologies helps at all? Because at the end of the day, anyone can claim that they are sincere about it and still not be sincere about it anyway. But meh XD It's their problem and I digress.

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prove that girls are capable of talking about thing other than boys and makeup lol smile.gif
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post Dec 5 2007, 04:46 PM

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QUOTE(Yukirin @ Dec 4 2007, 04:23 PM)
I try not to continue any topic relating to rapes now. Kinda made me more depress after a stressful work. Ok, new topic.

I've been wondering....Does anyone of you believe human have both "angel/devil" side ? I try not to sound superstitious but in reality I do believe that human have both side no matter how innocent they look. Just the only the matter of time when the right "key" leads the door to open the devil side.
P.S: After a stressful work trying to light up the mood  cool.gif then continue to work again
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Well I am sure everyone has their good and bad sides, if not we must all be just angels or devils and not human, no? tongue.gif
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post Dec 7 2007, 10:52 AM

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Well I suppose what borders between good and bad is rather subjective.

But on the general, the bads are what you did to gain something for yourself at the expenses of others (even if it hurts the others tremendously in the process).

While the goods is something you do that will bring good outcomes to yourself and people around you?
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post Dec 7 2007, 01:56 PM

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QUOTE(Yukirin @ Dec 7 2007, 11:33 AM)
Ahh...someone began to question the teaching of humanity nod.gif .
Good points. But with all these thought in mind. Have we ever question the act that we did ourselves ? To generate a win-win solution was not always possible. Therefore, humans tend to curve their "road" to gain what they want, is it not ? Be it at working, business or relationship, nearly everything that we do, always bring results that lead to some loses to other. Think about it.
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Well obviously it's no possible to always be in a win-win solution but I suppose you can always try to take an option with the less damage dealt. That's the least you can do when you are left with choices that will hurt one way or another. Unless of course if you are a heartless *******/b**** XD laugh.gif

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Sense_less

Point to the answer above yours XD



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