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post Apr 13 2025, 08:11 PM

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QUOTE(Skylinestar @ Apr 13 2025, 11:07 AM)
the main question is where?
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Dating apps lo. Some girls want older guys. Matchmaking site.
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post Apr 19 2025, 10:08 PM

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If you are above 40s, why wanna get married? It comes with a lot of pitfalls.
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post Apr 25 2025, 12:06 PM

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Funny, I know couple of men and women who are nearing 40s and still no partner IRL. But when I offered to intro, they are all not interested. Then I find posts like this... <scratches head>
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QUOTE(sikongma @ Apr 25 2025, 12:06 PM)
Funny, I know couple of men and women who are nearing 40s and still no partner IRL. But when I offered to intro, they are all not interested. Then I find posts like this... <scratches head>
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because some people want their own finding, not friend/relative recommendations
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post Apr 26 2025, 12:21 PM

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QUOTE(LDP @ Apr 19 2025, 10:08 PM)
If you are above 40s, why wanna get married? It comes with a lot of pitfalls.
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Once you are 60s and beyond, its more challenging being alone.
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post Apr 26 2025, 10:33 PM

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QUOTE(sikongma @ Apr 25 2025, 12:06 PM)
Funny, I know couple of men and women who are nearing 40s and still no partner IRL. But when I offered to intro, they are all not interested. Then I find posts like this... <scratches head>
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if pretty/handsome, sure ppl want

if not pretty/handsome, ppl also puke.gif

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post Apr 29 2025, 12:09 PM

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QUOTE(Blofeld @ Apr 26 2025, 10:33 PM)
if pretty/handsome, sure ppl want

if not pretty/handsome, ppl also  puke.gif
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The people I know are neither super pretty nor handsome but there are traces of good looks during their younger days, after all, what do you expect out of 40+?
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post Apr 29 2025, 12:33 PM

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QUOTE(Cubalagi @ Apr 8 2025, 09:10 PM)
You find them the same ways like when you were in your late 20s and 30s. Dating apps, social events, work, friends of friends.

In my late 40s I was dating women between 25
and 35 years old. My gf now is 17 years younger than me and we have been together 3 years.
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now you are in your 50s.
gf is around 30s. u married?
how's life plan so far?
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post Apr 30 2025, 03:08 PM

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QUOTE(vaksin @ Apr 29 2025, 12:33 PM)
now you are in your 50s.
gf is around 30s. u married?
how's life plan so far?
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Life can hv suprising twists and turns.

Im a divorcee with 1 kid studying overseas.

Stay alone. Gf comes over once a while to sleepover. My cleaning lady comes by more often then her.

I would say life is quite peaceful now.
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post Apr 30 2025, 04:44 PM

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QUOTE(Cubalagi @ Apr 30 2025, 03:08 PM)
Life can hv suprising twists and turns.

Im a divorcee with 1 kid studying overseas.

Stay alone. Gf comes over once a while to sleepover. My cleaning lady comes by more often then her.

I would say life is quite peaceful now.
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Shocking... but I guess that's how things turn out to be...
can happen to anybody...
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post Apr 30 2025, 06:16 PM

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QUOTE(Skylinestar @ Apr 6 2025, 02:32 PM)
most single people at this age are extremely tied to work. working on weekends or public holidays are normal, or just busy with family stuff (take care old parents, entertain relatives, etc).

where to find potential bf/gf when you are more than 40 years old?

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where to find? maybe those internet sites.

But maybe you want to try dating agencies? websites?

I think is ok to find relationship at 40

i know people who got married at 40 or above.

Even got children, but these are rich guys or people who can work after 60yo due to own businesses or partnerships.

If you are just a salaried guy, better find marriage but not have children. Unless you have a big inheritance from your dad.
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QUOTE(vaksin @ Apr 30 2025, 04:44 PM)
Shocking... but I guess that's how things turn out to be...
can happen to anybody...
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What is the shocking part?
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post May 2 2025, 08:22 AM

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QUOTE(Cubalagi @ May 1 2025, 09:14 AM)
What is the shocking part?
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life is so unpredictable.
I can't imagine being in that situation. laugh.gif
interesting, exciting & challenging also.
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post May 2 2025, 11:16 AM

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QUOTE(vaksin @ May 2 2025, 08:22 AM)
life is so unpredictable.
I can't imagine being in that situation.  laugh.gif
interesting, exciting & challenging also.
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Most life challenges are manageable, recoverable.some even turns things better.

The really hard ones are death, critical illness and permanent disabilities.
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QUOTE(Skylinestar @ Apr 6 2025, 02:32 PM)
most single people at this age are extremely tied to work. working on weekends or public holidays are normal, or just busy with family stuff (take care old parents, entertain relatives, etc).

where to find potential bf/gf when you are more than 40 years old?

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maybe you want to try lunch actually or esynchrony
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post May 18 2025, 02:07 PM

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single and available here.. lol.. over 40. Time flies.. joined here in my early 20s
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post Jun 19 2025, 04:50 PM

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Lots of places u can start with playing sports using these: RE CLUB App , CLASS PASS App, etc. just go and join them to play pickle ball, tennis, etc.... lot of single girls r there.....
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QUOTE(Afterburner1.0 @ Jun 19 2025, 04:50 PM)
Lots of places u can start with playing sports using these: RE CLUB App , CLASS PASS App, etc. just go and join them to play pickle ball, tennis, etc.... lot of single girls r there.....
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these apps only focus on city area. I live in sub urb. there's nothing within 20km radius from my house.
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post Jun 19 2025, 08:30 PM

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QUOTE(Skylinestar @ Jun 19 2025, 05:16 PM)
these apps only focus on city area. I live in sub urb. there's nothing within 20km radius from my house.
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Short rental in city
Find your partner

Go back sub urb!
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QUOTE(jasonlim @ Jun 19 2025, 08:30 PM)
Short rental in city
Find your partner

Go back sub urb!
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you mean weekend getaway?
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