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TSSkylinestar
post Apr 6 2025, 02:32 PM, updated 2 months ago

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most single people at this age are extremely tied to work. working on weekends or public holidays are normal, or just busy with family stuff (take care old parents, entertain relatives, etc).

where to find potential bf/gf when you are more than 40 years old?

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This post has been edited by Skylinestar: Apr 6 2025, 05:13 PM
TSSkylinestar
post Apr 13 2025, 11:05 AM

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QUOTE(-mystery- @ Apr 9 2025, 06:47 PM)
after 18 years old, educations are optional
It doesn't mean coming out as spm holder will determine the person life for the rest of it as low income earner
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do you know how hard it is to get a gf if your education level is only spm?
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post Apr 13 2025, 11:07 AM

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QUOTE(killdavid @ Apr 8 2025, 11:16 PM)
Above 40 i would say just forget about marriage and kids.
Find someone who you are comfortable with as a companion and do life stuff together. Anytime fall out if love just separate. If can find a young one then lucky you. Else find the leftover or used market. You might find someone who have matured into fine wine.
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the main question is where?
TSSkylinestar
post Apr 25 2025, 12:50 PM

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QUOTE(sikongma @ Apr 25 2025, 12:06 PM)
Funny, I know couple of men and women who are nearing 40s and still no partner IRL. But when I offered to intro, they are all not interested. Then I find posts like this... <scratches head>
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because some people want their own finding, not friend/relative recommendations
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post Jun 19 2025, 05:16 PM

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QUOTE(Afterburner1.0 @ Jun 19 2025, 04:50 PM)
Lots of places u can start with playing sports using these: RE CLUB App , CLASS PASS App, etc. just go and join them to play pickle ball, tennis, etc.... lot of single girls r there.....
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these apps only focus on city area. I live in sub urb. there's nothing within 20km radius from my house.
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post Jun 19 2025, 08:38 PM

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QUOTE(jasonlim @ Jun 19 2025, 08:30 PM)
Short rental in city
Find your partner

Go back sub urb!
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you mean weekend getaway?
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post Sep 30 2025, 12:00 PM

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QUOTE(kawa_e @ Sep 30 2025, 11:27 AM)
As for my friend. He doesn't mind as long the lady is fertile.
That's about it.
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he's too desperate for kids. I don't. some women don't too. so it becomes harder.
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post Sep 30 2025, 04:03 PM

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QUOTE(Ramjade @ Sep 30 2025, 03:24 PM)
Tinder not for serious relationship.
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why do you think so?
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post Sep 30 2025, 05:34 PM

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QUOTE(Ramjade @ Sep 30 2025, 04:11 PM)
If you see reviews online it is mainly for hookups.
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I don't think MY has hookup culture (especially among Chinese).

 

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