You find them the same ways like when you were in your late 20s and 30s. Dating apps, social events, work, friends of friends.

In my late 40s I was dating women between 25
and 35 years old. My gf now is 17 years younger than me and we have been together 3 years.

Life can hv suprising twists and turns.

Im a divorcee with 1 kid studying overseas.

Stay alone. Gf comes over once a while to sleepover. My cleaning lady comes by more often then her.

I would say life is quite peaceful now.

What is the shocking part?

i have also recently got divorced and back on market.  And i'm my late 30s, no kids.  People say men age grow like fine wine but i do not agree entirely.

I do not prefer 20s girl, so the choices would be limited to 30-35, and women in this category are mostly either married or taken, hence our choices became smaller and smaller.

What we looking for is a companion to grow old and spend daily time together, but it seems not so easy to find the "right one" nowadays.