the main question is where?

Very strategic indeed. Good advise i have to say. I just found myself in situations that are often not as black and white as i would expect

Hi guys,

Just want to chimp in. There are many ladies in their mid 30s who are also looking for companionship. It is not just guys. It is a lot harder for them because men are date younger women due to fertility.

Also, mind share why some of you guys divorced ?

I have a friend who probably downloaded CMB/Tinder/Bumble/etc and  matched with a girl. They are already exclusive in a month. He is in his late 30s too and the girl is in her early 30. To me he date down. He just wanted to settle to have kids.

My question is finding partner using dating apps hard ? I have never used it before.

i tried tinder earlier this year coz i felt i'm ready to maybe try a companion instead of a full on relationship with marriage as the end goal.

so far nothing real, a couple of scammers....i'm starting to think maybe it's my marriage's trauma is not fully over yet, i keep seeing red flags whenever i start talking to other women....

why do you think so?

I don't think MY has hookup culture (especially among Chinese).