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TSnicole_4ever
post Apr 10 2025, 12:20 PM

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QUOTE(killdavid @ Apr 10 2025, 11:27 AM)
How you manage to catch one from different country ?
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We are like everybody else, met through an app but not tinder or bumble.. I would like not to share which app. I don't know how to get the story straight but we hv been talking for more than a year without i realizing is a same person. He has been used a different user account to approached me and I accepted his proposed to get together. After 2 months and a half i think , he was exposed as a same person along with 12 dupe accounts and one of his account that has been talking with me (i thought he is a girl until been exposed ) for a year and he had a girl friend from Malaysia as well. Together for 1 year. 🫠😵‍💫😵‍💫😵‍💫😵‍💫😵‍💫😵‍💫. In short, i am dumb folded all along.


His gf also playing the app also.. Same room and been talking to me.... Really topkek.

And what happened next is.. He choose me, broke up with his 1 year gf and he transferred all his accounts to his friend and blocked his ex in Line, watsapp. He is quite famous there in that app and never use a single cent lol.

We both stopped hanging in that app and hence i back to /k.

🫠🫠🫠🫠🫠🫠🫠🫠
TSnicole_4ever
post Apr 10 2025, 12:25 PM

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QUOTE(Chaud @ Apr 10 2025, 11:10 AM)
how long you been together?

maybe he forget after the long day. give him time to remember calling u everyday
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I guess about 6 months already.

Still honeymoon period i guess

Never ever once raise his voice to me even i get mad sometime 😅
Takudan
post Apr 10 2025, 11:18 PM

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QUOTE(nicole_4ever @ Apr 10 2025, 12:20 PM)
We are like everybody else, met through an app but not tinder or bumble.. I would like not to share which app. I don't know how to get the story straight but we hv been talking for more than a year without i realizing is a same person. He has been used a different user account to approached me and I accepted his proposed to get together. After 2 months and a half i think , he was exposed as a same person along with 12 dupe accounts and one of his account that has been talking with me (i thought he is a girl until been exposed ) for a year and he had a girl friend from Malaysia as well. Together for 1 year. 🫠😵‍💫😵‍💫😵‍💫😵‍💫😵‍💫😵‍💫. In short, i am dumb folded all along.
His gf also playing the app also.. Same room and been talking to me.... Really topkek.

And what happened next is.. He choose me, broke up with his 1 year gf and he transferred all his accounts to his friend and blocked his ex in Line, watsapp. He is quite famous there in that app and never use a single cent lol.

We both stopped hanging in that app and hence i back to /k.

🫠🫠🫠🫠🫠🫠🫠🫠
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You gotta try harder to tell your story lol. From what I read there:
- he two timed on you. Heck, 12 dupe accounts meant that he was spreading his seeds everywhere (figuratively... Who knows literally too)
- he lied to you, so how is he suddenly honest now?
- famous in the app? If it's a dating/hookup app then that sounds very wrong lol

Maybe your insecurities came from those facts above: he surely doesn't paint a picture of loyalty/faithfulness there.
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post Apr 10 2025, 11:22 PM

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QUOTE(nicole_4ever @ Apr 2 2025, 12:38 PM)
Can you list some of your partner find you to argue about by most of the time? And how frequent is that?

Is this normal or something i need to aware of?

I think i being over react when he didn't call me or watsapp me within certan period of time. For example:

Yesterday he went supper around probably 11.30pm with his boss and before he hang up, i told him to call me before he sleep. So around 2am i haven't receive his call and i am almost explode out of it. He did called back explaining his phone out of service when i call him. (He is not from Malaysia and ldr)

Is this some kind of insecure? Sigh. I feel bad whenever get angry over this and he said its ok be cause he said i love him. 🙄😅
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Out of service? Probably dunwan any unwanted calls during that time..
Good luck TS

TSnicole_4ever
post Apr 11 2025, 12:30 AM

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QUOTE(Takudan @ Apr 10 2025, 11:18 PM)
You gotta try harder to tell your story lol. From what I read there:
- he two timed on you. Heck, 12 dupe accounts meant that he was spreading his seeds everywhere (figuratively... Who knows literally too)
- he lied to you, so how is he suddenly honest now?
- famous in the app? If it's a dating/hookup app then that sounds very wrong lol

Maybe your insecurities came from those facts above: he surely doesn't paint a picture of loyalty/faithfulness there.
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Nvm about the past but probably yoy are right.

Insecure coz of that lol....

Since decided edi.. Then just do our best tto grow old together.

Hope the next thread i open is a good news

Thanks guys for the talk and advice.

🥹see you all at /k

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