Argument is common. To maintain/improve a relationship, you need to learn how to argue.
Key points:
- negative emotions will come and you can't control that. But you CAN control it better by 1) understand why you're feeling so, then 2) be conscious of your own emotions and take seconds to think/breathe before you let your raw emotions out. Lastly, 3) communicate to the other about (1) so that that other person understands you or better yet, do something to prevent similar situations in the future.
- it's ok to take time out, but always attach a time limit to it + remind each other you still care, you just need to cool down and think. Without deadline, cold war will continue even for years (true story I heard from 988 Chan Fong 😅)
- argument is often caused by mismatch of something -- find out what and see if either/both sides can agree to something. Sometimes you agree to disagree and that's okay as long as both now understand each other's view. You will learn to compromise in a way or another as long as you still care.
Silly argument
Apr 3 2025, 01:47 AM
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