Can you list some of your partner find you to argue about by most of the time? And how frequent is that?

Is this normal or something i need to aware of?

I think i being over react when he didn't call me or watsapp me within certan period of time. For example:

Yesterday he went supper around probably 11.30pm with his boss and before he hang up, i told him to call me before he sleep. So around 2am i haven't receive his call and i am almost explode out of it. He did called back explaining his phone out of service when i call him. (He is not from Malaysia and ldr)

Is this some kind of insecure? Sigh. I feel bad whenever get angry over this and he said its ok be cause he said i love him. 🙄😅

This post has been edited by nicole_4ever: Apr 2 2025, 11:38 AM

ldr is risky AND hes not from malaysia, good luck, even different states have to think twice...

This post has been edited by ctys2012: Apr 2 2025, 11:55 AM

if started here and short term ldr ok, if gonna be long, dun think gonna work out right

Was that just a one-time occurrence? If so, then I’d brush it off and c’est la vie.

If it does happen often, then it could be he’s not that considerate of your feelings. You can have a heart-to-heart chat with him then.

To answer you, we both decided to work this out and of course, easier said than done. Many times i told him, a lot of nice and more pretty women in Taiwan and whenever your feeling has change, let me know. No matter how many times i told him, he seems really stick to me.

Actually few times similar issues like this eg not mesaaging at all during the day but getting better after some confrontation.

At least one message or few until night time before our video call lol. If u ask me, i trust him he is working 100% during the day

Well, kinda too late 🥹

fuiyoo...taiwanese bf.

First advice
Chill. Men don’t like woman up their a55es.

Second advice
Be more confident of yourself and don’t doubt the man. If you doubt the man and he makes you insecure just end the relationship. Your insecurity is a YOU problem not a him problem.

If he chooses to cheat on you there’s nothing you can do and it’s not your fault. Note the keyword he choose to cheat. You install a chastity belt with biometric lock also useless if he wants to cheat, he will figure a way out.

The silly argument men enjoy is “my fav choc cake sold out, pout, told you come earlier why you so slow, now no more” then give him chance to cheer you up and make it up to you. These “argument” is just banter. And it’s not a pain to the guy. If you’re a constant pain, he’ll just get rid of you.

Means he love you so much, give him some space so that he feel more comfortable and relax 😍❤️🔥

Congrats Nicole found your other half.

Silly argument may look sweet from 3rd party POV, but it can be toxic if it wasn't addressed/ignored and slowly accumulated as ammunition for next bigger argument.

looking at the comment of 3rd party, majority seems similar. the rest is for yourself to digest.

to just answer your question in regards - he maybe too tired to call/ its a bit of late, don't want to wake u up/ he sense there maybe argument if call. there is a lot of variables

So what happened next is i asked, do you feel stress for me being acting that way? He still say no because i love him and care about him and he still add: if you dont love that person (himself), you think you will give a damn?

🥹😅 End up he will justify for my reaction. 😵‍💫

This post has been edited by nicole_4ever: Apr 2 2025, 05:29 PM

Yea, he really do. He is really different. 😵‍💫

… did he just indirectly imply that he didn’t give a damn on your attitude?

Just kidding. I was in your same situation before, but that is before our relationship confirmed. After confirmed then everything went well so far for over a decade now.

How long has the relationship lasted? If already few years, congrats you found someone who willing to give and take. If only few months, better change something before too late.

I think about half year now or more. The way we met also funny and also how to get together also funny story 😅

My feeling says he is the right person 🥹

Good luck for both of you guys, just be positive 🤞😎👍🔥

He is right for you doesn’t mean the other way round 🤣

Just kidding again. But on a serious note, since it is ldr so he might still feel some freedom. Imagine if stay together and you want to control him over into 25th hour of the day, not many can take it especially the type that enjoy hang out with people well over midnight.

😂😂 true. Sigh. Change myself instead. Don't gv him stress 🫠

Thanks dude. 🥹